Date men and women from San Diego, United States. I"m a relatively new San Diegan who has embraced the City with a passion. Its really fun to watch a young city grow. I was raised in Hawaii and came to the mainland to attend college and never left. I work hard during the week so I try to have a lot of fun on the weekends.
I enjoy running, cycling, tennis, golf, skiing, kayaking, you name it. I'm open to trying new sports.
I love art and enjoy museums. I like to try new restaurants and love music venues like Anthology and Humphrey's. I have taken dance lessons and favor Salsa and Swing because of the music.
I enjoy traveling and have been to Europe and the far East. I try to play at least one top 100 golf courses in the country each year and have played Pebble Beach, TPC Sawgrass, etc. Pinehurst might be next.
I am blessed with some truly wonderful friends and family. Friends that are so kind and loyal that sometimes I don't know what I did to deserve them. I love children - my God kids are amazing and I am so thankful to be a part of their lives.
I'm a believer of giving back. have been a volunteer in the past for Brail Institute and a few churches working with disable kids. I also contribute monthly to Doctors without Borders. They do amazing work to improve people's lives around the world.
What I'm looking for is a best friend. Someone who is kind and funny. (my sense of humor falls in line with Seinfeld and Calvin and Hobbs.) She doesn't have to have the same interest necessarily as I do. I'm all about growth and learning new things and can appreciate perspectives other than my own. Thanks for reading.
Meet a man from San Diego, United States. Independent, sincere, trustworthy and hard-working man. I am looking for a person who are chasing these romantic encounters, at the beach, walking in the park,or standing in the rain on a rainy day. I enjoy road trips and seeing new places. I am very much a typical aquarian with an insatiable curiosity. If this sounds interesting to you and you are looking for the same drop me a line.
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Meet a soulmate from San Diego, United States. Being no spring chicken I have learned life is complicated enough as it is. You have to take time for simple and fun things to off-set hard work. I like to take rides on my Harley and go to the desert (yes...I have a few "man" toys). I am a devoted, divorced dad, but two of my daughters are grown and my youngest is 15 yrs old (going on 25 so she thinks).
I'm self employed in the construction field and happy with myself and what I do but am interested in developing a relationship with someone who shares a positive outlook on life and has a sense of humor. Let's do coffee.
Date people from San Diego, United States. I love going to the movies, art galleries, museums, amusement parks, festivals, and drinking a good wine, and I love Bloody Marys.I am caring, honest, passionate, devoted, fun, creative, family oriented, and respectful. Love traveling, camping, fishing, gardening, live music, flea markets, festivals, movies, photography, nhra, air shows, riding on the back of a harley(not set in stone), animals, texas hill country, san antonio, kemah boardwalk, austin, new mexico, anywhere there are mountains, and enjoying time with my friends, family and significant other. I like cajun, bbq, seafood, italian, but mexican is my favorite. With a margarita of course. I also like moscato wine. Musical tastes are classic rock, hard rock, the blues, alternative. Not here for head games. I'm real and deserve the same. My intent ultimately is to have a fantastic and committed relationship with one woman.
Meet someone special from San Diego, United States. Loyal, open minded, willing to work things out. Strong heart, understanding that everyone has weird things about them. Um, not sure what else to say. Why is there a minimum character needed? Can useless blathering be used?
Date men and women from California, United States. Hi, thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I would describe myself as a funny, intelligent, honest, loyal, open-minded man who is both adventurous and serious when it counts. Family and friends are very important to me, because at the end of the day that is all we have that really matters, right? Staying in shape is important to me, because what we put in our bodies (food, alcohol) must be balanced out by how we can keep it out. It is basic math: the amount of calories you consume minus the amount of calories you exercise off = the amount of fat stays on your body. I go to the gym 5 days a week. I don’t feel that I am a “gym rat”, as my workout is usually no more than 70-100 minutes per day. It’s all about what you during that time of exercising (quality) VS. a long period of exercising (quantity). I love the outdoors, since I am like most people that have to work indoors Monday-Friday 40 hours a week. I love playing beach volleyball (hence, the username “Spikerbrat”), bicycling, skiing, hiking or just walking along the beach. A day in paradise to me is playing some ball in South Mission Beach or hitting some fresh powder on the slopes in Tahoe.
