Date men and women from United States / California / Harbor City, 43 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. Let me begin by telling you I believe that words are cheap, but actions speak much louder. So why bother? I can write and tell you how wonderful I am and attach a bunch of flattering adjectives to my name. I don't want to bore you like that!!! Cause I'm sure you've already found this about one hundred times in all other profiles. So why not start with the bad stuff.
I am impulsive and restless at times, I stay way too late too often. I believe in Big Foot, I like Barry Manilow and gangster rap music. There is something about the night time that I find magic, which keeps me up working or hanging out aimlessly. Can you relate? I love watching chick flicks. I can kill a fly and cried twice like a girl watching 'Notebook'. I have little patience for flakes and fake people who smile while being angry on the inside as I never know what they keep up their sleeve. Many times when I see guys with their wife/girlfriend and checking out other girls from top to bottom. I feel like throwing a twinkie right between their eyes.
I am pretty much an open book and have no shame in my flaws because every one has theirs. I tend to believe I wear my emotions on my shoulders. I am not afraid of showing my true colors. If I fall madly in love with you, I won't be able to keep my mind and hands off you, I'm non possessive, non controlling, not afraid of intimacy, (don't tell any one), I love kissing and holding hands in public. I love the sound of truth because I believe in honesty and integrity. I believe in owning my mistakes so I expect others to do the same.
I am curious about the world around me. I can take a joke and I'm not easily offended. I believe that sarcasm is a spice of life. I am looking for some one who is caring, compassionate, objective, funny, determined, easy-going, giving, nostalgic, sure, imperfect, positive yet realistic, outgoing, interesting, mellow, basically all around decent person and good friend to have.
Some one who doesn't take themselves too seriously. You can spell and generally happy. The rest is negotiable. If you can supply any of the above, there is a demand here.
I am a big fan of simplicity. I am all for blunt honesty, but I believe in the golden rule. I like to give and receive respect. I hope to gain a solid friendship with some one who wants to learn from me and I from her and ready to take it to the next level. So lets talk/write.

Meet a woman from California, United States. Don't know where to begin here only that I am looking for someone who basically don't need me, but wants to be with me...I'm not looking for happilily ever after...reality is...life is full of contrast, and I have learned to embrace not only the good things but also the uncertainties, and look for ways to expand and trust and love...myself first..and it is from that place of confidence and security in who I am that I am seeking my friend, my lover, my partner....
I am looking for someone who is able to enjoy goodness, and also walk this journey in life with me through any challenges that may arise on the journey..
I'm looking to connect on a higher level ...meaning beyond the mind. I know exactly who I am looking for so much that I am willing to not be with anyone until I meet him. It doesn't matter what kind of job he does only that he is in love with what he does, and knows without a shadow of a doubt that he is making a difference on the planet.
I can spend time with him, and I can spend time away from him. There is freedom from attachment, yet I feel so connected to him. He is my friend, and I can tell him anything. Or I can be silent, and still feel so connected to him, even without words filling our space. He values me, and I value him. I'm emotionally free, and so is he.
I'm no domestic goddess, so I want a man who can cook and clean...just kidding...I would enjoy cooking with you...more than for you...
All for now...until we meet....Peace....