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Date someone special from California, United States. 40year young man in search of someone special again. I know its hard but with all these platforms like this out there to help, will it or not. Are you out there some where? How would I know. How will we meet? will we click or wont? Damn more unanswered questions. But thats always the fun part. To have uncertainties around and finding whats best for you.

Meet men and women from California, United States. Feels weird to try and describe ones self. If I were to state some of my beliefs and values I guess they would go as such. I pride myself in always being honest. One of the biggest cliches I hear, but it rings true here as well, is I treat people the way I expect to be treated, with true compassion for any situation I find myself in. I have often felt that on some level we are all connected, meaning that if you are inexcusably rude to someone, you are in a sense betraying yourself and your higher purpose. You can tell much of a person in how they interact with others in the service industries. It is easy to see if people are truly respectful, or on the contrary, think they are above a certain person. I would consider myself to be very down to earth, very easy to get along with, with a non-confrontational attitude. I respect everyone, unless of course their actions dictate differently. I prefer calm discussions versus drama, no yelling or headaches. I would like to meet someone who strives to forever see the positive moments in life, or at least not fall into a downward spiral if somethings doesn't work out as planned. There is always something bigger than us happening at every moment. You need to be able to roll with what ever life brings and just appreciate being alive. As far as hobbies and such, I love being outdoors as much as possible. Whether hiking, camping, being at the beach or mountains ( my fav ), almost anything is better than being indoors. Of course cozy nights at home are great as well and I do appreciate them. I go to the gym 3-5 times a week and believe in tryin to be as healthy as possible (try). I'm not much into going out to clubs, bars are cool from time to time as long as you have some cool people to kick it with, I'm not much for trying to meet people at the bars since most people aren't really themselves after drinking. Id rather go to a place with games to play, or bowling, billiards and such. I am a very family and friends oriented person, and prefer quality over quantity. My co pilot is Haydon, an Austrailian Cattle Dog, he rolls with me pretty much everywhere and is quite a character as most dogs are.

Date single man from California, United States. Hello, Im a down to earth person looking for the same. Some one who enjoys the outdoors and adventure. Some one who is spontaneous...I enjoy exploring new and exciting things.If you are someone who likes to explore and have fun than write back. Maybe we can chat or talk sometime!!

Meet a man from California, United States. First of all, you should know right up front that you have stumbled across the biggest catch on Match... and we'll get to WHY that is in a minute.... but I want to be up front first. Before we get to all of the good stuff, before you get all excited… amazingly, I DO have faults. To wit:
1) I do play golf and watch football, despite the fact that, to women, this is tantamount to wearing the same dress to the company Christmas party two years in a row.
2) I use words like “tantamount” in a personal ad.
3) I voted for Ross Perot twice during the 90s. This cannot be held against me though -- they were both protest votes.
4) I have never climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro, don't own a motorcycle, don't bike 20 miles a day in my Lance Armstrong racing suit, don't have shirtless pictures of my Saratoga-born-and-raised self flashing gang signs like I grew up in Compton, don't wear Affliction t-shirts and don't have a tattoo on my chest of some random woman wrapped in barbed wire sitting on Chinese symbols that translate into "Chosen One.”
5) I live in Pleasanton. Some of you – especially those of you in San Francisco – seem to believe that Pleasanton borders Kentucky, Bangladesh and Siberia. I answer this by saying (a) not quite, (b) amazingly, you only have to cross ONE bridge from SF on a 35-minute drive to get here, (c) I’m certainly worth the small distance, and (d) I’m out your way all the time – I’ll come to you. ;-) (San Jose and Sac people: this includes you as well).
6) I overuse ellipses and colon-dash-parenthesis smiley faces in emails. I’m currently undergoing punctuation shock therapy to break this horribly-addicting habit. One day at a time.
****Now, the catch-worthy good stuff:
1) I have a dog. I know women think this is cute, so I thought I would mention it first.
2) I scored in the 95th percentile on Nordstrom’s “Male Mall Tolerance Test", proving my willingness to wander aimlessly around a mall while my female companion goes on a five-hour search for the perfect pair of pumps... and buys nothing.
3) I definitely can cook. I don’t know the difference between a basil leaf and a leafblower, but I certainly know enough to be dangerous.
4) I have killed scores of harmless spiders and insects to "protect" others in the past. Have a fear of ants? I keep my pimp hand strong with insects.
5) ....and maybe most importantly, I will never, ever make a woman sit through a movie where the characters just blow things up all the time or break out in random displays of mixed martial arts. I will not make MYSELF sit through that movie either. ;-)
6) I’m a grass-mowing, trash-hauling, weed-pulling, beach-going, wine-tasting jack of all trades.
Note on my photos: Friends, family, the local vet, American Legion post 472 and a girl riding by on a unicycle all agree that if you like my photos, you'll be more pleased in person. Take that for whatever it's worth. ;-)
Friends and family would describe me as a very confident (but not cocky) genuinely kind, fun-loving and compassionate, intelligent, succcessful, extremely athletic, very giving and engaging. (And for you hockey fans, I'm a Sharks season ticket holder).
So what am I looking for? Someone who is happy, agreeable, emotionally available and is not afraid to give their heart away. Someone who loves to laugh and smiles a lot. Everyone has a little emotional baggage from old relationships, but please don't show up with four suitcases worth. A love for sports is a plus, but definitely isn’t necessary. All in all, I’m most interested in who you are, what you enjoy and what you’re passionate about. Women who are genuine, sincere and have a strong passion for life score major points. Women who are aloof, self-centered, drama queens or Raider fans will not. (Just kidding Raider fans... kind of...) ;-)

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm looking for a partner who likes spontaneous adventure...... who is athletic, driven, and passionate about enjoying life and all it has to offer. Very fun, respectful, and considerate just looking for that special someone to walk beside me to laugh and play with along the way. Someone who shares a strong curiousity to learn more about and explore the world around us. Someone who lives in THE NOW and appreciates every day as gift.
II am an outgoing, fun-loving, physically fit, educated, hard-working, financially stable and independent. I do believe in true love, and hope to find someone whom I would love to grow old with.
It is very important to me to be respectful, trustworthy, honest and reliable in both my professional and personal relationships. I believe that mutual respect/support and honest/open communication are the most important qualities in a successful relationship, and I strive to always treat others as I would like to be treated. My good friends and family are paramount in my life, and I adore kids.
Although I am happy and content with where I am at this stage of my life, I believe there may be one special person that could make it even sweeter... I am looking to date a woman who is kind and caring, shares a similar balance of work and play, is adventurous and athletic, has a good sense of humor, loves to smile and laugh often, is mature in mind and spirit, takes care of herself physically and shares the same relationship goals. If that describes you...then we should talk.
Hope is a beautiful thing.

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