Date women from United States / California / Castro Valley, 42 year old

Date a woman from United States. "When we were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability... To be alive is to be vulnerable."
— Madeleine L'Engle
A guy friend of mine told me about men on online dating sites - don't put pics of sunsets or flowers - they want pics of your face, your body because basically that's all they are looking at. And fewer the words the better ... is that true? Because don't all the profiles sounds the same, everyone looking for the same thing??? I'm clueless on dating - seriously, I am.
**random things**
I have tattoos, I need to update my passport, I dont have piercings (except for the ears), I wear cowboy boots, I don't wear tons of makeup, I take BART to work, I can be sarcastic, I can do shots of tequila, I like rollercoasters, Im from the Bay Area, I belong to a Union,I dont like horror movies, I've only been to the snow twice, obviously I have kids, I dont snore or have a certain side of the bed, I own a motorcycle helmet and jacket ... I will be honest with you - and I expect the same; I have varied interests - from car shows to shooting ranges to camping to ballet. I like to try new things, explore new places. If you are looking for hookups - move on down the road to another gal, I'm cheerful, I'm a loyal friend (I've had the best friend since I was 9). If you want to know more, then ask ... Thanks