Date men and women from United States / California / Oak Glen, 46 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. About me, I have pretty much raised my kids and now have the time to find my soul mate, (some people say you have more than one) which is awesome since I have not found her yet which by my math gives me a really good chance. I am stable, honest to a fault, loyal and, mentally competent (despite the bad choices of my ex wives (2) but have the greatest kids you could possibly want, I give them credit for that) ..Beyond that our only interaction is on behalf of the kids, no mixed emotions or hanging loyalty. No animosity but no extra interaction. I am ready to find someone who I can have a conversation with and someone who I can romance and be romanced by with no games and no agendas. Someone who can sit by a fire and fart with me laughing and go to the finest restaurant the next day. I want someone who is confident in themselves and will stand for her beliefs, I would be at your side to the end.. THAT Said I don't want to take over payments, be your new daddy or your kid(s) new daddy and if you are looking for that, please keep looking. I will read that in your profile quicker than you worded it. I want my perfect woman to spend the rest of my life with and for her I would do anything. YES it all sounds matter of fact but it is really not that complicated. I believe in instant chemistry, and if its not there it's just not, does not make anyone the bad person. I believe you know almost right away the potential and if there is none then good luck to all. I have been single a long time raising kids and have dated casually during that time. Kids come first (to a very fine point) if you disagree, again keep looking. I am not about the booty call, that's too easy...I want someone to love, with whom you can make love!!!!! I took care of the gratuitous sex like many in my younger years.