Date men and women from California, United States. Where is that special person who is looking for a special lady that they can spend the rest of their life. I am not the person who will be over assertive or chase after someone. I am the person on the other side of the room who will give you a shy smile. If you respond in a positive way we will proceed from there. Don't get me wrong I can talk to almost anyone, but I want pursue someone who does not show an interest in me. This is a little difficult to do on match. I am still trying to find a balance that works on match.com.
I can be warm and affectionate with someone I care about, but I am not someone who is all over every man. I am a positive, intelligent, interesting person who would like to meet someone with the same qualities. It is not what life test you with, but how you handle it. I am not lost being by myself, but I would like to share my life and interest with someone special. Hopefully we will make each others lives more enjoyable and enriched for sharing our lives..
By the way I believe in honesty, I did not subtract years from my age, but I will not hold it against you, if like so many your took away a few years on your profile. I am not a judgmental person.
The pictures here were taken with a cell phone camera. I hope to get a better picture soon.
My hair looks really white in my picture and my only color choice was salt and pepper, but it is actually more cinnamon and sugar.
I grew up in and raised my children in a protestant Church. I don't currently attend any church regularly, but still hold my believes.
I am an open minded person and a political liberal.
I love sunsets, writing, art, classical music and occasionally oldies from the 60's), foreign and independent movies, and exploring other cultures. I have live in Tokyo and Singapore for a total of 9 years as well as traveled in other parts of Asia, Europe and South American.. I believe that this gives me a broader perspective on life.
I moved to California in the autumn of 2000 from Fairfield County Connecticut. (I survived being a single (divorced) Mother there). I have been in the Santa Barbara area since 2006.
I have 2 adult children so it has been while since I have been in the super mom role. My son has 2 degrees from UCSB and now is working in Boston. My daughter who graduated from an Ivy League University is working in NYC. I will be a grandmother by autumn.
I don't expect to find my mirror image, but someone with whom we can share some of our interest and special times. I believe the more differences between two people requires greater respect and tolerance.
I don't expect anyone to be perfect, but it would be wonderful, if we were perfect for each other.
Are you my match? If you think we might be, why don't we meet for coffee and get to know each other? Perhaps after chatting and/or e-mail here on match. We might at least end up being friends, if not more.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am looking for someone who is calm, cool, and collected "who can live and let live." I have enjoyed the cool spray of the ocean in CA, the dry picturesque landscape of NM and the rugged beauty of the Hill Country with it's rolling hills and rivers in TX. There is still a lot of travel in me that I want to accomplish. I am a confident, self-reliant woman so I hope to travel to CA from TX to be there for at least six months beginning in Aug.2012. Knowing someone with an adventurous spirit would be so fantastic! After my 6-month stint, well, sky's the limit as I love to travel. Just suggest it and it may very well be plausable. I like walking, hiking, swimming, going to the concerts, the opera, checking out hide-away places. I'm always curious about what's around the corner of life!
Date someone special from California, United States. I am full of fun and laughter. I love listening to the rain,and music that stirs my soul. I am eternally interested in ideas, fabulous travel distinations ( think Paris! ). I would love to hang out with a man who has a deep soul, who is kind and gernerous.
Meet a woman from California, United States. I am still enjoying and exploring the Central Coast since my move from Seattle. Living in Santa Barbara keeps me excited about living life to the fullest - from the museums and art galleries to performing arts and live music concerts. Being near the ocean is a natural draw for me, especially for walking. The Santa Ynez Valley is a must for wine-tasting.
I am sincere, warm and affectionate, appreciate the age I am and my glass is always ( 99% of the time) half-full. I love sunsets (sunrises not so much or so often!). I am easy-going and down to earth but I will stand up for what I believe in and care about. Time with close family, grandchildren and friends is important to me - they have been a gift through the tough times. I like being social but also appreciate my personal time. I prefer cooking for two better than cooking for one. I love fresh flowers.
My Bucket List includes more travel now - a Mediterranean cruise is on the horizon and Sedona soon. It's fun to just to explore local haunts or other U.S. destinations. I love good fresh food and wine, whether dining out or in. I am retired from my interior design business but still consult and enjoy an interesting home project challenge. I was fortunate to choose such a satisfying and creative career. I am eclectic in many of my life choices - design, activities and music.
