Date men and women from United States / California / Claremont, 46 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I enjoy exploring new and interesting pursuits and traveling to new places. I've been fortunate to travel the world and have lived in London, Boston, Chicago, and San Francisco. I enjoy a cosmopolitan lifestyle and varied outdoor pursuits. I maintain many different interests that are very rewarding. My passions include electronic music, horses, art, architecture, tennis, golf, music and I really enjoy skiing, hunting, literature and poetry, cooking, performance art, and riding. I also really love dogs. I reside in an idyllic hillside home halfway up a canyon in the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains. Lots of great hiking trails through high meadows and live oak stands. I'm very close with my parents and blessed to have a wonderful mother and an inspiring and remarkably successful father. My friends would describe me as adventurous, warm, expressive, fun, loyal, and active. However, I also appreciate chilling at home whether that be relaxing by the fireplace, reading in bed, preparing a special meal, lounging poolside, or stargazing by firelight in the spa.
While purposeful and generally serious-minded about career and well-being, I live for sublime moments where the beat goes on... I like fun and affection and I am sensitive, decent, honorable, loyal and exclusive and I'm looking for my life companion and dream girl, someone special to share having great times and new discoveries, a beautiful person with a heart of gold, warm, sweet, confident, graceful, poised, stylish, and passionate about life!

Meet men and women from California, United States. I am finishing up a PhD in positive psychology at the ONLY university in the world that offers one in this field (Claremont Graduate University). Instead of looking at the deficits in human behavior, I look at the various facets of what is RIGHT WITH PEOPLE. I research things like optimal environments for adolescents to thrive, how exercise enhances well-being for people of all ages, and flow theory which is much like "runner's high" but isn't limited to runners. I work with adolescents and athletes (leisure and elite) and teach psychology courses as an adjunct faculty member (CSU-San Bernardino and Mt. SAC).
The things we most regret are those that we HAVEN'T done, so I like to think I'm a willing participant in the more fun and interesting things in life. Just because I am an academic, doesn't mean I don't know how to let loose and have fun!
I just purchased a new motorcycle and can't wait to drive it up the coast!
I moved to SoCal in August of 2008 from Illinois to attend grad school. I absolutely LOVE it here, as do my kids (14,16,18). It is HOME. My oldest daughter is going away to college this fall (UC-Santa Cruz!! Go Banana Slugs!).
If I haven't lost you yet because I'm in my mid 40s and still in grad school...well, good! I realize it is a bizarre journey at this point in life, but one I have chosen, I'm glad for it and grateful it was an option after staying home to raise my kids for many years. I believe those cliches that talk about following your passion, living life to its fullest, and that it is never too late to chase a dream. If you are looking for a woman who is ready to hang up her career or retire, that wouldn't be me. I'd love to travel with you, and with the right man I will do it with joy, but a life with purpose is incredibly important and I feel I haven't fulfilled mine yet, so balancing the two is vital. Fortunately, a career as a professor allows me to travel over spring break, winter break, and summer break!!!!
Staying fit and active is important to me, and I would prefer to be with someone like minded. I also enjoy a good concert, dancing, movies, traveling, and going to art galleries or museums. I'm just as comfortable in a swimsuit as I am getting dirty in my running clothes or throwing on a formal dress and heading out to a charity function.
What I am looking for:
A man who is smart enough to hold a decent conversation yet funny enough to avoid putting me to sleep!
A guy that appreciates spontaneity and adventure but won't call me for bail money.
A guy that is in touch with his sensitive side but won't steal my underwear for himself.
How about someone who is passionate about life and really looks like his RECENT and UNTOUCHED photos?
Not that I think I am asking too much, but just a bit more .....
I want someone who takes care of himself, makes steam rise from within me when I see him and likes the way I look without giving me a referral to a local plastic surgeon for maintenance work. : )
Well, if all that isn't too much to ask ....push the "email her" button and let's see what happens.
**I am NOT looking for friends with benefits. I am NOT a serial dater. I am looking for someone who wants to take things slowly but pursue a monogamous relationship. I am happy with my life but think it would be even better with someone to share it. I'd also rather be single than settle. Let's see what happens!

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hello....I am seeking a gentleman who is comfortable with himself not arrogant but confident, stable, loving,a good sense of humor,kind,considerate. I consider myself a positive,energetic,witty,kind,passionate person so i try to see the best in everything even if its a bad situation. I enjoy spending time with family and friends. I have lived in Southern California all my life so i enjoy the outdoors,wine tasting,museums,travel, and movies. I am interested in getting to know someone who is seeking a long term relationship and share smiliar interests and bring out the best in each other. I also have two young boys who i have fifty percent of the time who are very important to me. If you think you are a good match send me a wink or email if not good luck in your search.

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