Date men and women from United States / California / Lodi, 37 year old

Date a soulmate from Lodi, United States. I keep busy performing stand up, but when I'm not on stage, I enjoy drinking coffee, wine tasting, crossword puzzles, watching movies and traveling, especially wherever there is an ocean. I love to attend classical performances. I also am an avid tennis player and play golf as well.

Meet people from Lodi, United States. I have been described as strong, intelligent, witty, loyal, affectionate...Helping the people I love is easy and I just say yes, I don't keep score or expect anything but loyalty. It seems that people write how great they are on here but I can say that I have flaws for sure. I want to be good at everything and tend to stress myself out. Drama pisses me off as I want to have fun and be real with people. My friends cannot believe I am still single, I just have not found the right guy.
I have a great schedule and love my job. Generally, I love to hang out with family, run, hike, do yoga, garden...My sister in law was my best friend so getting along with both family and friends is vital. I am up for trying new things and having fun. Life is too short and I want to make sure I live it. I wish I could travel more but planning trips alone is anti-climatic. Laughter is super important so I have a really hard time with people that take themselves too seriously.
I am intrigued by learning from others and their experiences. The perfect man for me? Easy answer - he has his act together, a warm smile and is capable of taking care of himself (although I love to spoil). I would like to meet my equal and see if there is chemistry there. I really enjoy a man that is strong and affectionate, not Italy affectionate but if the moment occurs... Dating casually for extensive periods of time is not me. Building relationships with all people is far more interesting to me than just knowing the surface.
I think I might be considered a complicated type. I enjoy a good glass of wine and wearing nice clothes but I am also just as happy to put on an old pair of shorts and pull weeds. I am not a snob but doesn't mean I don't enjoy the finer things in life. I have been known to drink cheap beer by the pool and go to a wine tasting event in the evening. I grew up in the country riding horses but I fit in just fine at the theater in San Francisco. Did I mention that I love running and being tortured by my Crossfit trainer...

Date men and women from Lodi, United States. I like to have fun and be open. But I can also be a shy person until I really know someone. We have all made choices in life that we would like to take back and I am no different. I have learned from my life experiences and know I have a lot to offer the right person. Just take the time to get to know me you will see I am a wonderful person.
I can be active but I also like to just sit on the couch and watch a movie or read a book. This is the time I wish I had a fire place to sit by. On the other hand I like to be on the go, taking a trip to the ocean or mountains. What's the destination this weekend??
I made the decission a couple of years ago to change my life and become healthier. In this time I foun that I really enjoy walk/running. Some day I hope to get back to running. I have walk/ran 3 half marathons and enjoy 5 and 10K's from time to time.
My dogs are an important part of my life. I only have one now. Family is also very important to me.
I give my all to a realationship and want to find someone that will do the same. I am caring open when you get to know me.
Please don't always judge a book by its cover but let what is inside tell you the story. You might find you like what you see.

Meet someone special from Lodi, United States. I like smiling and laughing at jokes. I am very grateful for my two children and my fantastic family that are my support System. I am looking for someone who is outgoing, enjoys life, movies, reading, dancing, and the beach. I want someone who likes to cuddle and watch tv, but listen and talk about life, who is also supportive, and enjoys my company and me his. I go out with my friends on weekends my kids are gone, book club once a month, plus kids activities.