I love good food and wine, not necessarily in that order. I can cook also, mostly BBQ and Italian. You don’t have to worry about cleaning up, as I can do both (I am not looking for a June Cleaver or Harriet Nelson, for those of you who can remember those characters from TV). I try to find new recipes as much as I can, as I am always exploring new meals to try. I don’t worry about failure, that is part of the fun in cooking, keep at it until you master it. I love to listen to live music, such as House of Blues, Belly Up, Cricket Amphitheatre, etc. Going to the movies or watching videos are also good ways to be entertained.
My approach to meeting women on match.com is that I want to take it slow, see if we can be friends first and see if anything develops from there. I promise to listen to what you have to say before making up my mind if I agree with you or not. I like meeting people with different viewpoints from my mine, as I may have missed something completely and now see it in a new context. I will give you your space when requested, and not be overbearing. I believe both parties in a relationship need to show respect and independence to each other. If you would like to know more, please e-mail me.
Meet a man from California, United States. Note: I’m not actively scanning profiles all the time right now, but I’m checking my messages. Yes, I know guys are supposed to take the lead and I don’t mind playing leader, really, so give me a nudge and see if I pick up the ball and run with it. It’s not always wise to let sleeping dogs lay, some might be fun puppies.
I am a laidback atypical low drama nice guy who knows what he wants. One can be a brainy introvert artist/photographer science-nerd Christain and still have a backbone and a well-defined personality. I have a bad knee so my sports life consists mostly of long walks. For friends I’m open to anyone, but for a potential mate I am going to limit myself to those who answer Christian/Protestant. I’m not a liberal, but don’t think evil is under every rock, worms are. Noses are for smelling, not looking down.
I am looking for two different things here:
First, and least, I am looking for platonic friends to hang out with to explore S. Ca. on day trips or road trips, or just a night out at the movies for a comedy or action flick. I would prefer photographers, science folks, artists, thinkers, gamers, etc. How does one say, casual friends and really convey the innocent connotation these days? My favorites would include: museums, zoos, wildlife areas, nature, science stuff, comedies, etc. I’m not a clubber or a dancer but I do like food as long as I don’t have to be choked by a tie to eat it or have it burn my tongue to a crisp.
Second I might be open to the idea of, gasp, dating and finding Miss Right. Faint! She’d have to be someone special to me and that might be you. That’s your cue to faint or run screaming for cover. The traits in a woman I’d find appealing are; smart, educated, humble, funny who is also an introverted artsie science nerd thinker type with her own backbone (yes, I said humble and backbone) who really doesn’t take herself too seriously. I’d pick the quite wallflower over the out going gregarious cheerleader. I had too much fun recently so I’m currently fighting that extra 30lb and I’d expect her to be no more than that. I’m not looking for perfection, or a perfect match but someone who’s stable with substance in mind, soul and employment and not more than 35 miles away for a real good start.
The woman of my dreams is the subject of my dreams. She is the goal of the dream and so I would want to be her goal. I have read too many profiles where the woman is looking for a facilator of her goals and missed dreams come true. For me love is about the other person, not what they can do for me. I like to take road trips (just finished one up the coast) and love good food and visiting wonderful sites with my camera and it’s nice to travel in pairs, dine in pairs, etc., but I have been in a long relationship where the other person loved being loved and that is a poor reflection for the real thing. I’d rather be alone then to pull someone into my life just so I wasn’t alone. That makes companionship, or the avoiding of loneliness the dream, not the other person. So if I read a profile where it looks like the goal is to find a travel agent, banker, dance partner, concierge, designated driver, counselor, retirement facilitator, savior from snow, etc. so that she can fulfill her missed dreams, I’ll automatically pass for a serious long term relationship.
My baggage:
Here’s truth in advertising for you. Although I like both, I have a mild allergy to cats/dogs. One is doable but plural pets would eventually kill me so please no “cat ladies.” My only other big item is that I work rotating shifts. That means I get a 2 week vacation each month but I work ugly hours for 3 weeks at a time including weekends, nights, holidays etc. in between.
