Date men from United States / Alabama / Birmingham, 47 year old

Date someone special from Birmingham, United States. I find it hard to do a "cliff's notes" of yourself in only so many words, or lines., But here i will try....
First, never in a million years did I ever think I would be here doing this over the internet. I am not looking to “hook” up as they say or be a “player” here. Those days are long gone-it will be slow and steady for me for awhile.
I am easy to please and truly love the simple things in life. Stuff is not as important as finding someone to share your life with. It's really simple and as silly as it sounds we are all looking for the same thing: friendship, companionship, someone to spend happy/quality moments as well as the mundane and boring moments with, someone who just plain old likes being with you and enjoys your company. And of course vice-versa from me to her. I'm looking for a fun, balanced, sometimes serious but if the moment is right a little spontaneous woman. i definetly love and appreciate keeping my body and mind in shape but am not over the top about excercise. I'm very passionate about the outdoors in general i love being outside and not just sitting on the couch.
My 2 boys (11 and 13-joint custody) are my rock-they keep me motivated and happy, love watching them play sports and just growing up in general. I have a great job at Blue Cross (11 years now) and truly like what i do there. very flexible schedule, which is just a bonus for such a good job.
So here we are on the internet.. If you’re interested e-mail back.

Meet a soulmate from Birmingham, United States. My closest would describe me as Humble, intelligent and social, what makes me smile is if someoneone smiles also.iam grateful i was made a man. iam hoping to attract those who are like me. My social life is average. in relationship iam looking for a partner to socialise with.

Date single man from Birmingham, United States. im looking for that real one that is sexy and sweet some one that want to be with me and some one that dont play game and dont go out with 2 are 3 men at one time thay no what they want in life that like to do the same things i like to do

Meet a man from Birmingham, United States.
Hello. I am looking for someone who is witty, intelligent, good looking, woman who likes dogs, going to the lake and likes spending a lot of time together.
I like hot sauce, love coffe, red wine especially pinot noir. Boating at Lake Martin. .
I am looking now for the right one to spend the rest of my life and to raise a family.
I am generally attracted to women who are college educated, smart, and witty. I like someone with a high level of energy but that can be casual at the same time.
I am a dog lover and I feel like someone who does not like dogs will not be a match.
Feel free to email me with questions or comments.

Date someone special from United States. Putting my best foot forward to try and find a match out there.Funny people and dogs can make me smile. I'm an accomplished mechanic and trainer for new mechanics. Would like to meet someone who loves to have fun.laugh. and make others laugh. Need someone who likes to go out and feel appreciated.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Average to athletic build, successful self-employed person. Enjoy family and friends and sometimes being alone. Also enjoy spending time with my kids and exercising. Ameteur musician and enjoy playing but don't too much since it drives the neighbors crazy. I don't post a picture since I am self-employed in a small community and prefer to keep my private life private. I will send one via email upon request.

Date single man from United States. Just looking. It seems dating is way more complicated that it used to be... My past your Past...what you want what I want . I dunno just looking for cute sweet fun sexy gal to have a normal relationship with. It says I have to use up 66 more characters before I can stop typing lol. Much prefer a one on one conversation to get to know some one . My friends have said and I think still would lol. That Im a decent guy,loyal,funny,dependable...sounds downright boring doesnt it? lol But seriously seeking the same cute funny ,easy going,low drama mama ;-)

Meet a man from United States. i'm way over the bar scene. church? probably shouldn't be checking out women when i'm there. setups? ("hey, i have someone i want you to meet...") people are so much worse at matchmaking than they realize.
i admire humility, so writing about myself isn't easy, but here's my take:
great moments in history:
1965: i was born, and the beatles invaded america. no, not literally. there were only four of them. but if they had, we would have sent the beach boys to �take care of that.’
1968: moved from pensacola, but on moving day the fam couldn’t find me because i was hiding under libby’s bed. libby was my woman.
1972: after 1st grade in houston (which sucked. my teacher was old and mean. she said she had an �electric paddle’. i hope she’s in a nursing home that has no cable tv...or maybe just basic cable. but i digress...) i moved to flomaton for 2nd grade. every morning, the teacher would go to the �cloak room’ to get the story book. that’s when i would entertain the class by kissing my girlfriend.
1974: pitched in my first little league game as a nervous 9 yr. old. i just remember listening to chicago on the way to the ballpark. i still get nauseous when i hear chicago.
1976: quarterback for the pee-wee football team. we went undefeated. i was tiny. i was 11 and weighed 72 pounds. more on this later. oh, and there was talk about a �bicentennial’ that year. whatever.
1980: quarterback for the j.v. football team. we went undefeated. i was in the 10th grade and was 5’4”, 97 pounds. i was tiny. this was the year that ’80’s music’ began.
1983: graduated high school. still had not shaved. went to jr. college and played baseball. i had a �member’s only’ jacket.
1986: student manager for the bama football team. awesome. started listening to cool music. i'm finally 6 feet tall. that would have been helpful a few years earlier.
1993: passed the bar exam. grunge music was in. also listened to a lot of country music. strange mix.
1996: moved to puerto rico and taught jr. high english for 2 yrs. awesome experience, especially cheap caribbean travel, and the lifetime friends i made.
1998: back to tuscaloosa. opened my own office.
2002: my oldest daughter was born.
2003: my youngest daughter was born. (then i figured out was was causing this to happen)
2012: here i sit. but if a chicago song comes on, i think i’ll skip it.
these profiles seem to be about whatever mood someone is in. i’m rested, relaxed and clearly, goofy as hell. (but i swear i’m not drunk)
i think most people look at a picture, then read the profile if interested. in all honesty, i’m unlikely to contact someone that i doubt i’d be attracted to, or someone with no picture. i don’t over emphasize beauty, but attraction is important. my idea of beautiful is this: we’re on the beach. you don’t have on a stitch of makeup, yet i see you as beautiful. not a big makeup fan, but i know it’s sorta required. i'm deeply attracted to a woman that smiles with her eyes, because they really are the windows to the soul. a sexy smile makes me week in the knees.
i’m practical, dependable and wise. wisdom comes from learning from your own mistakes and the mistakes of others. got plenty of that. i’m patient and move slowly. this can be mistaken for a lack of interest, but i’m just thinking and observing. i'm not a microwave, i’m a crock pot. (speaking of, i love to cook. mainly because i love to eat.) my faith in God runs deep.
i don't do pettiness or drama. i also deserve to start with a blank slate. in other words, i won't pay for the sins of your ex. independence is sexy. if you're parents still pull the strings, that may be an issue for me.
my daughters are the best thing that ever happened to me, but a romantic relationship would never take a backseat to them. i’m raising them to understand that concept. they’re beautiful, funny, smart and best of all, sweet.