I am happy and appreciate the NOW. I have learned that life is precious and not to sweat the "small stuff". The type of man I am attracted to is active and curious about life, people and new ideas. He would add another positive dimension to my life, as I would to his. I believe there needs to be common interests, but separate ones as well. I am attracted to a man who is sincere, honest respectful, humorous, attractive, playful, successful on his own terms and interested in companionship and friendship leading to a loving, meaningful long-term relationship. Chemistry and clear communication would be a necessary part of that magic package. As social beings I think we are meant to share our lives.
Whether I have written too much (or too little), I hope there's a candid snapshot of who I am and what I'm looking for in this next significant chapter.
Date people from California, United States. I am fair, kind, frugal, attractive, and physically fit. Do I cook? Yes, but, if I could, I would not! I try to budget my time constraints in advance, am productive, have lots of energy (usually more than the guy), and would love to love the right man. On the other hand, I don't like guys who waste my time, have egos, small or large, so best to put those egos to rest.
I like detail, cleanliness, neatness, and things, beautiful, whether in nature, art, ideas, creativity, etc. Add contemplation, reverie, reflection, and direction among other attributes.
I would like him to be physically attractive - no extra pounds - who takes care of himself on a day-to-day basis by exercising at a gym, walking or running, swimming, biking. Whatever. That he is intelligent, with a quick wit, likes to entertain from time to time, see a "good" film, attend a symphony concert (or other types of classical music), and do some traveling. I would hope that he takes pride in his home or wherever he may live and is "productive" in some humane way. If you/he has a graduate degrees, that's a plus.
Moreover, if you take medication, it has to be minimal, such as one or two prescriptions/day, not counting Viagra!
Lastly, I have a deep need to be IT at some point in your life -- no other women allowed, please, particularly at our ages!
Thanks!
Meet men and women from United States. I have reached the happy conclusion that as I love my life here in Santa Barbara, I really want to share with someone energetic, profound, sensitive, who enjoys being a part of a family and a caring partner, who knows how to belly laugh and who wants to share his life - the ups and downs.
I am energetic, intelligent, perceptive, warm and sensitive and I love my home, my beautiful garden, colours, the light and shade the sunsets reflect on the hills around here, drawing and painting, cooking and my wonderful friends and clients, who travel to extraordinary places.
I want to continue to create a peaceful home environment, make art and culture an ongoing part of my life, achieve my personal goals, and do this all with integrity and a sense of humor. And I would love to have a mate to challenge me and to take the road to another exciting destination - all the while, remembering the people in our lives and the friends who are so important to include on this journey. (Oh! And time for visiting grandchildren is vitally important too!).
Giggling over silly little things is fun as well as going to lectures and symphony for cultural stimulus and I love exploring new places.
Oh! Did I mention let's go dancing!
Date a soulmate from United States. I am a healthy, happy, easy going woman with time to do what I like. (I'm a retired elementary school teacher). I enjoy playing tennis (typically three times a week), the flute, and bridge with friends. I like to hike, dance, go to movies, plays and concerts. I love good wine and intimate dinners. I am definitely a people person who loves good conversation. Enjoying the simple things in life, however, is most important to me: laughter, spending time with friends, a good book, music, affection, cooking, hugs and being with my family and friends. I like to be supportive of my partner's priorities and concerns. Finding the right partner to share life with would be great, yes?
I would like to find someone who is kind, caring, empathic with a sense of "old fashioned" ethical values. Someone who is emotionally available and willing to share themselves. One who is young at heart (shy is fine) and who takes care of himself physically and emotionally. A sense of humor would be great (not necessarily someone who makes jokes, but someone who can see the lighter side of a situation). I would like someone who is interested in continuing to develop intellectually, emotionally and physically and is still willing to be open to new ideas or activities.
And..yes, my pictures have all been taken within this last year.
Meet someone special from United States. I was born and raised in Sweden, came to America when I was 22 years of age. I am interested in self-discovery, yoga, the arts, and many kinds of music. I am playful and fun. I am looking for an open-minded man. There are no limits to the future that can be created with another adventurous soul and I am excited to see what happens next. I like healthy living, but not without a glass of wine on occasion! I am a lady looking for a charming man with a good sense of humor who is also caring and flexible. I like men who have their own interests and maintain their own independence but feel that being with the right woman is important.
Companion to live in Santa Barbara area.
Laugh, love and live!