Date men and women from United States / California / Gardena, 38 year old

Date a man from Gardena, United States. From what some friends tell me, I'm too nice. Too nice that it may be a bad thing. A hard concept for me to follow. I mean if you care for someone, how can you be anything other than nice?
I think moderation is important in life. Too much of anything can be bad. My interests are wide and varied like my taste in music, food, and culture. I like trying new things, whether I'm comfortable doing it or not. If I had it my way, I'd spend all my free time learning new stuff and try everything!
I'm fairly easy-going. I don't believe in taking most things too seriously and find humor in most things. But don't get me wrong, I step it up and take care of business when the occasion calls for it.
I have a few hidden talents here and there (some of which my friends wished i kept more hidden... haha), but we'll save those for another time, that's the fun in getting to know each other, right?
Ideally, I'm looking for someone who has a great personality, easy-going, likes to have fun and try stuff (doesn't have to be crazy though, like sky-diving though I'm not against it either), who doesn't keep many secrets, trustworthy and loyal (really, do you want me to be jealous all the time?, neither do i), someone who has an open mind and can listen and not shut others out right away, as well as someone who can have a conversation, not just listen to me babble all the time. But all in all this may not matter at all and the right girl for me might be someone I had never expected. You never know.