Date a soulmate from Hayward, United States. A man who will be upbeat, positive,adore me not demeanor me. A man who will not look at other women while you are with me, I have to be the only one in your eyes. The thought of competition with other women completely turns me off, i love to be center of attention. I attract men, deliberately or not, because of my personality, aura. I do not like jealous men and NO fights. I give an undying affection and love and makes you feel really good about yourself. I do have a soft heart with a hard shell. I need Someone kind and supportive with an adventurous streak. A man to lead the way and give me the desired sense of approval at times. A man who is affectionate and has a strong character but not too controlling. someone who is passionate about everything in their life and who strives for the best in everything. Not interested in hot heads, I love men who take care of themselves but not more than me ;) I have a 3yr old son and work as a full time nurse. I take care of my body, love to be dolled up @ times, but still will get dirty