Date women from United States / California / Milpitas, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I missed the cutoff to end my membership. Is anyone actually on match to date and build a lasting relationship?? Someone please change my mind because so far I'm not impressed. Honesty is always the best policy.
Even if we're not a match, I appreciate all the winks/emails, they boost a girls ego. Following my own suggestion, I'm going to be honest about what I hope to get from Match. Especially, because I'm not convinced online dating is the answer for me. Here goes...I'm busy with school,
work and yoga. I am interested in quality verses quantity dating. I am an advocate for a healthy lifestyle with a proper diet and regular exercise, not to say I don't have the occassional burger or filet! Having a passionate nature myself, I encourage the same in my partner. I'm not shy and will wink at you, but I am old fashioned, so if you're interested you will need to do the pursuing. I would say, confidently, I'm 95% drama free and without excess baggage. Life has taken some interesting twists and turns the last few years and shown me what matters...I'm walking a much different path these days. If you are like-minded I hope we can meet.
A little about ME-have been told I'm kind, giving, witty, expressive, fun to be around, spontaneous, a little naughty, direct to a fault, a good cook, devoted friend, auntie of the year, a good kisser, physically fit, attractive, wee bit chatty-no issues carry a conversation, red wine lover...there's so much more, but a little mystery is good for conversation! Things I enjoy in a man are humor and wit with the ability to laugh at oneself, freedom of expression-whatever your passions are...dancing, sports or ME(haha), confidence without arrogance and someone who knows how to balance responsibilities around fun. I am looking for a man who is respectful, kind, confident and fun! Humor is a must, no stuffed shirts for me.
A little about YOU-don't worry, NO unrealistic "ideal man" list of requirements! It is impossible to summarize, not to mention it restrics the possibilities. I will say that physical attraction is key and without chemistry, similar values and interests, what's the point! Instead, I have 4 deal breakers: 1)NO EX girlfriend/wife "hang-ups"; 2)Must be honest and sincere; 3)Want to be in a committed relationship; and 4)if you want children I'm not the one for you.
Good luck and thanks for stopping bye.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am a Californian girl, grew up in the Bay Area and still loving it.
I love exploring new areas and trying new things. I am searching for someone with similar interests to wine and dine with and to explore together. I am an ordinary woman looking for that special someone to share my days with and to spend quality time together.