Date men from United States / California / Winnetka, 52 year old

Date a man from Winnetka, United States. Women are always saying they want a man with a sense of humor. Well, then, you have come to the right profile! I am an easy-going, fun-to-be-with, down-to-earth guy looking for the same in a woman. I know I'm not very tall, but on the bright side, you won't have to stand on tip-toes to kiss me. I am bright, kind, charming, educated and with the aforementioned sense of humor that runs the gamut from sharp to silly. A great mixture of wit and wisdom. Approachable, friendly, outgoing. I am stable and I’ll keep things interesting. I’ve been described as a bright light under a bushel basket, waiting to be discovered.
Serious side: a bit more layered than the typical male, but not so complex that you’ll need a guide book. A bit curmudgeonly, but not really; more lovable than anything else. Sometimes stubborn, but I usually acquiesce. I have my opinions, but I can be swayed. I like tradition, both old and new. I believe in common sense and courtesy. I prefer talking, not texting. I can get deep into a good conversation. I don’t boast or brag (except here; one sort of has to). Integrity is important and I’m known for mine. I know when to stand up, stand down, pick my battles wisely, and I’m nobody’s doormat.
Fun side: I’d much rather hug, laugh and hug again! I stay in shape with hiking, walking, the occasional softball game. Love a good game of pool, too. I like to sing and can switch easily from Bach to Beach Boys. I like to dance. I'm innately rhythmical, but you have to show me the steps. Even perform in the creative arts when the muse so beckons. I can make a joke to lighten the mood or make a point. I love the old b/w movies (too bad life isn't like that any more). I like to dress appropriately for the occasion (people are too �casual’). I like going out or staying in. Up for anything. Life is full of small, but wonderful things.
Romantic side: love to hug, hold hands, kiss, be chivalrous, trade glances, succumb to the moment.
Basically, I'm a nice, normal guy of good parents. I’m of good heart, mind and character. The best part of my life is my circle of friends. It is said you can judge a man by the friends he keeps. Well, I have many good ones. But none takes the place of that special someone.
I am looking for my partner in life and love. No more �just friends’. I don’t mind going to places alone, but I'd much rather go with someone. Someone who can laugh, cry, anger, forgive, love (but not all in the same moment. Whew!). Someone to count on and learn from, with a bright mind, a great smile, a good laugh. Eyes full of warmth and welcome. Please know by now what’s important in life. Yes, everyone is active and travels, and who doesn’t like fine dining? These things aren't important. It’s the good in a person that counts, not the stamps in a passport. The good they do, not the goods they have. Relationships can be as easy or as hard as you make them. Not every moment can be exciting, nor should it be, but I’ll guarantee not every moment will be wasted. I want to share these moments of care, fun, thoughtfulness, romance. My definition of a good relationship: I make her laugh, she makes me smile.
About money: it seems it can be very important to some women. I am cautioned by the profiles that say they're looking for a man "to laugh with and love with"...but down in the fine print he has to make six figures. I admit I’m not a millionaire. So if you’re still reading, don’t worry. I am financially responsible. I can be generous to the right woman. Like me for me, not the size of my wallet.
With acquired wisdom, I’m using an opportunity of change to reassess, reinvent, relearn, and do some charity and volunteering. Putting my ducks in a row while I start a new chapter in my life. Would like to start it with someone special. I may not be everything on your wish list, but no one ever is. So skip the wink and send a message. Test that chemistry. Life is too short. Let’s put our ducks together