Date women from United States / California / Sausalito, 61 year old

Date a woman from United States. I am as you are, looking for that someone I can laugh with, share common interests, rely and be relied upon and generally enjoy the rest of our lives. The man that will spark my interest and ultimately win me over will be kind, but self assured. Be at a point in life where it isn't so much about proving yourself, because you already have, therefore having more time and ease of mind so that stopping to smell the roses will not make him feel he's behind on some task. It is fine if he has a job, work, hobby or something that keeps his mind working and deepens the enjoyment of his life, but no workaholics please... I am determined to prove I'm an alien because I have vowed not to stumble over the same stone thrice.
He likes books, traveling, dancing, cooking or enjoying my cooking (I'm fairly good), the outdoors, long walks, most exercise. He likes art and aesthetics in general. Music and literature are part od a full life and he includes them in his.
He also knows that even though money makes life easier, it is not the objective nor the purpose of it, but just gravy. He is affectionate and not afraid of touching. He also knows that honesty and open communication is the best way to deepen relationships, as much as paying attention. So much more to say and hear you say, but that's why we must meet for a fair preliminary exchange.