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Date a soulmate from El Cerrito, United States. I just moved to the area from Houston for work. I don't have a "southern" accent and I don't say "Y'all" or drive a pickup truck ;-)
I lived in the Bay Area during part of middle school and high school, but I'm looking forward to exploring Northern California and would like to share the experience with someone.
That being said, we’ve all seen these profiles tens, if not hundreds, of times before…we know most of us want someone who is educated, is honest, keeps fit, and loves to travel. So now that’s out of the way, here’s a few pieces just about me and what I’m looking for in my match.
I definitely subscribe to the belief that we should work to live, not live to work. I like to have fun on a regular basis, but not in a “let’s get so drunk we don’t remember what we did” kind of way. I'd like to meet someone who enjoys going out together, but also likes the idea of staying home once in a while. I’ve even taken some swing dance lessons, so I won’t completely embarrass you when we go dancing together.
With me, you get a very loyal and giving guy. I love doing all the little things that will make my partner happy. I’d like to find someone who hasn’t given up on her dreams, but also has realistic goals in place. I like the idea of being in a relationship where we can help each other work toward our own individual goals, while still chasing the dreams we build together.
I enjoy staying active and would like a partner who is, too but I don't spend every waking moment in the gym. I finished the Houston and Woodlands half marathons this year, I'm doing the SF half marathon at the end of July and I recently completed my first sprint triathlon, so it would be nice to be with someone who can give me that nudge I might need every once in a while.
Besides all that, I have a bit of a dry wit and definitely want someone who has a great sense of humor. I’m looking for a woman who I can talk to and laugh with as we make our way through our first dates and for a long time to come. If you’re looking for a good guy with a good heart, then let’s start here and see where things go. What do you say?

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