Date someone special from Alabama, United States. Well educated, hard working, professional. I love Alabama football, reading, travel, adventure and the outdoors. Looking for someone who is cute and funny...and not a lady in the bedroom. I am a southern boy, born and raised. Would be nice to find the same. I have a nice build but need to get back in the gym.

Meet a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I am not looking for a perfect person. I would love to meet a women who knows what they want and doesn't feel they need to play games to get it and doesn't hesitate to speak her mind. I want honesty, sincereity and would really hope to find my best friend, then a relationship. I have been married and dated different types of woman and know exactly what I don't want. Liars, cheaters and opportunists need not even respond or wink !!!
I have been through alot of disasters in my life, relationships and life as well but I believe that's whats shapes us and builds our character. I have found a great love in God which has really helped me understand that all things are possible. With faith and courage anything can be overcome.
I don't belive it's fair to say I don't want any new baggage, but with every relationship their does come some type of baggage, and I can accept that. I don't consider children baggage either, I have a beautiful 13 year old daughter and I love kids. If you consider children baggage you need immediate psychological help and please don't even respond. I would really like to find someone who limits their baggage although, to carry on only LOL. if you have more than you can carry or need serious help carrying it, Then maybe you should fly Southwest "bags fly free" .
All of that being said, I guess if you are out there and want a good guy who loves God and kids, and sometimes acts like one when appropriate, Then feel free to respond. Winks do not bother me either, like alot of people on here. I feel their needs to be a physical attraction then an emotional one, if you like what see and what you read, then wink away. Email is always nice though.

Date single man from Alabama, United States. If I were to describe myself, I would say that I'm very loyal, quietly confident, and have more of an old school approach for dating. I still believe in paying for dates, opening doors for other people, especially women, and I'm very easy to get along with.
If you're looking for the player type with Affliction T-shirts and gold chains, that ISN'T me. While I love going out to dinner/bars with friends, I am not the type of guy that has to be the center of attention when visiting those types of places. Not my style.
I enjoy working out and staying in shape and love outdoor activities. I really enjoy going to the beach, especially the Gulf Shores, Destin area, but any nice beach will do. I enjoy eating out, but I also enjoy quiet nights at home with a glass of wine. College football is my favorite sport, but I enjoy most all sports.
I have been with the same company since 1991 so I'm very stable with my job. I don't travel much overnight so I'm home most nights and weekends as far as that goes.
I'm looking for someone who is trustworthy and doesn't have to be the center of attention. I am looking for someone that will run/jog with me, or other types of exercise, without it being an issue. I want to meet someone that appreciates what job stability can offer without abusing it. I'm looking for someone who is real and genuine. I am not a high maintenance guy, and want the same.
Personality wise, I am not an A-Type man. If you're looking for a "center of attention" or "look at me" type guy, that's not me. I have a blending type personality. I try to be nice with everyone I come in contact with and don't brag or try to impress people.
When it comes to politics and religion,I am Conservative and Catholic. I have no issues with someone having different opinions than I do, but wouldn't get along with someone that is Ultra-Liberal. I am spiritual, but I don't believe how many times you show up in Church each week defines who you are or what you believe.
Musically, my first love is Country, such as McGraw, Chesney, and Aldean, but, I like many different types besides that. I enjoy, Rock, Hip-Hip(some of the cleaner stuff), some Classical, some Symphony, and love the Big Band guys like Sinatra. I like it all, just depends on what I'm doing. I also love Christmas music during the season, so, if you don't like Christmas you wouldn't get along with me. It's my favorite time of the year.
I want to emphasize that I'm not on here to hook up!! Since I'm new to this I will be posting pictures soon. Still trying to figure this out.

Meet a man from Alabama, United States. Jim carey make me smile. My friend must be kindly, sympa. She should like to travel. I love romantic woman. I am yet to find one. I wish one day I could find one in joining this group.I call with a whisper,
like a shout so loud,
my heart beats in my ears,
A sound without doubt,
Waiting for an answer,
with my heartbeat in my ear,
i followed the scent of a woman,oh so neir
the star shine on your hair,
the moon glow in your eyes,
the wind whisper, never with the lies,
hope comes near,
an answer does not,
but even when im alone,
my soul is not.