Date men from United States / Alabama / Birmingham, 45 year old

Date single man from United States. I consider myself somewhat carefree but not "carefree" about living my life. I truely believe we should enjoy the short time we have on this earth. I love spending time with family, laughing and joking around. I also have a business side that takes care of what needs to be done without questions or excuses.
I'm not a perfect man. I have a lot to learn going forward and I come with flaws. I'm not looking for perfection, but a woman who understands herself well enough to continue to improve upon the areas where work is needed.
I love to travel and do outdoor activities and I'm willing to be spontaneous. I'm open-minded and willing to explore new experiences.
My ideal match is a person who is secure, but not nonchalant about her life, family, or me. I'm interested in a woman that is direct, but not forceful. Also, I'm interested in a woman who is assertive, but not overbearing. I enjoy a fun-lovingm spontaneous, sensual, sexy, and grounded woman.

Meet a man from United States. Ladies, if you like bad boys, I have bad news for you...I am a nice guy! To the point of being geeky sometimes. I was raised to be a gentleman, and that's the way I want to keep it. I'm also a grown adult and have no desire to revert back to my high school days like some women I've been with. I WANT A RELATIONSHIP! I'm laid back and prefer as little drama as possible. That's an ironic statement coming from someone who's a part-time actor, but I leave my drama on the stage or in front of the camera.
On the subject of children: I always thought it would be nice to have kids of my own, whether biological or adopted. But I have to be realistic. So I would consider a woman who has kids and doesn't want any more. I personally think I would make a great step-father. I have a lot of love and caring to share.
As far as physical activity, I do weights, walking, jogging and swimming...but only to stay in shape. I don't spend all my hours doing physical activity. I prefer a woman who likes to go to movies, theatre, museums and coffee/book shops. A nice restaurant here and there, and I like a good hole-in-the-wall place from time to time(especially BBQ joints).
I love comedy. Because of my part-time gig at the Comedy Club, I can get free tix at certain times; or at the very least, BOGO. So if you want to see a comedian, let me know.
I drink socially, but I'm really not a bar kind of person. I prefer a small gathering around people I love.
I'm grateful for my birth mother that I met about 10 years ago. My adoptive parents have been dead for years and my biological mom has been a godsend in my life.
I owned a business years ago that failed, but I have learned from my mistakes and would like to make another go of it sometime.
I want to be a writer. I've been working on my memoirs for a few years now and want to publish them someday.
I love acting. If I could do that full-time I would, but that's impossible in Birmingham. I am a full-time salesperson.
I'm not necessarily looking for someone who is just like me, but someone who can accept my quirks. Someone who loves me for me. And I want to do the same for that woman.
I could go on longer, but I'm tired of writing. If you have any questions, I'll answer them.

Date a soulmate from United States. Confident man. Fun-loving, calm, supportive, encouraging, helpful, intelligent, well-read, small town raised in a loving blue-collar home. I'm looking for a friend and companion. I can do my own clothes, cook and clean in addition to work outside. Love to make you happy in every way. Sometimes I give to a fault but I'm protective of those I love. Are you looking for someone to listen, hold your hand, cuddle up to, wipe your tears, share your joys, make you laugh, brush your hair and give you a mind numbing massage? Well thats for starters. I love all that and so much more. Love to travel spontaneously, just get in the car and go. My dream is to travel the great backroads of this country. Just need a travel partner. Age is just a number to me. I'm interested in you for you - mind, body and spirit. Love sports, fishing, history, movies, animals and flea markets. Like to cook occasionally and am very self-sufficient with housework. Photography and history are my passions.

Meet someone special from United States. Ok lets see..hello my name is Frank, I am 6'0" 240 lbs "soft around the middle" red hair and green eyes I have a steady income I love fishing,taking walks on the beach,mountain trails,city streets anywhere as long as I have someone that is not afraid to hold hands while out taking these walks. I have 2 sons one 24 and one 13 both live with their mom. But I have a close and loving relationship with them both and nothing or nobody will ever change that. In my relationships I give the same dedication. I have no problem with public display of effection and you should not also. I like eating out "love Olive Garden" but I love to eat at home also I love to cook and so should you. If you like what you read and want to know more feel free to send me an e-mail. I have pictures upon request.

Date single man from Birmingham, United States. I am a gentle and easy going person, God fearing, straight forward, and open minded. I try not to get on peoples nerves not getting them cross at me, also i believe one thing about life that you do on to others what you want them to do onto you. I dislike shits and lies i hate! am a very romantic person with flexible body (tender soft skin) i take much pleasure in kissing. i love sea side walk and relaxation beside the pool, gist a Lil while, love basket ball. Open display of affection. I think that's all i can say for now! My Idea match must be down to earth, easy going, loving and kind with a tender mind, have a big heat to condole all things, passionate and generous with care. My mate will get to know me better when we meet!

