Date women from United States / California / Oceanside, 61 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm looking for my best friend. Romance is wonderful so the first kiss should be thrilling. But once we come down from the initial high of finding love, there must be a basis of friendship. If we are truly connected we will pass many, many days and nights together. That time together must be mellow, stress-free, humorous, kind, forgiving, grateful and deeply accepting. I'm not going to change and you're not going to change. We must give one another the space to be ourselves, but we must come together well. I'm hoping to attract a man with a liberal spirit who has the self-confidence and generosity of soul to understand that we both need to do our own thing once in a while. I like to cook, read, walk, and swing dance. I'm up for anything from shooting pool to seeing a play. I have a very playful side, a deep soulful side, and an intellectual side. And I believe I'm more fun than this description makes me sound. What's my idea of the perfect date? Fire ring, conversation, maybe a guitar. Heaven.
P.S. Since every single guy on Match.com is a major athlete, has posted a picture of his boat or bike, and is looking for a pole-vaulting kinda gal, I guess I ought to mention that my family lives in northern Idaho and spends all their time camping, hiking, kayaking, skiing, cycling, snowshoeing, etc. I had skin cancer 30 years ago so I'm careful about how much time I spend in the sun. Which is probably why my primary sport is dancing - cuz it's done indoors or at night. Nonetheless, I love to do active things, except golf. (The world's most frustrating sport. Would make a preacher swear.)

Meet a woman from California, United States. sI am looking to attract someone who likes to have fun, makes me laugh and is easy to be with.
I myself am easy going. Would like to be great friends first with someone who is not controlling or posessive. I would like someone to love the outdoors as I do. Going out on the town is a plus as is sometimes staying in and watching movies and reading. I love to socialize and hope to find a match that enjoys this also. I like to throw and attend bar-be-ques with good friends in the summer months. I have been told that I am honest and trustworthy to a fault and I would expect the same thing in any partner. I love to travel and try to do so whenever I can. I am very free spirited and told by people that I don't look a day over 49. I am a very young 61 in everything I do. I feel no older than 35. I am looking for someone that can keep up with me as I am very active socially and physically. I love to bar hop. I have met many interesting friends and acquintances this way that have led to other social activities that I enjoy. I don't want this to sound as if I am the perrifial "bar fly". I always enjoy different places I haven't been with my friends. It's, in my mind a way to network socially.

Date someone special from California, United States. I am intelligent, funny, nice looking, self-assured, compassionate, loyal, and respectful. I like good conversation, wine tasting, walks on the beach, sailing, riding motorcycles, fast cars, gardening and taking care of my yards, taking care of my car and motorcycle...my perfect match would be a combination of nice looks, takes care of their body, intelligent, has a sense of humor, passionate, enjoys life, and most of all respectful of me. Mutual respect is a requirement. A great kisser and lover.
I enjoy private time and hope my partner does too. I like my autonomy.
My match likes to travel, comfortable with a strong woman, neat and clean, likes to cook together, willing to help with household chores. Must be passionate about life. Must like dogs. I date men in this age group because as of yet, I have not been able to meet men my own age who are able to keep up with me. But if your out there and closer to my age...all the better.

Meet a soulmate from United States. i HAVE A GOOD SENCE OF HUMOR. I LOVE TO SMILE.
I HAVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT. RETIRED CIVIL SERVICE.
I LOVE TO DRESS UP. PEOPLE OFTEN TELL ME I DO NOT LOOK MY AGE AS I ACT AND LOOK YOUNGER.
I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO TRULY BELIEVES IN HONESTY. AND WHOM WISHES TO LIVE FOR TODAY.,
SOMEONE VERY REAL.
I BELIVE THAT YESTERDAY IS FOREVER GONE.....I BELIVE THAT TOMORROW IS NOT BORN YET....THEREFORE ALL WE HAVE IS TODAY...

Date a woman from United States. I am honest, fun loving, intelligent, a deep thinker, good listener, a loyal friend. I love a good laugh, and yes, my pics are very recent, that is exactly what I look like! The two most important things I am looking for in a man are honesty and kindness. A sense of humor is very important as well.
I love most kinds of music, and really enjoy going to see a live baseball game once in a while. I also love to dance.
I am at peace when walking at the beach and go there often. I love my life and find joy in the simple things of every day. I am grateful for good children, all of whom are doing very well in their lives.
The sun first thing in the morning makes me smile, as I just recently moved back here from a far colder climate. I grew up in Cardiff by the Sea, was a cheerleader at San Dieguito 4 years ( my only claim to fame!).
I'm looking for someone , just ONE man, to share my life with in every way, and for one who wants the same. I need a man that is a good communicator on all levels. I very much enjoy being close and spending time together, but am not at all clingy or demanding. I am actually a person that needs a fair amount of alone time.
I want someone that is fun and can make me laugh, and also that is smart, really thinks about things, and knows what is going on in the world. If you are even considering voting for Obama, please do not reply.
I want to be with a mature, kind, honest and loving man, and to treat him with equal kindness, love and the respect he deserves. Most of all I want him to feel happy when he is with me. I want to give him wrinkles from smiling so much when we are together. I was married 38 years, now divorced 3 . One more love in this lifetime, that is my hope and wish. Oh, and btw, I do not respond to winks, because frankly, there are just a lot of them, and so they become pretty meaningless.

Meet someone special from United States. I am looking for a friend companion and a person who enjoys doing the same things I like or teach me new experience. Looking for a person who can show there love, be honest with one and other, and not play games with each other. I am interested in person who is not a coach potato, or watches sports, I need an active person, who is advantage who like to check out new place or do an activity they have not tried yet in life. I am a very honest, loyal and enjoy life to its fullest, I am very active type of person and very young for my age, I need a man that is active too. I love to swing dance, two step, west coast swing, and more, go for rides, Kayak, cuddle up with a good movie, take walks on the beach, and love to cook. I am not looking for a person who relies on drugs, alcohol, and other subsist to live there life.