Date men and women from United States / California / Bakersfield, 46 year old

Date people from Bakersfield, United States. Hi, and welcome to my profile.
I like what most everyone likes that I read on these profiles. I like most all foods, I like to laugh, movies, drive to beaches, go to Vegas, hangout with friends and family, I like kids, well I love my kid, and my niece's and nephew's, I love my dog, I like to play card games, and pretty good at playing pool, I would like to learn to play the guitar someday. I watch tv shows like, Frasier, Seinfeld, Rules of engagement, How I met your mother, Dexter, football is ok kind of boring until the playoffs start then it finaly gets interesting. I like to watch the Lakers, and Dodgers games.
I dislike what most people dislike, dishonesty, lazyness, unmotivated, boring, lame, stinky, rude, loud, ghetto-fabulous, diva's, uncontrolled drunken stuper's, snookies, etc.
If you like my likes and dislike my dislikes then we probably match. Oh yea, you must be good looking too.. Thanks!

Meet a soulmate from Bakersfield, United States. Seeking a female who knows what she wants out of life. A female that just wants to enjoy life without drama. One who likes to get out and see new areas and things. One who enjoys the company of another whether out on a walk or hike or doing something adventurous. Likes to share interests and or hobbies along with sports. One who enjoys to share life as we are only living once in this present time. One who is communicative and has nothing to hide. Just be yourself.

Date a soulmate from Bakersfield, United States. I SMILE WHEN I KNOW THAT I HAVE A GOOD FRIEND IN MY LIFE, I" LIKE A BOOK ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS OPEN MY PAGES AND YOU WILL SEE WHO I AM. I"M HONEST, I DON"T LIKE TO BE LIE TO YOU WANT A GOOD FRIEND BE STRAIGHT UP I'LL BE STRAIGHT UP WITH YOU.

Meet someone special from Bakersfield, United States. Fun loving, loyal, intelligent, positive, Christian woman. Caring, and committed to the Lord (and my man when he finds me). Enjoy sports (playing spectator), great outdoors, serving others in community and time with friends and family. Sense of humor is a must!
Friends have described me as: Charismatic Enthusiastic Forgiving Happy Hopeful Lively Optimistic Outgoing Playful Positive Sociable Spontaneous Trusting
Not looking for God's gift to women, just God's gift to me.

Date people from Bakersfield, United States. I have a stong work ethic and tend to work a lot. I am weaning myself away from this and want to enjoy life more. I'm looking for a friend first. Someone with patience and understanding and want to live life to the fullest.
Honesty is the best policy. I've joined Match to see what it has to offer. I am fairly new and learning a lot here. I will be limited to disclosing to much information. People do have an agenda and I must be cautious! I am not looking for someone to take care of me. In other words....a Sugardaddy....I'm not in need of anyones money.
I am ready to put work aside and set to sail the high seas, star glaze in the moon light with the ocean at our feet. I'm willing to climb the highest mountain if I feel that special person is there. I am one in a million...there's no other with my qualities and personality (maybe a few). If you are looking for peace, no drama, no headaches and enjoy what life has to offer....I am too searching for the same in a man. That man will know where he stands with me and have no doubts of my faithfulness and love.
Let's put glamour aside, it's automatic with me. I am not here for games, this is not high school and knowing who you are and having repect for the female is just the icing on the cake.
Don't waste my time and I won't waste yours. There are so many highly qualified individuals who are available, I just need to find the right one. Whether it's on Match or somewhere else I know he is out there and I will have patience in my search. I am not stuck up but had to edit this section for the kind of individuals who has already approached me.
Last but not least, I am mentally and physically fit. Therefore, you must be as well....

