Date men from United States / Alabama / Georgiana, 41 year old

Date a man from Georgiana, United States. Not that describing yourself is hard it is that it is easy to overlook the obivious. I have always been a romantic deep down thinking that I would bump into the one person that I have always been searching for, however that has yet to happen. I am a laid back person who isn't into alot of drama that is left to the soap operas on television. I don't always travel with the masses I tend to go down my own path. I really enjoy being around my family and friends and think that I am a child at heart and spend alot of my time with my children. I am honest with myself and with others, I tend to tell people what I believe to be right rather than what I think they want to hear. I have a great sense of humor or at least that is what I am told. I try to be the best friend that I can be and only hope to find someone that is the same way. I give alot of my time coaching baseball and other sports with the local recreation department trying to be a positive influence to all that I come into contact with. I really enjoying being outdoors if only to sit around watching my children play and explore. I have been with someone that I could live with and now wont settle for nothing less than the one I cant live without. Looking for someone who is secure with themselves. Someone who enjoys being around kids and is a positive roll model for them not just mine. A kind hearted person that is happy and makes others smile because of their presence. I try to make the most with what I have and try not dwell on what I dont. I try give all that I have to my children family and friends. I want to find that one person that I cant stop thinking about and feels the same way toward me. I know that I am kinda all over the board with what I am looking for and that is okay because I will know it when I see it and hope that I am what they are looking for as well. I will keep looking until we find each other and hope that we dont miss each other in the dark. I am kinda shy until I get to know someone, never seem to go out on a limb to talk to someone which is a problem now a days. Definitely not a smooth talker so that makes it twice as hard to speak to someone. I have tried to come out of my shell you could say but it never seems to work .lol .. It is hard to find someone who wants to date a guy with 4 children and I understand that it isnt for everyone but I would not change a thing as far as my children are concerned. Having four children and coaching Tee ball, Little League and 7 thru 9 yr old football I guess I relate better with children, They tend not to judge you as harshly as grown ups,.lol They tend to be able to see through artifical things and look for the basics. I guess some people want things to be simple when it comes to dating so they pass up on the ones that might take some effort but for those that take the time and put forth the effort the rewards are usually alot greater.