Date men and women from United States / California / Granada Hills, 47 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I would like someone to spend time with doing all sorts of fun things and be able to have great conversation with. Must have a great sense of humor. I am a loveable person and love romantic men who are spontaneous and creative. I am very loyal and cuddly and enjoy talking and video games as well as going out with friends and family hope you do too. Don't like liars or guys who think they have to act a certain way to impress anyone, be yourself. I am looking for an honest relationship start as friends and then go from there. Family is important and I value a man who thinks so. Not looking for a father for my sons but rather a friend and mentor for them. They are getting older and are self reliant and awesome gentlemen. I think it's endearing when a man is romantic and affectionate versus overly stimulated, if you know what I mean. I have currently have started taking care of myself which includes exercising more than three times a week, maybe more and my body is a work in progress. I am more determined than ever to stay healthy and take care of myself. So if I sound like someone u want to meet do so.

Meet a woman from United States. Adventurous, vivacious, witty, loyal, intelligent, curious, motivated, problem-solver, social, emotionally stable, approachable, adaptable, discerning, mystical, dependable, highly independent, willing to walk away from illusion, and solid is what my friends would say.
I would say I am an explorer, a thinking woman, insightful, passionate, brave, rebellious, and determined. I practice drama avoidance because I value my tranquility.
I do not do well with a bunch of rules (not to be confused with knowing boundaries) ---and in that regard it makes little sense to have a shopping list of what a man should and should not do. The way I see it grown men and women already know these answers within themselves. If there is a meeting-of-the-minds between two people...all the better. Besides, time will reveal the truth anyway, right? Right.
Above all, I am looking for a friend --someone who understands such bonds require time and effort. The rest will unfold exactly the way it should. I do not require large amounts of time, but rather the quality of meaningful interaction is what has the greatest impact on me. Physical attraction is important, and in my way of thinking, so is intellectual and emotional fortitude. The most interesting people I have met in my life have wonderful stories of triumphs and sorrows ---they understand where they are and what delivered them there (and take responsibility for their own role). These are the people who understand why they believe what they believe, feel what they feel, respect and disrespect what they do, and have done enough self-assessment to understand how and why they think/reason as they do, ---and are able to effectively communicate strong opinions about their passions without alienating and/or offending others.
There is truly something magical about the human spirit that resides within. I have met both men and woman who are attractive and/or wealthy on the outside, but turn ugly when they become rude, mean, ill-mannered, judgmental, liars, disrespectful, self-centered, and unaware of their own projections. Conversely, I have met some average looking people who have become nothing but incredibly beautiful in my mind simply because they understand the depth of not only who they are, but also who they desire to become.
I believe one of the best things in life are long, soft, slow, deep, spiritual, sensual, wet kisses that make you think to yourself, "Yeah Baby!" and leaves you giddy and dizzy at the same time ---like waking up from a long sleep. My ideal match knows such things ---and also knows chemistry comes about as a result of the deep rapport created between two individuals. It makes complete sense to me that once the connection is made a doorway into spontaneity and adventure opens.
Match men have taught me: If you are unable to introduce me to your family, friends, the ex, coworkers, etc... we are not a match.