Date men from United States / California / Ocean Hills, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hi there. I am a laid back type of guy. I enjoy getting out but also enjoy doing things around the house. I think of myself as creative. I can plan a simple day or I can plan a romantic adventure. I fell I am romantic with the right person. I have not found love at first sight but I hope that might change.My ideal match is someone that attracts me with their smile and mannerisms. I thing a simple guesture like "thank you" is very appealing. Another quality is someone that wants to get to know you for what you are and not what you can give. Giving is not always that act of possessions but of listening and caring.