Meet a man from Birmingham, United States. Hi there…. I am a very easy going guy. I enjoy my life and try to live each day like it could be my last, but I also plan for the future. I enjoy doing anything outdoors, spending time with friends and family, shooting pool and watching a local band, or just stay in, cook a nice dinner and watch a movie. What I am doing, is not as important to me as who I am doing it with.

Date a soulmate from Birmingham, United States. I am a professional who works to not only pay the bills but also for the challenges that come from the work environment. Still, I take my time away from work just as seriously. I enjoy art, music, museums, shooting, hunting, skiing, RC planes, cooking, reading, travel, movies, and evenings out with my friends or someone special. My friends describe me as a complex person, Type A, so I am a little bit driven, philosophical, and also sometimes sarcastic, but in a good way. I enjoy a good conversation and on occasion a good debate on politics and world affairs. Still, at other times I am quiet and introspective; yet know how to be a romantic and passionate person with somebody special. My friends and family are very important to me and have the same values that I have such as honesty, integrity, and trust. I would expect and give nothing less to someone in my life. I know this may sound like old world values in a modern world, but it’s what I believe. If you are a player, married, serial dater, or dysfunctional than I strongly suggest you pass me by as I am not willing to help you fix your issues. I am here to find a special once in a lifetime person with a spark in their heart, magic in their eyes, and a sense of hope…
I am looking for someone who is honest, trusting, and caring; a deeply compassionate woman that always puts their family first, passionate about life, romance, someone that is not afraid to show affection or their sensual side. An adventurous woman that wants to share what I enjoy, isn’t afraid to get dirty, who loves animals, and might even know how to saddle a horse. She should be comfortable sitting by a campfire or going out on the town in a black evening dress. A spiritual woman that isn't afraid to live life to the fullest, break the constraints, loves to see new places, travel and experience the world and the wild places with fresh eyes for the first time with their lover and best friend…someone that can set my heart on fire with just a look.
Please wink back if I send one and your interested. I know it's "weak", but I need a reason to re-subscribe.

Meet someone special from Birmingham, United States. Someone to have fun with. Look at movies with an maybe take walks with go to dinners with maybe danceing. Maybe build a life with. If u want the same thing as I want send me a wink no games no lies be real.

Date single man from Alabama, United States. Ok, here goes........I've been in Alabama for just over five years, after relocating from the west. The climate here is great, and having beaches nearby is a huge plus. I have some family nearby, including a niece and nephew who I've been able to hang out with quite a bit. I do have a 1 1/2 year old Bernese Mountain Dog, and she has been a ton of fun. All of 75 pounds, I picked her up outside of Auburn, (War Eagle or Roll Tide??). The dog enjoys swimming at any time, so besides dog parks and regular walks, there's a lot of dog laps going on. Hobbies that I enjoy are being outside, reading, playing baseball, some frisbee, hiking, and when I can, mountain biking. I don't really have a workout regimen, I just go out and do as much as I can. As for the kind of woman I'm looking to meet, someone who is into spontaneity, is comfortable with jeans one night and a dress the next. Someone who can hold a conversation and mean it. A good sense of humor is of course, a necessity! In exchange for all that, expect to get a guy who has manners and holds doors, who believes that chivalry is not dead, probably just playing possum.

Meet a man from Alabama, United States. Simple man who has lived and moved around and would like to meet sweet simple ladies. Can be caring but not easily trusting. No room for drama in my life hate Jerry Springer show and Maury povitch. Bull

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I would like to meet someone who is a people person and who likes to attend social gatherings and enjoy social events.
I would like to meet someone who is considerate of others and who has a generally sunny outlook on life. I do not want someone in my life who is negative all of the time and thinks only of herself.
Most of my jobs have involved meeting the public. I know thousands and thousands of people who were: in school at UA when I worked at the Rec Center and was in Business School, were my tenants in my various real estate jobs, or who have been or are my current clients. Nearly everywhere I go, I am likely to run into people that I know. I am thankful that most of the time that I run into someone that I know, they want to stop and talk; this has driven some of my female companions crazy in the past. (Not really sure why....)

Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. I am a blue dot in a red state. I like to laugh and don't take myself or others too seriously. I am searching to meet someone to eat cheese with. Preferably an energetic sort with a sense of adventure! I am a professional and enjoy reading, travel and music. I was an English major in college and taught British literature for a few years. I have two beautiful children that I love more than life itself! I am an ex athlete trying to stay healthy currently involved in Cross Fit. I would consider myself a Renaissance man. Born and raised in NC and will always be a Tarheel. I love conversations about the world, not just football. If it's OUTSIDE, I'm in.......Carpe Diem!
"Gather ye rose buds while ye may;
Old time is still a flying,
For that same flower that smiles today,
Tomorrow will be dying".

-Robert Herrick, 'To the Virgins to Make Much of Time"

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