Date men and women from United States / California / Pacific Palisades, 49 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. My idea of a perfect night is snuggling on the couch with a lovely human and some lovely canines (though "lovely canine" is surely a redundancy) watching a good movie or HBO show, or reading a wonderful book. I am blessed to have a beautiful home on the bluffs and most nights there are not all that many places I would rather be than at home (though perhaps at your home). That doesn't mean I never want to go out -- an easy dinner in the neighborhood is a joy. So is a day at the beach with the dogs -- or a road-trip. But I am not much for constant travel or the loud party scene. Dinner parties at our house, however? Nothing gives me more pleasure than gathering together warm and interesting people for a night of conviviality.
More about me: I was a semi serious musician for a while, and I worked in television news for a while. I have hosted radio talk shows. Now I write about animal rights - I have a blog, newspaper articles and a beautifully reviewed recent book on the issue. It is nice to feel that I have found my calling.
While I have that serious side, I am also warm and poised and friendly -- definitely a smiler. And super playful -- love to giggle and be merry, perhaps over a lovely Cotes du Rhone or Hendricks martini, and embrace the joie de vivre. If my date doesn't drink I am just as happy with a near-beer.
My perfect match is smart, beautiful, accomplished and kind. I write "accomplished" because as I am accomplished and well-known in my field I have noticed that I tend to be both attracted to and attractive to men who are similarly so. But I am not sure that's a deal-breaker. So many unexpected variables go into making a relationship work -- or not.
I do think his interests probably lie beyond having a good time -- there is a good chance that he is actively involved in trying to make a difference in this world. Or that idea appeals to him, even if he isn't doing all that much yet. If offering me loads of warm support and encouragement in my quest is his way of contributing, that could work too.
He'll be romantic -- now and five years down the line. I will never wear flannel pajamas and he'll never treat me as if I'm wearing them.
He'll love that for the sake of our earth I often shop at the Salvation Army yet generally look like a million bucks. If he wants to buy me an occasional gorgeous dress at a beautiful boutique for the pleasure of showing me off in it I am open for that too.
He is funny.
He is affectionate. After the loving he'll wrap me in his arms and hold me close all night long. He will sleep best that way. And he'll love sitting and having coffee or tea together in bed in the morning, and laughing and talking and whatever.
He takes care of his body.
If he has kids I will be thrilled and will hope to consider them part of my family, and I know he will feel the same way about my canine kids.
He is probably well read and there is a good chance he has high-brow taste in literature and films and art. But that is not a must.
There is one must -- he must be kind. Compassion is the measure of a man.
It would be lovely if he were vegetarian or vegan. He'll certainly respect my vegan lifestyle and enjoy sometimes going out for hot sake and avocado rolls at the local sushi bar or gorgeous middle Eastern platters or veggie Thai food. And he'll be delighted by the vegan gourmet feasts I conjure up for him -- and for whomever we are entertaining. If he is so committed to meat that he needs it at every meal then I worry that we might not work -- it would take a lot of physical attraction to overcome that one!
Speaking of physical attraction: All of my photos were taken within the last three years and three pounds.
Please let me know that yours were too.

