Date men from United States / California / Dana Point, 52 year old

Date a soulmate from Dana Point, United States. So here I go trying to encapsulize myself in as few words as possible. I believe that life is meant to be lived to the fullest. I love to travel, meet new people of all walks of life. No drama here. I seek a girl that will truly appreciate a guy that will treat her with respect, honesty and passion. In my book a touch of chivalry is more than OK it’s an essential part of my persona.
The "SPARK" is essential. I believe that when the right chemistry is in place there are endless possibilities. That's the piece that's been missing for me. It�s simple, my perfect mate will be my best friend first. Nature will take care of the rest.
I don't seek perfection. I am far from perfect. But I believe that it's those little imperfections that we all have and those idiosyncrasies and little things we do out of habit that make us who we are. How we are "wired". It's the best part about life. So, question isn't whether or not you or I are perfect. The real question is, whether or not we're perfect for each other. The only way you'll find out that is by giving it a shot. I'm game!

Meet someone special from Dana Point, United States. How wonderful am I? Let me count the ways! LOL!
Before we get to that…let’s talk about relationships to see if we look at them the same way…I am a speaker and writer professionally, so I hope you like to read…
I believe a successful relationship depends upon the following:
First and foremost is respect and everything that comes with it.
Next is genuine friendship.
Relationships usually begin because of physical attraction. Once life’s challenges and stresses come along, if you’re not good friends, the relationship will not survive.
Next… the �C’ word. Communication.
If you cannot express your feelings, cares, concerns, hopes and dreams to your mate, you either do not have a mate or do not know how to communicate.
Affection, romance, passion and intimacy are the fire in the furnace that keeps the house warm. You can sustain it as long as both partners do their best to stay interesting and attractive to each other. Once you take each other for granted…
People say you have to �work’ at a relationship.
I believe the opposite is true.
If you have to work at your relationship, chances are there are some fundamental problems that have not been addressed.
When you are in a healthy relationship, it is effortless. It is more like breathing. That takes energy too but it’s natural. It’s not work.
About me…
I am monogamous and totally loyal by nature.
I am happy alone or with the right person.
However, I would very much like to meet the lady that is the right person for me and vice versa. But that is a process. It takes time to get to know one another. Rushing to be intimate is a sure way to complicate things.
I am extremely courteous, respectful, romantic and affectionate by nature.
I am an Alpha male. Confident but not egotistical. I am charming, sophisticated and charismatic....did I mention humble? LOL
I am kind, gentle, sensitive and generous.
I exercise regularly and am extremely fit.
If we are at a pool or the beach and I take my shirt off, I assure you that you will not be embarrassed. But there is more to it than that. I want to be proud to be seen with you and I want you to feel the same about me. I also want you to look at me the same way I look at you…with hunger. I want us to be anywhere and be able to look into each other’s eyes from across the room and make that connection that says…’let’s get out of here…’
I am very positive by nature---I do give motivational speeches--- and I have a great sense of humor…love the sound of a woman's laugh...especially if I caused it! As far as romance is concerned, I find kissing is the best part but there has to be mind to mind connection for there to be chemistry.Frankly, it is extremely important to me that you like kissing and cuddling. Two things tell me who I am with when it comes to a woman…first, her eyes. The eyes truly are the windows to the soul. Second, it is the way she kisses. Now about you…you are extraordinarily attractive. When you walk into a room, even the women go �Wow!’. You are sweet and intelligent and charismatic and sexy and charming and passionate and sophisticated and powerful and down to earth and creative and spiritual and humorous and independent and romantic and affectionate and faithful and kind.
You are realistically hopeful and wonder if you are such a complete woman, why is it taking you so long to find the right man? OK. Karma, my life choices, fate, things happen for a reason… but after a while, the reasons get old…
You’re ok with that.
You have become accustomed to it and you are a strong and positive person, so you will have an enjoyable and fulfilling life whether you are with someone or not…But…wouldn’t it be nice….?
I feel the same…

Date a man from Dana Point, United States. laMy passion at this point in life is to enjoy my children ages 15 and 17. However, I do want a life partner to spend time with, travel, and just enjoy a great relationship. I am caring, I do like to talk! I am mature, I like to be active and still enjoy competition in Volleyball. I am attentive to my partner's needs and I love to give of myself but not exclusively so! Would love to tell you more!

