Date men and women from United States / California / Boulder Oaks, 38 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I grew up in small towns and retain a lot of the values I grew up on. I believe in being honest, treating people with the same respect that you maintain for yourself, enjoying life for what it is, and living life without too much regret. I enjoy going out occasionally, but it is much more enjoyable with friends. I love to bbq and yes, I can take care of myself just fine. I have three beautiful daughters who's lives I stay deeply involved with. I am a rafter at heart, which means so much more than floating a boat down a river. I'm looking for someone I can have a good time exploring, going out, and staying home with. Someone I can feel comfortable walking, talking, laughing, playing games, or curling up on the couch with. I want to spend time with a woman that is comfortable and confident just being herself.
Now that I have seen some of the profiles online I realize mine is woefully lacking, but here's the deal... I'm very confident and comfortable with myself and who I am and where I'm going, but I don't spend any time thinking about how to tell others about who I am. I am very much about letting my actions speak for me which is why this online deal is very difficult for me. I'm sorry that there are not more pictures, my friends and I are not into taking pictures of each other, and my adventures generally involve me taking pics of the adventures and those involved, but I will try to post more. My daughters art and pics wallpaper my house, not pics of myself.