Date men and women from United States / California / Lodi, 38 year old

Date men and women from Lodi, United States. As of June 2012, I'm dumping my account. Tired of paying for something that hasn't paid off :) But I am still on the other free dating website, ya know, that's fish that is plenty, only reversed.
Before I tell you what I'm looking for, you should know a few things about me.
I'm divorced and I have my two kids 50% of the time. The other days of the week I work... and I don't work M-F 8-5. So extra brownie points if you're a cute nurse or other profession where you have an irregular schedule. If you're a parent, you'll probably understand what I'm saying about time constraints and that my children are my first priority. I'm not looking for someone to take the #1 priority slot in my life and bump my children down to #2.
So if you're still reading this, I'll tell you that I'm a positive guy. I consider myself a realistic optimist. I'm looking for a flexible, easy-going woman that I can share some of my free time with. Since there won't be a lot of dates where we jet off to Rome for the weekend, I'm hoping for a well-grounded woman that can appreciate one on one time in whatever we decide to do locally.

Meet single man from Lodi, United States. I think my friends would say I am a hardworking, honest and loyal guy. Just an overall nice guy. I am looking for someone who will be my best friend in life. Someone who challenges me to be the best person I can be and enjoy all that life has to offer together.If there is anything you would like to know about me, feel free to ask.