Date women from United States / California / Sausalito, 42 year old

Date a woman from United States. this is like pulling teeth. i'm not good at self-promotion. i am a kind, good-natured human. i try to make the best of every situation and see the best in people. i have been told i have a great sense of humor. it can be dark. comic relief is a necessity of life. i feel very lucky to be me and living this particular life. it feels very full. i am independent and easily amused.
for fun i am in a band. i am a singer/songwriter. we just played our first show a month ago. it was pretty darn fun. and people seemed to really enjoy it. so that was cool. i also take a couple dance classes each week. i love to read. haven't seen nearly enough movies or seen enough live music. can't get away from coffee. love food. especially dessert. love wine. especially red. i enjoy taking walks. going kayaking. or noodling around doing just about anything. getting out in nature is always good. i would like to do more traveling.
i am looking for someone who is playful, easy-going and adventurous. someone who is not afraid to talk about stuff and show some emotion...who's done a bit of homework. someone who has their own life and wants a partner in crime. someone who sees the glass as half full.