Date men from United States / Alabama / Birmingham, 49 year old

Date a soulmate from Birmingham, United States. It would be nice to really connect with someone again, someone strong, independent, confident, honest, sincere, generous, intelligent, kind-hearted, attractive, happy, positive, sharp, realistic, secure, fun .... there are so many adjectives, where's my thesaurus. All things I like to be. Someone who understands, like I do, that life is not a fairy tale. I am optimistic though. A great woman's profile on here noted how everyone over 30 or so has almost certainly suffered some pain or loss or disappointments in life. These things are unavoidable. Another woman on here gave me another idea, and because a guy I know recently thought I was 45, I've knocked a few years off my real age, just a few, to see how many of you in your 40s or late 30s might have cut your searching age range off at 50.
I do understand those of you who are reluctant to post photos. Maybe this internet screening process can be okay after all. I'm giving this a try after hearing about it working for others, and we must be open and willing about the possibilities here. I am considered to be a (still) attractive clean-cut good laid-back guy, a bit reserved, dry sense of humor, and I'm being objective. I'm serioius. Really. I promise. I have this paternal instinct going on and wouldn't mind being a first-time father, as bizarre as that would be, but maybe the closest thing to that in my future is possible step fathering or stepgrandfathering. I'm really an uncomplicated good guy at heart, doing rather complicated and taxing work as a professional, successfully, which leaves so little time or opportunity to meet many great women. I love my mother and must spend time checking on her. I prefer active vacations to sightseeing, but a ski trip out west delivers both.
I just changed status from unmarried to widowed on here because that's the kind of grief it was, though we weren't quite married. See what happens to this thing's matching ability. Looking forward to sharing admiration, laughs, food, comfort, travel, life... This profile business is definitely a work in progress, not used to being so open to strangers, and another thing I understand is a reluctance to actually correspond with someone from this, yet here we are looking ...... Suspecting there are many bogus profiles for women on here; not sure how it looks from your side. Laughter is good medicine, but you know when some of you say you "love to laugh", it can conjure the image of an asylum, ifyouknowwhatimean? Btw, Fox is not news and if you think it is, please go learn something about Roger Ailes and Rupert Murdoch and their duping of you. For objective news reporting please stick to PBS MacNeil Lehrer or CNN, for the sake of us all. NASCAR is not a sport and it is such a waste of money and precious gasoline and time. Pineapple is good on pizza.
I have an idea: Responders will be entered into drawing for a free airline ticket! Got to use all these extra flyer miles some way. I should add that I'm not a heavyweight kind of guy, though I could put this 185 lbs into slightly better condition so I can't be a hypocrite.

Meet someone special from Birmingham, United States. Above all she's kind. Kindness, it seems, comes in around 5th or 6th or 20th on the list of "what people are looking for." Of course part of kindness is the desire to share experiences, stories, beliefs, adventures, cooking, insights, and, yes, even hard or sad times. She'll not hesitate to "set me straight" when I'm wrong, but she won't be hurtful about it. I won't feel that I "have to" do this or that for her, I will "want to" do this or that for and with her because her happiness will be everything to me.
But all that is really takes a back seat to The Main Thing (besides the being kind thing): I like being with women who laugh and make me laugh (preferably without employing threats), who aren't paranoid of science, don't make scrunched-up, angry faces when trying something new to eat (one can always fake it, at least while people are watching, right?). Cheers.
Post Script: I really, really detest that this site makes us all "fill in the blanks" in the "Interest" section below. How cringe-makingly cliched all those things are: "Coffee and conversation," blah, blah, blah. I *do* like coffee and conversation. It's just that the "check the box" thing seems so, demeaning, industrial. Eyes roll. Oh, and for Astrological Signs: I'm an Asparagus.

Date a man from Birmingham, United States. I am even tempered, calm, and easy to please. I like patience, not hurried and open communication. Love to play golf watch golf, college football, travel, and home cooked meals. Raised in a smalll town and still love to visit the folks and be in the country for a short stay. I am a chrisitian and believe in doing the right thing being fair, honest and practice moderation. I am open to new ideas and would love to make new friends, so no pressure, say hello.

Meet single man from Birmingham, United States. I'm an easy going. low-key guy who enjoys the simple things in life. i truly enjoy the company of a beautiful, understanding woman. i'm looking for a woman who likes to keep things simple and enjoy life. She must be truly committed to loving Jesus above all things. .

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I'm the guy with a great sense of humor. I love to laugh and I can find the good in just about anything. I like to see the glass as half full instead of half empty. I'm very funloving and I love being around positive people. I dont complain about problems, I like to find the solutions to them. I live to be in a loving relationship. I'm not affraid of commitment. I love adventure and to me there is nothing more fun than sharing new expierences with that special someone in your life. I'm very passionate and can adjust to any situation.I'm very openminded. I love to cook. I'm good with my hands, can fix almost anything. I dont know it all but I'm very teachable, and I'm willing to learn whatever I need to please my woman. I'm looking for an honest, sweet, sincere lady who loves to be spoiled and is willing to meet me halfway on building a wonderful life together.

Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. I am a caring person, who is trustworthy and kind. I am hoping to meet someone who is a little crazy (in a good way) and also has integrity. This person should be outgoing, not be too wrapped up in themselves and can laugh at life. I know there is someone out there who wants many of the same things that I want...someone looking for a friend, a partner, a person to hold when its raining outside, someone to call and tell about all the GREAT things that happened one day and all the frustrating things that happned the next. I know it's kinda sappy, but I am seeking a real person to connect with.
My friends describe me as loyal, hard working, friendly, generally happy, somewhat of a wise a**, smart and dependable. I enjoy most things outdoors, ballgames, sight seeing, camping, hanging out in a hammock in the shade. I can be adveturous and spontaneous or stick to a plan. I am really easy going.
I'm still kinda new to this online dating thing and tend to be timid with regards to contact. I may wink, but I won't usually IM or email until someone has shown me that they are uinterested by winking at me or making the first contact. I guess I am little gun shy in that respect. Plus, I figure there are enough overly bold males on this site to make up for my shyness...lol. Please contact me if interested in learning more, I'm excited about the possibilities.

Date a man from Alabama, United States. Who am I looking for? Someone I connect with on multiple levels. Please be ht./wt. proportionate. If you are older, please don't look it. Non-smokers ONLY! Lite drinker ok. Don't contact me if you have: drug, emotional, financial, or mental problems! Also, please be OVER your last relationship. Kids ok as long as they are older, not interested in raising babies.
Still reading?? LOL I just know what I like and dislike, and won't just settle for anyone. I think I'm pretty damn funny and entertaining. Can hang in most situations. I'm not one who has to make the scene, although I can make the scene...lol. I like to go out to eat often, and I like my wine.
Favorite movies: Oh, Brother Where Art Thou?, Blues Brothers, Forrest Gump, The Great Escape, Full Metal Jacket, Something About Mary, A Lot Like Love, Must Love Dogs, The Ten Commandments, Napolean Dynamite, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Star Wars.
I like scenic places, the great outdoors, mtns, beaches, canyons. Old houses, historic places, riding my motorcycle(no, it's not a DAMN Harley!) I'm a knee-dragger!!! Means I go fast in the curves! Riding in my old truck. Covered bridges. College football. . No Nascar. Cold beer and wings.
6'2",195 lbs.Often get told that I don't look my age. I ride a crotch rocket, no hogs for me. I am currently trying to improve my riding skills on the race track. I like wine , the outdoors(hiking or riding),natural wonders, taking a ride in my old truck,all four seasons, history, college football. 'Till we grow old and gray would be great, but I'm realistic (not pessimistic). Prefer non-smokers. NO PICS, NO REPLY. I speak fruent Engrish and Spanglish.
Daytime, take a ride to the country side. Night, wine and dinner,(chinese,thai,mexican,italian, peruvian, or how about beer and wings?) Somewhere that you can hear each other talk. Not into the loud dance clubs or smokey bars.
Also, if you live your life out on FAKEbook, or if you feel the need to be texting someone 24/7, or can't go a minute without your smart phone, then we probably won't get along. Just sayin'.....

Meet single man from Alabama, United States. I enjoy seeing other people happy.I,m single and happy I seek someone with similiar interest outgoing type secure with themselves and enjoy spending time with family and looking to have own family in future.

Date a soulmate from United States. I am open to most any subjection.I AM MORE OUTDOOR PERSON .but Do like to cuddel an watch a good move.Are just spend time with my partner.MY vew of my partner simerler .love the out doors an find time to have coffee an conversation AND other injoy each other

Meet someone special from United States. I'm an outgoing person who enjoys a good laugh and loves to have fun. I'm very open minded about life. I would like to meet someone that has similar interests as myself. I'm caring, laid back and easy to get along with. I enjoy the outdoors as well as Alabama Football(ROLL TIDE!!). I live in the Vestavia area and would love to meet someone from the surrounding areas. My hobbies include cooking, landscaping and music. I love all types of music, except for hip hop.

Date a man from United States. Kind hearted, Caring, mindful, and loving. I love cooking, and having a beautiful partner to share this experiences in life will be such a blessing.... To have someone to understand and work with in making our dreams come to the surface. To make children with the education of both of us.

Meet single man from United States. I can be described as a man of many Faith. what makes me smile the most is when i can bring happiness to the one am with. am proud of where I am today. am hoping to attract and open heart and a understanding mind. am looking for a long term relationship

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