Meet single man from Dana Point, United States. I Love to have fun, enjoy life to it's fullest. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, to enjoy what life has together and to share our thoughts, desires, fears, and dreams. Looking for a great friend leading to a lasting relationship. Basically, I'm looking for someone to have fun with, explore the world, and laugh.
I love to travel, to explore, and learn. My "match" should have those same desires and be ready to go at a moments notice.
That's not to say that I have to stay in constant motion. Relaxing and watching the Colts, a good movie, or playing Euchre is fine to. Maybe even cuddling up for a nap on the weekend.
I have two boys, one in college and one that is finishing high school.
Want to know more? Ask!!

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am an honest, loyal and passionant man. I love to cuddel, imbrace and hold hands all the time. I am secure with myself and know what im looking for. I am a one woman man looking for a one man woman who knows what she wants in a relationship. im looking for my soul mate to enjoy the rest of our lifes with.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I just moved to the Keys at Lake Forest, and have way too much space! How much is "too much"? Look at the photo essay.
All kidding aside --
Here's what I have to offer:
***** Passion - I am a hopeless romantic. I believe that when you meet the right person, lifer is 10 times better in every way. To get us through the rough spots, I promise to take care of you in every way you could imagine…
***** Loyalty - If you can't focus on one person and offer them your full attention and energy, care about what happens to them, and desire more than anything else to contribute to their life, you shouldn't be in a relationship.
***** Respect - You can tell a lot about a man by understanding his relationship with his mother. I watched over my mom for 17 years after she had a stroke. I got to know her in away that would not have been possible otherwise. So yes, I respect women! Then again, my mom also have my high expectations about all of the things described here -- so it's a two-edged sword. I have a lot to give, and I expect a lot as well.
***** Imagination and Excitement about Life -- Ever since I was a child, I have possessed a vivid and restless mind. This is a very sexy quality in any human being. I hope you have felt free enough to discover your inner child and let it run around the place and make (a little bit of) a mess.
***** Sense of humor -- A person's intelligence can be measured in what they find funny, and how they discover the humor in everyday life. I am always grinning about something.
If I don't get back to you, please understand that I work and only have time to follow up where I see a genuine connection on all levels. I don't want to waste anyone's time. Life is far too precious.
About "Players"
Most women on this site complain about "players". So "keeping it real": a player is a person who wastes the time of others for their amusement or pleasure. That includes ladies who flirt online and the run off, as if we could chase them through the virtual world of online dating -- !! So if you are a grown-up (definition: you do unto others as you would have them do unto you), let me tell you what I want in a woman:
(1) You need to drop whatever baggage you have carried through life at the door of my mansion. There is no room for it, ironically. Reinvent yourself. Life is in the now; live it as if you were going to die tomorrow.
(2) You need to be active and healthy. BUT -- no Work Out Queens, as I have discovered most of them to have very serious issues with men. I don't have time for that. If you work out on Christmas and curse yourself for not working out on New Year's Day, you are a Work Out Queen. If you love activity, your body shows it. You are not perfect, but neither is anyone else but the Work Out Queens.
(3) You must enjoy your body! If you are not sexually open for your man, then get a dog and comb his hair all day long! I am particular about my intimate partner, but once I find the right chemistry, watch out… me Tarzan, you Jane!
(4) I enjoy a woman who is stacked and lovin' it. Everybody has their own catnip. Women sometimes act as if they don't, but they really love a man's nose, or chin, or posterior. So fess up, ladies, and admit what you really enjoy about your partner, and don't make any apologies. This is your life. Live it!
(5) Sorry to have to point this out, but women have replaced men with PETS. Are we that unreliable? I'm, not! So please have the "best friend" on a leash… a dog is not a microphone!

Date a man from California, United States. Looking for someone who showers and brushes her teeth regularly. If they can spell and have a sense of humor, that would be great too. My ideal match would be someone who enjoys eating chocolate and drinking wine in bed. If that doesn't work out, I suppose we could always go to a bar and drink wine, but I like my first choice better.