Date men and women from United States / California / Quartz Hill, 55 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I decided to become a paid customer again, to begin to communicate more, given this medical BS I'm dealing with concerning my back. There is other contact, bobsurvey2 on yyahhoo.
I will NOT be stopped from being mobile, and the specialists and the therapist can duke it out all they want.
Update on this:(this is for the lovely ladies that I've made favorites) Now County wants me to go back immediately to their head of physical therapy for an 'oops'. REALLY! I just want to move around without the issues. If I e-mail anyone, I just wanted to give a heads-up.
(temp. bitter part removed)
Here's the only negative part (all done in mostly good spirit, accept this very 1st point).
"Oops, the profile you're looking for is not available." Really. You have no better things to do than to 'wink' and try to take advantage of a sugar-daddy, who knows how to avoid stepping in the bulls***. And yes, there are idiot men that think they can do the same to women.
(NOW I'm smilin)
Got to say this again: There are thousands of other places, than the beach. Always it's about the beach. Enough about the beach!!!!! :)
One last favor: If I 'favorite' you, DON"T FREAK. Like I said, sometimes the men winking back can seem a bit creepy. I'm just keeping your profile in the easiest place, if I would like to contact you.
I have the nickname of Bobzilla, because if I care for you, it's the biggest kind of care. If my father had lived as long as my mother, they would have celebrated their 57th Anniversary. I understand commitment and passion in every form it takes in a relationship. Every so often, I come in and change up this part of my profile. I'm doing this again, simply because this roller coaster of a life I have, requires that I do so. No matter what, I will always keep looking and moving forward. I will keep smiling, and even laughing about so many things that ought to make me scream. I'm doing everything I can to recover physically, and financially. What I'm NOT sure about, is whether I should even keep my profile up. If I met someone right now, about all I could do, is talk [but getting around soooo much better, so may actually get out and say hi!]. What I'm looking for, is something that just 'is'. No judgments, no heavy expectations, no sweating the small stuff. For example: someone who understands that even an occasional drink of alcohol, IS the same thing as recreational drug use (alcohol is a drug). It cracks me up to see someone say it's all right to drink, but not use drugs. Don't get me wrong. EITHER in excess, or the worst kind, is still WRONG!!!
Anyway, I hope your searches go well, and I will be 'back on my feet'. All ready started!