Date women from United States / California / Gilroy, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Well, my membership is about to expire...and quite frankly I haven't had much success in the online area. Maybe there's just to many women to choose from or the men are just interested in looking at pictures and not making the moves to meet them?
I am looking for the real deal. I would like an honest, sincere person to talk to, hang out with, travel and listen to. I consider myself as honest, loyal and giving. I would describe myself as cute, fun and creative. I am a very social person and spend my time between work, family and friends. I am adventurous and spontaneous and romantic. I love music, movies, anything to do with food, whether it's cooking or eating, dancing, laughing, cuddling and kissing. The biggest joy in my life is my daughter (middle school) so a man who enjoys children or has them is a bonus, I would love to have a blended family.
I am looking for a partner; a best friend and lover to share the rest of my life with.

Meet someone special from California, United States. **UPDATE 5/17/12**
If you are a "Serial Winker" please do not waste my time. When you wink at a lady and she returns the wink or even emails you, and you don't respond after you initiate contact, you are a "Serial Winker".
My family and friends would say I was loyal, honest and very protective of the ones I love.
I treat others the way I would want to be treated with love, respect and kindness and have a a ready smile for everyone. I believe that trust and respect are key to any successful relationship/friendship. The best times are just being with those you love hanging out BBQing or sharing a great meal. Food brings people together and creates a platform for you to be together and share some laughs. Life is what you make it and it's all about creating memories of the good times. My child is my saving grace and he can make the sun shine no matter how dark the day may be. I am first and foremost a Mom, and raising my child to be happy, hard working, honest and respectfull of others is my main focus.
My family and my friends make my world a better place and I cherish the people I have in my life. I am involved in a non-profit horse organization that is my passion. I love animals and have been fortunate to have been surrounded by them my whole life. I have horses and dogs, and I have been fortunate to have travled and raced my horses and it has been rewarding on many levels.
I am looking for someone to laugh with and share what life may throw my way. I have no time in my life for games or drama, being honest and sincere with words and actions goes along way with people. I have survived a lot in my life and though at the time it was rough, I came out on the other side a much stronger and wiser person for the struggles. I am grateful every day for the life I have and the people I am lucky enough to have in my life.
I am as comfortable in jeans and a baseball hat as I am in a dress and heels. I am not high maintanence, I don't worry about the calories in a stick of gum life is too short to not live for today.

Date a woman from California, United States. Fun-loving, free spirited, intelligent, independent Christian woman seeking friendship and fun, maybe more. I am seeking a man to share outings and activities with, someone who is willing to take the time to build a friendship and see where that leads. My family is highly important and family time is priority; please be family oriented yourself. I'm self employed and enjoy travel and nature activities. I maintain a mostly regular fitness routine, including kickboxing, walking, and jogging. I live an overall healthy lifestyle and would like to find a like-minded man. Although physical characteristics are far less important than personality and chemistry, I do prefer a man I can look up to - please be at least 6' tall. Other desirable traits include self-assurance, a positive outlook and ability to find the positive in every situation - it's always there, but sometimes does not easily reveal itself, sharp wit and good humor, and of course the ability to enjoy the journey. It's the trip that makes the ride worthwhile after all :-)