Meet a woman from United States. Recently single - looking to meet the perfect man (LoL ... okay, how about a nice guy near Bakersfield that's taller than me, weighs than me and is old enough to remember the 70's - is that reasonable?) Brownie points awarded for alpha male traits, a wicked sense of humor and at least some interest in motorcycles :D
I am independent, yet old fashioned. (is that possible?) I don’t need a man - I want a man. I will admit that I am not real sure about these online dating sites. I live a casual and relaxed life - that's only missing one thing. I have a good job as a teacher which provides not only a reasonable sense of security ... but ample time off. My kids are amazing and they are also grown (whew!). I am not high maintenance … machine washable, no dry cleaning required ;)
I like just about everything and anything if I have someone to enjoy it with! My favorite is anything new - big or small - I like to experience new things and places. I am quite easily amused ;P I am almost always smiling. I have been told I have a very different way of looking at the world sometimes and my sense of humor is warped, but I have no idea what would make my friends say that stuff ;)~
I enjoy being on the go and busy - at a pleasant and comfortable pace. I plan little surprises, short trips, activities and adventures frequently. Unless your interested in planning as well (which is most certainly a treat!), all you have to do is be ready to go around me :) I usually prefer to use movies, television, computers and reading as winding down activities - not as the “main event” - but if cuddling is involved I can quickly change my tune ... I am a very physical person - I like to touch and be touched. Frequently. I am also quite playful, spontaneous and a little naughty when I have someone to be that way with. I believe in erotic monogamy - which means I am ultimately looking for a relationship. I know finding someone that you really click with is a needle in a haystack sorta thing ... but I'm patient and I know I'll find just the right man … sorry, I’m just not interested in playboys, games, or the drama with which that lifestyle brings.
I am looking for a man who has similar goals, a compatible activity level and an interest in new experiences - and of course, one who for some reason finds me and all my quirks and idiosyncrasies endearing :) So yeah, as they say ... a man who will be my best friend as well as my lover.
It would be nice to find someone who shares some of my interests, but when it comes to personality, I believe the differences between people is what makes them compatible and what makes us intriguing to each other. I don't want a carbon copy of myself ... I want someone who will compliment me ... who has strengths where I have weaknesses - does that make sense?
Now, I do know that I like a man who knows what he wants and can make a decision without my help every minute. If it doesn't come across in my writing, I can tell you that I a very straightforward and honest person ... and I appreciate the same. I donРІР‚?t play the games many women play and I certainly don't expect men to be mind readers ... I have no problem sharing my feelings, my opinions and my desires. I am practical and a realist ... however, I most certainly have quite an imagination! ;) I was a tomboy growing up and I am quite comfortable being myself around guys and I honestly thoroughly enjoy your company! I've always been attracted to men who arenРІР‚в„ўt afraid to get a little dirty ... and you most definitely have to be willing to share ALL your toys ;D
I can be articulate, professional, serious, and responsible (an adult) as well as wild, creative, silly, energetic, humorous, and just plain out there (yep, childlike)... so if you like my pictures (chemistry is extremely important), and I haven't scared you off yet... email me, and I'll see if I can do a better job with some more details ...LOL... Rosemarie

Date men and women from United States. About me, I love to laugh till my cheeks hurt. Life is short and the memories that usually stand out are the ones that either make us cry or make us laugh. So, I want to leave a legacy of laughter, not tears, with the ones I love.
At 5'71/2" I am now offically the shortest one in my family. I have two teenage boys who have well surpassed me. My daughter passed me up long ago. I love God, family, friends, and teaching. I value loyalty, honesty, and being comfortable enough with someone that I can sing off key in front of them.
I'm not into people who play the victum role or those who are condesending. I truly try to treat others the way I want to be treated. My favorite sayings are: "If you think the way you have always thought, you will get what you have always gotten. Change your thoughts and change your life." Also, "Where the heart is willing it will find a thousand ways. Where the heart is weak, it will find a thousand excuses."My match and I would be comfortable together....like an old pair of shoes. Someone that enjoys some of the same things I do yet, is open to trying new things. I would enjoy learning new things as well. You would have to love to laugh and be silly yet, know when to be serious or intimate. I want a best friend that I can confide in and enjoy making memories with. It's a new day with new opportunities.....let's see where it goes!

