Date men and women from United States / California / Granada Hills, 49 year old

Date a soulmate from Granada Hills, United States. I'm in a good place in my life to develop a relationship with the right person and I'm looking for someone who is also in that place. I have found that it really does not work well to try to date someone who is in a significantly different mind space or situation/phase of life than I. I have a college age son at home with me and am hoping to be with someone who is ok with that and is in a similar or at least compatible situation.
I have several really close friends and I guess if you took a survey they would probably agree that I am reliable, easy going, fun, have a good sense of humor, am a really good listener and supportive. In terms of who I aspire to be with I would like to find someone who likes to laugh/has a good sense of humor, can be light hearted and when called for, can also be serious. Honesty, diplomacy and reliability, integrity and open mindedness are also important to me. To conclude... I want to find someone who makes me want to quit my online dating job for a very long time or forever preferably!

Meet people from Granada Hills, United States. In life Family is very important, I try to spend most of my leisure time with them. My friends consider me as being funny, hard working, adventurous and very caring. I am looking and hoping to find someone in which I can also share those moments with.

Date someone special from Granada Hills, United States. I am authentic and honest. I work at being the best I can be, whether external, or internally. I love the differences between men and women and don't want or need to be the alpha in the mix. I am a good listener, and am interested in sharing stories and opinions, and I don't have to get you to agree with me in order to get along.
Who I am looking for...honestly, I feel that when we meet, we will know it. Sometimes it is in the way you smile, or how your eyes light up when you look at me, or some gesture that makes my heart race. It's all about the energy that passes between us.
Like you, I am looking for a connection, that something special that touches my heart a little and not just my eyes.
Yes,I am visual, it's not just men, but there is something more than just a pretty package, we all know that, that's why we jump from person to person, site to site, looking, always looking for the what if...what if he/she's still out there and I just didn't see him/her yet. I'm not picky, but then there is so much to chose from. I can say I'm just looking and don't know where it will go but want to start off as friends, but let's face it, if we meet and you're are nice, funny, interesting, attractive, but maybe you said or did something that put me off, or no spark, would you I see you again? Would you see me again?
Most likely not. I don't look for sparks or chemistry with my friends. I accept them how they are because I know I won't cross that line with them. So there you have it. If I haven't put you off, drop me a line. Be real, be authentic...Just to let you know, I will not respond to any email without a picture...just sayin'...If you are interested please SEND ME A WINK... ; ))

Meet men and women from Granada Hills, United States. My friends and family would describe me as loyal, dependable, compassionate, easygoing and hardworking. Also of course fun to be with! I enjoy horror movies (Walking Dead) gardening, arts and crafts. Love to decorate and make things as well for family and friends and maybe you...if your lucky! I also enjoy listening to talk radio..as well as spending time with my pets, family and friends.
About who i am looking for, I'm interested in new friendships and if that leads into dating then great. I've been single for about 6yrs and think I'm about ready to get out there. I enjoy a man that can take the lead. I am responsible and work hard with a good set of values. So it goes without saying a man with a great work ethic is appreciated . I enjoy the company of a man that enjoys going out for dinners, movies, walks etc... and maybe even gardening with me. I do have a few lovely clean cats that I do love. I keep a very clean home...so you must be clean too...no dirty men..humor haha yes, a man with a sense of humor goes a long way. If you have a interest in communication send me a note and we will see where it goes...
My photos are about a month old except for the one where I'm blonde today's date is 4/20/12.
This online dating is new to me so excuse my shyness and if I don't get back to u right away it means I've been busy at work and don't mean to be rude . I really haven't done or gone or done much as far as traveling due to my workaholic ways (does Vegas count?) .I just turned 49 and am happy with my self don't have a problem meeting men its meeting the right ones ,and must say I prefer men my age and older cause I really don't have much in common with u young guys....lol..I have no children and don't intend on having any at my age but if u have children that's fine with me.