Date men and women from United States / California / Hanford, 38 year old

Date a man from United States. I'm looking for fun, no string attached. Love movies. I like music and I'm fun to be around. I'm not single and like a women that can keep secrets. And loves to hang out and knows how to treat a man with respect. And loves having lots of sex

Meet someone special from United States. I have been in this area for a while now and nothing has panned out just yet. Meet a few good people but no connection just yet. I have two kids, my son who is 12 and my daughter 10, they are the best part of my life, and right now they live with their mother in another state and even though my kids live in a different state, I see them every chance I get and talk to them every night.
I am in the military and been in for 19 years now, and I love it. I just recently learned to play golf and love it, I usually play on the weekends. Would love to find a partner. I love baseball, go Padres and Cardinals. I love watching the games at Petco. I enjoy country and rock music.
I am looking for a long term relationship, being single just isn't what I remember it being. Now, that doesn't mean I'm looking for marriage just yet, but someone I can depend on, open up with, wake up in the mornings next to and basically just can't wait to see at the end of the day.
I am looking for a woman that is her own person, has her own goals, intelligent, likes to talk and have fun going out and enjoys staying in just the same. I am someone that likes telling it straight and likes being told straight, no bs. I am not a club type person. I would rather play pool, listen to karaoke (can't sing it),or just sit and watch the game at a local pub.
I have few friends and many aquaintances, but the friends I do have can call me anytime and I'll be there. Love spending time with family, as much as I can anyway. Most of them live in the Midwest or on the East coast.