Date men and women from United States / California / Rancho Santa Fe, 39 year old

Date men and women from Rancho Santa Fe, United States. Well to start, I live in Austin Texas! I will be traveling a lot to Cali for the next year or so. My daughter is moving there for college in the fall.
Describing me,.... I'm a realist. I'm pretty straight forward without over stepping my boundaries. I am positive, very secure and confident. I like working on my house and have almost remodeled it on my own with little help. I work in field that I'm passionate about. I have a 18 year old daughter that is amazing! We have a great relationship and she makes me so proud to be her mom.
Some question that were asked in previous emails:
Do I play in a band? NO. I'm not a broken soul so it would be hard for me to be an artist. lol! Just kidding to all you artist people. I love the arts. One of the most talented artist I ever worked with is probably the happiest person I know. Truth be told, I'm not talented in playing, I'm just good with people so I work behind the scene. I worked in artist development till last year. BTW, there is a big difference between a musician and an artist. I started a concierge company last year after I left the music biz. I specialize in vacation home services. We are the new 5 star hotel.
What part of town do you live in?
I live in Austin, within 5 miles of downtown. My view has trees and hills. No complaints here.
How long have I been divorced?
15 years. If you have been divorced less than a year or freshly out of a long term relationship or if you are the type that can't be alone I won't be interested in your type. I like my alone time. I like to spend time with my thoughts.
Am I willing to relocate for someone?
Not sure. I really love Austin. I live here by choice.
So now my list of what I find UNATTRACTIVE in men:
*Men who wear golf attire as the everyday norm. Yes, I mean khaki pants and polo shirts. It's just not edgy enough for me.
*Men who wear country/cowboy style clothes. This includes cowboy hats!!!! Also, I dislike jeans that are hanging off you hips. Did you know there's nothing hotter than an awesome pair of jeans on a guy that's are up to the latest trend. A great jean store in Austin is called Hem. They specialize in putting the right jean on you that will match your body frame.
*Dirty and/or long nails- do I really need to say more?
*Mustaches- The Tom Selleck look is not appealing to me.
*Couch potatoes- I want to grow old with someone not watch them grow old.
*Insecure- I'm not the jealous type. If you are the jealous type than I want no part of it. You can take your drama else where.
*Negativeness- I try so hard to create happy environments in my life. I don't need you to bring me down.
*Cocky- Don't mistake the difference between confidence and cocky. Confidence is hot... cocky is not.
Your pic is kinda like your calling card so why do so many of you take pics with you shirt off standing in front of a mirror? Is it to prove you're not a vampire?
Be prepared to show me your ID if we meet.... Some of you are lying about your age! Geez, you men are worst than women.... Be real.... Again, I'm only interested in men in my age range.
So if you apply to any of these please don't waste your time or mine with sending a wink or email.
I don't believe in dating that much. I feel people for the most part get involved for so many wrong reasons. It should be because you want to be with someone.... not because you need to be with someone.
BTW If you email a non creative email or something non personal ie, "I liked your profile and think we would have fun together. Let me know if you'd like to find out." I won't respond. That just tells me your either lazy, boring or you have no personality and you obviously didn't read my profile to know how to create something custom. Don't waste my time!

Meet a woman from Rancho Santa Fe, United States. I am newly single and would like to meet a charismatic, intelligent gentleman who shares my interests. He is a man who is kind, yet adventurous, passionate and fun.
My partner in crime would like to enjoy fine dining, hiking, skiing, golfing, scuba diving, skateboarding or playing tennis. I love the outdoors! This year I learned how to snowboard. SNOW, I adore it......even took my German Shepherd to the Matterhorn in Switzerland.
Living life to its fullest and being an active participant in whatever I do is my resolve. I am not looking for a person who only likes to sit on the side lines.
I love the finer indulgences of life: candlelight dinners, giving massages, champagne bubble baths, cruising the Greece isles, New Years in St. Bart's or Aspen. Taking care of my special partner gives me intense pleasure.
My three sons are the light of my life. They are all smart, handsome and athletic.
I am not about drama and I have no baggage, just BLESSINGS......
Please write me and I would enjoy meeting you!
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