So there I am in all my warts and wrinkles. Nudge or pass, your call.
Date single man from California, United States. my ideal match would make conversation easy and natrural. Our interests would not only match each others they would compliment each others as well.
If we disagreed we would work to find common ground that would bring us back together in harmony.
Our only fault would be that we couldnt make everyone feel as happy and in love as we are.
Our personalities would clash only to create more passion in our relationship.
We wouldnt compete for each others affection, we would only strive to enhance it.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. First off I'd like to say hello! This is tough since I'm not a good writer, for starters I'm a very devoted father with two beautiful daughters, one is 18 in college and if I'm lucky I get to see her 1 or 2 days a week, the other is 17 and spends a lot of time at home.I'm easy going, sometimes a bit quiet and shy untill I get to know you, but usually very out going, I love being with family and friends, I'm more comfortable in jeans and tee shirt but I can dress up when the time is needed,I'm very loyal and commited, hard working and a lot of other good qualities as well as some bad .I belive in treating others like you want to be treated. I enjoy sailing, hiking,walks, listening to music of all kinds, rock, country, jazz, you name it.I like playing the drums(althoght it's been a while) I played in a succesfull local band until about 6 years ago when my girls decided they wanted to start drag racing so thats where the focus has been since then, But their not getting any younger and neither am I. So now it's time to move on to the next phase, to find that special lady to spend the rest of my life with. I'm in no hurry I have a busy life and I'm sure you do to. From that fisrt spark when we meet, to friends, lovers and spending the golden years together. Your a little out doorsy maybe jeans and a tee for you as well., you like to cuddel, hug, kiss and spend quality time together. So lets get on with the search and find each other. If you'd like to say hello just send a wink.....................Don
Date people from California, United States. My friends would tell you that I am honest, hard working, funny, playful, giving, helpful, a man with integrity and someone who does what he says he is going to do. I believe a woman should be pampered but not to the point of being spoiled (SPOILED SOMETIMES). When I find the right person they will have my heart and soul. I am not that person who thinks the GRASS IS GREENER on the other side of the fence. I am very much the Gentleman but also have a little bit of a wild side (nothing to extreme). I am very compassionate but also brutally honest. I believe in old school values. I like to open doors, hold hands in public with you at my side (not in front or behind but at my side). Family and Friends are very important to me and I hope they are to you too. I keep myself in very good shape (physically, mentally and spiritually) and am looking for the same in a woman. Absolutely NO DRAMA. I like a woman who keeps herself physically fit, emotionally strong and someone who is not afraid to get their hands a little dirty. I LOVE animals. They have the most unconditional love. I love listening to people. You can learn so much about someone just listening to them (not just hearing them but truely listening). I am looking for someone to share the rest of my life with.
I am very health conscious. Quote from Jack LaLain...."If man made it, Don't eat it". I agree with him 100% but it is kind of hard to stay away from those In-N-Out burgers (double-doubles please).
I am hoping to find someone that is as Giving and as Positive as I am. I enjoy helping people. I am a Do-It-Yourself type (handyman). I am very athletic and love being outdoors whether it be playing sports, camping or just a walk along the beach.
I wish all of you the best of luck in finding that special someone to share your life with.
Meet someone special from California, United States. Kindness, compassionate, creative, and fun loving are just some of the words that describe me. I am an artist and interior designer so I use the right side of my brain constantly. For me it’s the part of my body where I conjure-up wonderfully amazing ideas, visions and imagery. I have the unique ability that when I close my eyes I see incredible colors. Sometimes they look like a lava lamp blobs floating around and other times they look like colorful dot matrix images. I love color in my world.
I am looking for a partner who finds me and my creative personality interesting. I hope to find a woman who likes being loved, someone who is understanding and has a personality that shows concern for people, animals and things. I like being appreciated and loved. I like physical affection (touching, hugging and kissing) I need someone who is intellectual and enjoys conversing in social settings. Most of all, I’m looking for a woman who will find me and my attributes desirable, someone who has similar interests and traits.
Break out your creative side with me. We can make beautiful art together.