Date a man from Rancho Santa Fe, United States. I am a successful, dynamic, 5'8, 170, fit,clean cut, jeans to tux, attorney and retired military officer. Feel and act 45. I am centered, spiritual, very romantic and affectionate. I am looking for a life partner, lover, and soulmate. My tastes and interests are eclectic: the arts, movies, theatre, good literature, swimming, biking, horseback riding, windsurfing, sailing, and hiking. In my younger years I was a former Olympic caliber athlete (Modern Pentathlon). I like all types of music (Bach to Buffet) and Andrea Bocelli (Romanza album) and Sarah Brightman. Walks on the beach at sunset, crisp mountain air and vistas, snuggling by the fireplace on rainy/snowy days, candlelight dining, and lazy Sunday mornings with the NY Times are some of the things that I like to share. I do not smoke and am a light social drinker. A fine wine goes well with a wonderful meal and good company. NPR and PBS are welcome adjuncts to my daily life, and offer a unique media window to the world. I like romantic weekend getaways to Big Sur, San Francisco, and Napa. What we do is not as important as how we do it together.I am looking for a committed, long-term, loving relationship with a classy, stylish, discriminating, educated, slim, fit, professional lady. She will be 40-70 years old, sensual and passionate about life. While enjoying the finer things of life, an elegant home, and world travel, she is still a down to earth person, at ease in any social situation, a good hostess and loving companion.My soulmate will be a person of character, a true equal partner and best friend in our life's journey. She will be financially and emotionally stable, centered in her own life, and enjoy a healthy lifestyle. Integrity, mutual respect, good communication, and friendship are essential to our lives. If this is you, us, please respond; and we can chat and see if there is any magical chemistry.