Date men from United States / California / Clairemont, 37 year old

Date a man from Clairemont, United States. Me? I'm down to earth and open minded. I love to learn and figure out how things work. I am a bit shy around new people and may take a bit to warm up, but once I do I'll win them over forever. I'm not big on small talk, I'd rather know what makes you tick than how your favorite sports team is doing this season. I've been accused of being cool, but really I'm just a big dork. I got stung by a bee last week and secretly hoped it was radioactive and that I would wake up the next morning with all sorts of cool bee-like powers. I love to make people laugh, even if it's at my own expense. I've a penchant for the macabre, and my sense of humor often reflects as such. Sarcasm also flows freely. I love live music, from huge, sold out venues to someone strumming their guitar in the park, I could watch and listen for hours. I bought myself a guitar for my birthday, but it must be broken because it doesn't sound anything like the one Jimi played. I like words. Their mistreatment makes me sad. I'd sooner be buried alive than use text-speak abbreviations like lol or omg. I try to live by the golden rule and wish others would do the same. I am often disappointed by my fellow human being, but I am still hopeful that there is decency left in this world.
My match is open minded, kind hearted, intelligent and trustworthy. A good sense of humor is a must. Someone who is responsible, but also doesn't take life, or themself, too seriously.