Date women from United States / California / Oceanside, 48 year old

Date someone special from Oceanside, United States. Outgoing and fun with a penchant for dogs, horses and horsepower. Transplanted from the DC area and my hair is loving the lack of humidity!
I enjoy the company of people who are secure with who they are and enjoy life, whether full throttle or relaxed. I love to travel and experience new places and people and appreciate someone who has the spirit of adventure. Do you have a passport and aren't afraid to use it?
I love eating good food whether it is an incredible In 'n Out Burger (animal style) in San Diego, Shrimp and Grits in Charleston, anything at Restaurant Eve in Old Town Alexandria, or an arancini in Sicily. I enjoy stimulating conversation, live music and theater, hockey, bbqs, museums, as well as relaxing with a good book and a glass of wine.
I am motivated by life's possibilities and am looking to meet someone who is past the game playing stage, is emotionally evolved, can see the humorous side of life (helps keep life's "bumps" in perspective), and is able to articulate what they need and want. Someone who believes in honesty (tempered with tact), holds their youth in their heart, but uses the wisdom they have acquired through the years; and realizes the importance of making and creating real time for each other. Must be someone who can hold their own, give me a wink across a crowded room, isn't shy about taking my hand and holding it, or kissing the back of my neck. I am not looking for someone to "complete" me, but "appreciate" who and what I already am and is excited about the prospect of who we may become together.
I know that words can lie, but touch never can. I believe in responsibility and accountability. I also believe that you don't ask of someone what you are unable or unwilling to do/be yourself. I've never been a fan of the mundane or the undecided; but neither am I a fan of the brash, the strident, or the discordant. I am looking for someone as special as I am.
Now for the fine print:
I am VERY allergic to cats - if you own them, please pass me by.
If you have made the decision not to post photos, please pass me by - if you get to see me, I get to see you.
If you think my pictures are great or just want to say "hi", that is fine, but do not expect a response back.
If you are recently separated or still reeling from your divorce or breakup, I can't help you "find" yourself. Unfortunately, that is a journey we have to make on our own.

Meet a soulmate from Oceanside, United States. Easy going gal looking for a crazy guy. I am open to just about most situations and hope that he can be also. I have just finalized my divorce and look forward to rebuilding passion in my life. I love the outdoor's life and the water.