Date men and women from United States / California / Red Bluff, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am extremely honest, and I value honesty in others very highly. I believe in telling the WHOLE truth in a compassionate way, including the "hard" truth. It is important to me to be true to myself, and I am interested in sharing with someone on a deep "real" level. I love to find out all about a person, and sometimes wish I could somehow climb inside people's heads and explore to my heart's content...seeing as that is not possible, however, I really appreciate people who are very open and don't mind sharing who they "really" are with me. I am very comfortable being open, and would love to someday find someone who is as interested in exploring and understanding me, as I am in exploring and understanding him. I am comfortable sharing the things that a lot of people like to hide, like my weaknesses, fears, vulnerabilities, insecurities etc...I don't believe in projecting a false image of myself, and I don't want to ever be "admired" for something I am not. I don't play head games and hope you don't either. I am supportive and loyal, I am open, giving, compassionate, and optimistic...I like to be silly and have fun, I like to tease and be teased...I am not materialistic and I hate to shop.
I put a lot of focus into growing emotionally, spiritually and psychologically. It is very important to me to be as "awake" and "conscious" in my life as possible...including not being reactive, not lying to myself or others, being compassionate and not judgmental, seeking truth and understanding, being accepting and supportive, etc.
I would like to meet someone who is honest, honorable and real. Someone who can be my best friend, and who finds the qualities I mentioned above to be important.
On a more general level, he might be equally comfortable just hanging out, going fishing, or tossing a ball around in the backyard. Someone who likes to joke around and be silly sometimes but can be serious too. Someone who is masculine and is secure enough with himself that he won't be threatened if I figure out what's wrong with the car before he does.. Good scruff (5 O'clock shadow) and tattoos would be icing on the cake, but are not at all necessary...Oh, and if he wants to teach me how to jump motorcycles or go snow boarding I think I'd be in heaven!!!!

Meet someone special from California, United States. Enjoy spending most of my free time outdoors, certainly not that girl who cannot get her clothes or hands dirty. Interested in someone who is hard working but knows how to enjoy time away from work. Someone who enjoys to go out and enjoy the world instead of sitting on the couch, but can also enjoy cuddling up for a good movie. Work and school keep my very busy, but I try to find time to enjoy what each day can bring. My kids are my most important accomplishment, so it is important that anyone I spend time with is open about children.