Date men and women from United States / California / Santee, 46 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am most grateful for my loving boys and my health. My friends would most likely describe me as caring,motivational, fun, fit, and romantic.
"Pride and Prejudice" is one of my all time favorite movies along with "The Notebook" so romance is pretty high on my wish list. Other than that I'm really just looking for a truly nice guy who is looking to try new adventures, takes care of himself (physically, spiritually and financially), has a variety of interests (E.g. I like to camp,hike and go see Phantom of the Opera). I want someone comfortable in jeans and t-shirt talking about football and someone who can go to a dinner party or the opera and be just as comfortable.
I'm passionate about giving back where I can through nonprofit work, my kids, trying to eat as healthy as I can (although I'm not always as good and I could be and that's okay too), attempting to stay fit through various fitness activities (runs,triathlons,swimming, gym, etc...), and learning to take life one day at a time, be thankful for what I've been given, and seeing what the next chapter brings!