Date men from United States / California / Marina, 37 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I'm a pretty busy individual. Time has passed me by as I have tried to solidify a good future for myself. I'm currently looking for someone who can compliment me and my life. I consider myself to be a pretty straight forward person. Honest. Open. I prefer that my partner be equal or able to handle my qualities.
I am not perfect nor will I ever be perfect. I need a lot of growing to do when it comes to life experience. I am looking for someone who has the time and the patience to work with me while I grow as a person. I'm looking for someone who is ok with taking the initiative and taking the lead without the need to take charge. I know that may sound a little odd but, it basically means that I am still a man and that I still want to at least pretend that I wear the pants in the relationship.
If this sounds like a challenge you think you can take on, I'm just a click away.