Date men from United States / Alabama / Birmingham, 41 year old

Date someone special from Birmingham, United States. I signed up for this thinking I wanted to start dating, and have found now isn't the time. But still here because I'm open to finding a friend/companion - especially someone who's been through a divorce, maybe someone else learning to be a part or full-time single parent. Someone to connect with - in whatever sense becomes appropriate - is always welcome. Also, it would be nice to have some adult time, watch a movie that's not animated, talk about the world, etc.
I have a 9-yr-old son who is fantastic, and my top priority. Not sure what's in store for me romantically, but it will be on his timetable, at least when it comes to introducing a new "other" into his life.
I love my job in communications/education, I love to laugh at the absurdity of life. I'm usually calm, a peacemaker, and only raise my voice to yell at traffic. Too passive at times, tend to let things go, which can be healthy...or keep me in a bad marriage.
I used to work as a news reporter, best that I'm not now because I'm fairly opinionated, liberal but pragmatic. Watch Stewart and Colbert religiously, and drove to DC for the "Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear."
Who am I looking for? You probably have an idea if it's you. :)

Meet a soulmate from Birmingham, United States. What am I seeking? I'd like to spend some time with a really nice girl with a great attitude. She has to know who she is and have her own goals and dreams that can mesh into mine. If she has a sense of humor and likes to laugh hard that only helps. This lady is someone who is graceful and elegant enough to go out for a night at the Black tie Gala event as well as a day on the lake or a concert outdoors. She should love peace of mind and happiness. Overly dramatic/materialistic types I detest.
I believe a lady should familiarize herself with beauty and femininity, grace and elegance. She should climb the ladder of industry as well as she pleases but also take care of the business wherever she lives. Now you add all of this together with just a minute sprinkle of gangster in the mix to make her all complete. And what do I get? The lady who stepped out of the daydreams.
Furthermore, as for me, I believe in Karma and the Golden Rule. I like to be around those who are optimistic, light hearted and cheerful. All prudes and "smugsters" please move on to the next dude. However, If you are the Star that I seek, let me know. I look forward to meeting you soon.

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Meet a man from Birmingham, United States. I am an outgoing person who enjoys living life to the fullest. I love being outside and enjoy nature and watching things grow. I love to travel and see exciting new places and cultures. . Would much rather go for dinner and conversation than to a bar. I love to eat out and really like someone to share an evening, whether at fine dining or a taco truck. Am up for whatever most of the time, and am willing to try almost anything once. I am self-employed, so I value what I do with my time. I have experienced an amazing life so far, more than most could ever hope to see or do. From traveling the country in a VW to shacking up at the Ritz Carlton, all experiences have been memorable.
I am looking for someone who loves life and is not afraid to take chances in order to gain self-fullfillment. someone who has an affinity for being outdoors, traveling, and having stimulating conversations. Career oriented, but able to take off for personal enjoyment. Someone who likes to get out and enjoy all the little things that life throws at you. I like to peruse galleries, check out museums, just cruise around a city on foot and take it in..
I am independent, successful, and some say a little opinionated. I run a business that I started twelve years ago, and love what I do. I am looking for someone to break bread with and take in the beauty of life and experiences.

Date someone special from United States. i am a wonderful father to my children and i love babies. but not looking to have anymore.i work hard and doesn't look for any hand out like other people do.i earn everything that i get and i am proud of it.

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As for me, I'm strong, confident, intelligent, a bit arrogant and a survivor who can adapt to almost any situation or type of person. I'm 41, 6’2 and weigh 235lbs. The ideal match for me would be attractive, have a kind heart with morals, values, goals and dreams. I was married for approximately 18 years and have (2) boys who are ages 17 & 15. Thanks to God and their mother for giving me these guys.
Now, a little deeper into the conversation, I’m not perfect nor am I looking for anyone near perfect. Actually I’m looking for that individual who recognizes their imperfections and seeks improvement on a daily basis. We are all a “work in progress” and being able to see one’s self in that light is crucial to me. I absolutely can’t tolerate to be around anyone with constant drama and an ungrateful attitude. Although life is hard for most of us it can always be worse.
As for dating and relationships, I’m no longer 18 or looking for a quick piece of! Not to say that I’ve always thought this way but I’m looking for a mature woman with values and morals ! Please don’t get me wrong, I want nothing less than a loving, all over each other type of relationship! An unselfish woman who wants to pamper and be pampered just because. A woman one who puts butterflies in my stomach as well as consume my every thought daily.
If any of this makes any sense we could most likely carry on a conversation whether the topic is bs or serious. If you’ve made mistakes in the past then we could compare but the past is the past in my life. Again, I’m imperfect and not seeking perfection but a realistic, honest, attractive and loyal woman that I would one day give my life for….

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I'm looking for a woman who has strong sense of family. She must be confident and yet she know who to have good time.

Meet a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I'm a guy who likes to hangout with friends , or go out to dinner or even catch a good movie from time to time , I love animals and the outdoors and looking for someone to spend time with doing things we both like to do .

Date single man from Alabama, United States. FUN, OUT GOING AND LOVES TO DANCE. LOVE TO ROMANCE A SPECIAL SOME ONE WHO REALLY UNDERSTANDS TIME TOGETHER!! LOOKING FOR A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WHO WANTS SOMETHING MORE OUT OF LIFE. CAN YOU BE THE ONE? IM A STRONG MALE WHO NEEDS A STRONG WOMAN, THATS ALL I ASK.. im just me and im looking for a down 2 earth real woman who knows how 2 make me laugh smile and with a down 2 earth man that loves to dance, workout, volunteer, and travel. I LOVE to laugh and joke with friends during past time. great personality!

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