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Date a man from Lompoc, United States. Life is a journey, not a destination. The experiences enjoyed and the people met along the way make it memorable.
At this point in life we've all had our ups and downs, good experiences and bad. Hopefully you're a better person because of them. I know I am. I'm not your typical male nor do I choose to be. I'm looking for someone to share time together, not someone who wants to enjoy the success of my labors. Not meaning to be harsh, being a realist.
You are someone who enjoys spending time together but also has a life of your own. You are debt responsible, financially independent and successful in your career. You stimulate intellectual conversation, enjoy moments shared and appreciate life and all it offers. You have hobbies and other constructive activities to spend your time beyond work. You are happy with yourself and enjoy sharing your life with others. Personality, energy, and attitude are important to me. Negativism is a turnoff.
I like to be spontaneous as well as make plans. And if plans are made I’m flexible to last minute changes…unless I’ve committed myself and others are depending on me.
I used to be a workaholic but thankfully found a balance. Today I live a simple life; work no longer consumes the greater part of my energy. I enjoy the slower pace of a more leisure lifestyle. I'm financially secure (you should be also), retirement driven instead of career focused, and intentionally minimize the stress in my life. I try to associate with positive energized individuals and minimize my exposure to people with negative attitudes and clingy personalities.
I like working with my hands as well as my brain. I hate paying people to do things I can do myself but also know my own limitations. My past history includes building houses, mechanic, electronic technician, and database programmer. Today I work as a Network Engineer/System Administrator but still enjoy getting my hands dirty doing physical work, landscaping, maintaining my own vehicles, etc.
I enjoy being out in nature whether it's walking, running, hiking, or cycling. I'm always up for a road trip to some place specific or nowhere in particular. I'm getting more serious with my photography so going someplace with photographic opportunities is a definite plus. I like learning and engaging in new activities so teach me something I don't know.
I don't spend much time watching TV and tend to watch/listen to the news when it’s on. I utilize my computer often but am not into playing video/computer games. I do like movies and often rent DVDs: drama, suspense, action, factual or inspired by actual events, and comedy are my main choices.
I'm not a stranger in the kitchen but by no means consider myself a chef. I survive off my own cooking but am better at baking than preparing a meal. I have no problem following a recipe but after the first time I may have to...ummmm, modify it. I'm all about one-on-one time so playing in the kitchen together could be fun. I make my own jam and experiment with different fruit combinations: strawberry, kiwi, and blackberry for example. Mix it with Stonefield organic yogurt and it's much better than any of the store bought varieties.
I've had my share of being the one to constantly initiate and give. I have no desire to repeat past experiences. If you're a loving, giving person who takes care of yourself mentally and physically then we have a starting point to expand from.

Meet men and women from Lompoc, United States. lov to see peps smile num one is my precious 6 yr old daugther that hav sole coustody of her beenin around people that are open an honest to make someone happy an smile just for that moment gives me joy

Date a soulmate from Lompoc, United States. I am 49 years old and I know that life is very short. I have decent morals and values. I do like to cut loose and have fun though. I like to do onto others as I wish them do onto me. I am faithful to the one in my life. No games. I am honest and sincere. I believe in communication and not going to bed mad. You never know when God will take you. I love holding hands and taking walks. I love sweet nothings and expressions. I am looking for a soul mate who wants to grow old and spend the rest of their life with someone who makes them feel loved and cherished. I love to make love, feel loved, share love, and put smiles on my woman on a daily basis. I am a romantic and I try to be inovative and suprize her often with special stuff. I love hugs and kisses too. I love to share stuff and I love to say nothing at all. I know what love is and I pray that one day I will find someone who has the same desires, dreams, and goals that I do who I can give, share and love them with all of my mind, body, and soul.

Meet men and women from Lompoc, United States. I'M A VERY STRONG WILLED LADY I'M FUNNY I'M VERY PRIVATE PERSON. I'M LOOKING FOR A NICE EASY GOING MAN WHO ENJOY'S WATCHING SPORTS GOING OUT TO DINNER, AND A ROMANTIC, AND LOVES TO TRAVEL, A MAN WHO CAN MAKE ME SMILE, LIKES HOLDING HANDS ON LONG WALKS, I AM NOT PERFECT BUT I DO MY BEST TO MAKE MY MAN HAPPY

Date a soulmate from Lompoc, United States. I really am in a second phase. I am starting over just relocating from the east coast back to the west coast after 20 years. I love to be outdoors being active, so hiking is something I would really love to get back into again. There have been many activities I have given up I would like to resume just would like to find someone who would like to do them with.
Currently I am a sub teacher as I try to get back into my field. I like working with the kids. Though I really love what I went to school for and worked in my industry so would love to be working back in it. When I'm not working I like small gatherings of friends, staying at home reading or working around the house.. just being active is me.

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