Meet men and women from California, United States. I like to make play from most anything given half a chance. I'm athletic lite but soft and feminine, high energy but love slowing down, cozying up in front of the fire with my sweetheart...and then, well, makin’ our own fire together. I'm grateful for and savor the simple things, am affectionate, comfortable with myself (selves) and genuinely enjoy sharing my life and home w/ my treasured family and close friends. My main attention goes to the man I adore, receiving his love and care, and giving him VIP treatment in every way. I'm wired for monogamy – still, I find that heaps of freedom in a partnership make for happy partners. In work, play and love, I tend to do things that make my heart hammer – the adventure keeps me open and verrry humble. I have strong creative and practical sides. I'm more of an “idea” person than a “thing” person, relishing music, the arts and mind-bending conversation over shopping of any stripe. I cycle to the beach and meditate at the ocean many mornings, with a yoga chaser. I crave the outdoors and am puppy-happy at the ocean or mountains. I am hooked on weekly salsa and tango dancing, and on sketching live nudes – spellbound by the human physique. I'm breathless before art that shows love, sweat and skill; thus, Firenze. Avid fan of film, theater, live jazz and world music. My down-time default is reading – fiction, history, philosophy, just about anything that breaks the mind’s barriers or just makes me lol. I'm charitable, tho' allergic to the board/committee thing. I enjoy travel and free-falling into different cultures. I'll try most anything new so long as I look only slightly foolish and come out mostly alive. I am authentic and gently direct. And personal growth? It's 1 step forward, 2 steps back. In stormy weather, after the panic, I try to get thru with compassion, forgiveness, heartfelt support and trustworthiness - it’s just how we were raised. I practice some Jewish traditions and mainline Jewish and other spiritual learning. The real-life wisdom that has shaped me most, though, has come from my own false steps, a few priceless people and a few gemstone universal truths..which I get and forget...over and over.
IF THE WEB-FAIRY GRANTED MY WISH
You can laugh at yourself – at least as much as you laugh at (with?) me. You're at home with yourself and truly want a loving, playful, life-long intimacy with a woman.You're an inner-strength, naturally protective kinda guy, inspiring my respect and tenderlovin'care. You're responsible and still take the meaningful, heart-racing risks in life – personal, creative and financial. You are mostly a curious, joyful person who has a yen for learning and experiences of any sort. When you get hit with life’s hardships, you rant, grieve and still move on. When the disagreements come, you get it out and then get on to the peace and the understanding - you're not very interested in grudges or guilt. You are accomplished and financially well-established. You spend time on good health and regularly slow down to smell the roses. You have invested in knowing yourself – good and bad, and stay open to change and growth. You get that there is a Being way bigger than we, and have a knee-bending, mystified respect for that force - which casually trumps us at every turn. You've got juicy love in your life with family or friends. You're honest and take pleasure in giving. Your compassion and conscience nudge you to do the right thing...mostly. You like that we each have full lives with plenty of time both together and apart so that we get a chance to miss each other. You’ve surrendered to the fact that girls really are planets apart from boys and therein lies the magical attraction. Still, we’re both made from the same stuff as stars and so have universes in common. But when you get down to the nitty-gritty, you love - just hangin' with your honey, yummy meals at home, back rubs, belly laughs, a good listener on a tough day and affection plus-plus run amok.

Date people from California, United States. I am inspired by my kids and my clients who survive adversity remarkably well.
My career: I am grateful to have my own very busy law office with an incredible and supportive staff.
Social life: My friends would describe me as busy, outgoing, social, caring and generous. I currently serve on two non-profit Boards.
My passions include kids, travel, Zumba classes, yoga and hiking. I recently joined a paddle tennis league, but I'm a terrible player!
Personal motto: To be truly happy, one must be productive and feel loved.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am a widow and former molecular biologist. Currently I freelance as a Biotech Intellectual Property Attorney.
My real passion is for the arts and so I am working on my memoir, dancing ballet daily, and going to as many performances and art shows I can attend.
I have been told I am a gourmet cook, which I do cook a great deal. I love discovering good wines for under $40.
My other passion is learning about people, how others think, react, what they have experienced and struggled through in their personal lives. I find nothing more fascinating than learning about what makes someone "tick."
My goal for the foreseeable future is to travel as much as possible, to become personally and actively involved in the arts in a meaningful way, and to enjoy as many good meals and good wine as possible.
I am looking for someone who would blend well with my attributes, someone with differences to keep things interesting and new, someone with tolerance and patience. A man who wants to learn & discover the world with a companion to share the experiences with. Most importantly, a person who believes I am beautiful first thing in the morning, when I am choosing to be a Mom as a priority, and even when I'm angry.