Date men from United States / California / San Francisco, 42 year old

Date a man from San Francisco, United States. Hmmm. I’m not one that’s into a lot of self introspection. I play it like I see it. I’m a loyal friend and a passionate lover, outspoken about my beliefs, but that doesn’t mean I can’t see your point of view (I love a good debate).
I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I don’t pull too many punches and I don’t suffer fools gladly. I’m sarcastic, you have to like that or we will never get along.
Sometimes I’m the life of the party and sometimes I’m the guy who says the thing everyone is thinking (but isn’t saying).
I’m a geek at heart, an introverted extrovert. I talk to myself and laugh about it.

Meet someone special from San Francisco, United States. Looking for something real? Me, too – I’m seeking a good woman to have a meaningful relationship filled with laughs and great experiences, and to hopefully have a happy future together. Ideally you’re a woman that’s passionate about something, grounded and naturally curious.
It’s a plus if you enjoy exploring the city and the outdoors, are excited about traveling, discovering new restaurants, take in everything that SF’s great street festivals have to offer, don’t bore easily in museums, and have a lot of different interests (like myself). Meaningful conversation and being able to make people laugh are both a huge plus.
Characteristics that I appreciate in a woman are intelligence, independence, depth, honesty, open-minded, creative, curiosity, emotional stability and a good nature. Things I’m not a fan of are submissiveness, lying, flakiness, selfishness and mind games. Communication is key in any good relationship, so hopefully you’re a woman that knows how to say what’s on your mind and is able to work through differences constructively. And just being honest, having a naughty streak is a plus as long as it’s not combined with a crazy streak. ;-)
As for myself, I’m a naturally curious guy with diverse interests, and am content hiking in the outdoors in the afternoon and then dressing up for the opera. Rainy days cuddled up under a blanket watching movies are just fine with me as well. My biggest joy right now is sailing, largely because of the sense of freedom and peace it gives me – a nice change from my tech career. My job doesn’t define me – life is far too short to be spent in an office – it needs to be enjoyed and experienced. In my eyes, life isn’t about how much stuff you collect along the way, it’s the experiences you have, the friends that you make, and hopefully the joys that can be shared with a great woman.
Some of my other interests include snowboarding, baseball (go Giants!), ancient history, travelling, movies, the outdoors, foodie events like Off The Grid, and more. In the past I’ve done a lot of camping, took guitar lessons, and was into indoor rock climbing, all things I enjoyed. In my free time I also help a SF-based non-profit that serves at-risk and disadvantaged youth in the community. Bar-hopping into the wee hours is not interesting to me, although I do really enjoy exploring new restaurants and bars with friends where we can chill, talk and have some laughs. Family is also really important to me, and I travel to be with them every Christmas.
Ultimately I’m seeking an equal, a best friend, and a confidant. Chemistry and that special spark are important, and often there’s no way to predict where we’ll find it. So give it a shot and say hi, what do you have to lose?

Date a soulmate from San Francisco, United States. I live every day to the fullest and keep a positive attitude. Life is too short to march to any other drummer. I love fun loving people with a good heart. I dislike self-absorbed people who thrive on drama!

Meet single man from San Francisco, United States. Sarcastic, loyal, witty, and reasonably intelligent, seeking same. I guess I'm kind of an intellectual, but like to keep it fun. "Nothing is not funny" is one of the things I try to keep in mind (it's not very hard to do). My whiteboard at work reads "Never attribute to malice what can easily be explained by stupidity." Basically, cut people some slack and understanding-- we all need it at some time or another. I love to travel and write-- work hard and play hard. But I also like to just recharge sometimes at home or on a beach somewhere. I'm a good friend and listener, very thoughtful and creative. My match has a great sense of humor, that is to say, one compatible with mine-- witty, dry, often sarcastic, but with a twinkle in the eye. She's compassionate-- grateful for the life she's been able to experience, and understanding towards those less fortunate. She's smart and will challenge and appreciate me intellectually. And she has a great sense of adventure-- wants to learn and experience, whether it's a new country, a new food, a new idea, or new friends. I grew up in a pretty simple family and place, but some overseas travel and waiting tables in Napa Valley opened up whole new worlds to me. A foodie (but not snobby, depending on whom you ask), and I like to think I can turn a clever phrase and love someone who appreciates it and can give me a taste of my own medicine.

Date a man from California, United States. I'm a civil engineer (please excuse my spelling) working in construction. I love my job since I'm outside and new projects every couple years keep it new and refreshing.
I'm an active person although I have been known to be a couch potato as well. I have a lot of different hobbies to keep me busy but I'm always open to try new things too. I got stuck doing that hot yoga once-not for me. I'm pretty mellow and laid-back.
The type of person I'm looking for? Someone who is genuine-a what you see is what you get type. I want someone who would compliment me. I'm not going to change and don't expect you to and I would never ask you to. I'm not very picky but I do have certain tastes. Just like everyone else I guess.