Meet a soulmate from United States. I'm not talking 'bout moving in and I don't want to change your life, but there's a warm wind blowing, the stars are out and I really love to see you tonight (England Dan & John Ford Coley lyrics)
I am not really a romantic and I don't expect flowers everyday and candlelit dinners on a regular basis but the thought is always appreciated. I try to be spontaneous but on occasion I do need to be reminded that there is a life beyond the job and responsibilities. I love to ride my quad, hang with my friends, laugh and laugh some more...
I am willing to take a chance and see where life takes me and I'm open to love finding a way. My spare time is precious and I would love to share some it with the right person and see where life takes us!!! I like trying new things and going to new places...or I can enjoy a BBQ at home with family. Come try something new with me....

Date someone special from United States. just me, casually looking through these pics seeing what might interest me,,,,wonder who i'll find....please no wierdos...got enough in real life,,,no i don't want to take care of u, or ur kids nor do i need a man to take care of me

Meet people from United States. I learned a lot about what is truly attractive to me personally, and what I'm looking for. I love my job. I love my life. Looking for someone that respects that fact and doesn't dismiss it. It's awesome if your blessed financially, but it shouldn't be all you talk or care about. You seriously can't take it with you. There is so much more to life than how much you earn. It's awesome for all of us to learn from past relationships, but letting go is crucial to being open to someone new.It would be amazing to meet someone who is secure in who they are and will embrace the same trait in me. Faith is not just a hobby for me, it's actually who I am and I can't compramise that. I am looking at amazing couples all around me that get through struggles together and will absolutely live amazing lives with one another. That's what I want! Life is full of ups and downs, and to have someone to share that adventure with would be absolutely incredible. I also like to work at shelters as well as street team ministry. If that bothers you, we probably wouldn't be a good match. Basically, I'm just praying my way through this whole online dating thing.
Just for the record, I love my kids. It is an amazing honor and they mean the world to me, and the fact that they are encouraging me to date and do something for myself after 10 years of being a single parent is pretty flippin cool. Also, a great sense of humor seriously trumps flash....Just sayin.
Good luck in your search.

Date a woman from California, United States. Thank you for stopping by and actually reading my profile...
I decided to re-do it as so many men will not read it anyway and the ones that do take the time will certainly know a little more about me.
I am looking for what everyone is looking for... A partner in crime, someone you can be yourself with, someone who has enough of your same interests that you click well but not so many that you find life boring without any new adventures. I am looking for my best friend...
If you don't like children then kindly move on to the next profile. I have many and they are my world. They are past the diaper and babysitter stages, but are still a big part of my life.
I am not 18, 28 or even 38 - I am 46. I do not look like nor do I want to look like a model. I have lines and wrinkles on my face and have enjoyed earning every one of them by living life! The body has given birth to several children and it too shows the signs. I am completely comfortable with who I am and how I look.
I am a very outgoing and honest person with a strong personality.
I don't need a man to complete me but would like to find one who compliments me - and not in the 'you look good today' kind of way...Someone to help share in this wonderful world and all the great things it has to offer. I want someone to stand beside me and not be afraid of me.
A man who can spot me across a crowded room and see only me.
Hopefully you will remember that chivalry is not dead and that women really do like to have doors opened, their chairs pulled for them and men walking on the right side of the street.
I am a passionate person and love to hug, hold hands and kiss - YES, even in public!!
Laughter is a must.... it is truly the best medicine and what better way to go thru life than with a huge smile on your face.
My pics are all current and accurately depict what I look like physically - yours should too!!!!!! The hair is dark these days... :-)
I take care of myself and expect the same in my partner.... You should be physically fit and a NON-SMOKER. I'm sorry if that offends you but that is my preference.
Please leave your ego at the door and have more than one photo of yourself posted. Preferably a close-up and a full body shot.
Oh - and I don't respond if you don't have a picture. What's the use of being on a site like this without one???
Life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly and forgive quickly!