Date women from United States / California / Belmont Shore, 44 year old

Date a woman from United States. There is not a punchline at the end of this...O.K., I really am a blond, although born and raised California native, I hardly fit the stereotype outside of physical; I remain un-augmented and aging with some trepidation. I'm mostly an "A" personality; creative, passionate, outspoken, dynamic and independent. I've recently agreed on the two toppings that would be gravy to my potato's...great companionship and affection; You can't really give those to yourself the same way and I don't mean that in a nasty way boys!! I'm a fun and positive person by nature, and actually pretty easy to please providing you rub my feet daily, are truthful, timely and can communicate effectively with the female species. I try to surround myself with positive, compassionate people, and no longer have a hard time booting bad outta my world. I'm introspective, insightful; loyal and honest; I love to laugh, and the alternative generally sucks, so don't be too critical, shallow, or pretentious. I FINALLY can visualize the dream and want someone to share it with; its a challenge to find because I think most people naturally "try" to fit, but people are who they are, and changing each other seems unfair. Hopefully you have that part figured out. I'm getting there sort of. I'm nervously re-approaching Match after 8 years in a serious relationship that didn't seem to have a finish line...SO. Moving on...I never chose to "breed", but if you have kids, PLEASE have already raised them! Really, divorce is ugly enough, but the kids in the mix of dating is ALWAYS COMPLEX and someone always leaves tattered and torn.
I'm in the food biz, so if you have an appreciation for cuisine/wine, that's a great commonality. I could literally talk about a blueberry for 10 minutes so pretend to be interested; but I have many other facets too. I write, I'm creative, love surprises, almost anything outdoors or near water, I'm up for almost anything once and if I like it, then....:) I have a unique imagination, and enjoy being around creative people. I'm mellower than I used to be, but there is still a sassy side that knows it's o.k. to break the rules a little. I'm back on Match after 8 years. Not sure
I dislike scary movies, things that jump out at me, people who struggle with the truth, selfishness, lateness, shallow people, dirty cars, dirty fingernails and dirty bathrooms.
What am I looking for? Well, I've finally stopped trying to figure you men out! Instead, I will attempt to relinquish control. Go ahead, be the man! You are wonderful! Your obsession with sports, cars and porn. Your guys nights out; your need to be alone. Your need to be with me. Your smell; your masculinity; your chivalry. I love when you're a gentleman. I dig flowers and all that; I admit it feels great to be adored, but your BEST natural effort is all I ask!
I'm a true serial monogamist, and have difficulty dating in multiples. I find that any relationship I am in, deserves my full attention. The men I'm most attracted to, have a natural charm and self-confidence. Someone who doesn't have to try too hard to be noticed and is more aware of their company than they are of themselves. I am independent, and appreciate that our species are unique, so it's not so important that we share everything in common I do like some sports but you won't find me hanging out w/ you every Monday night for Football. I can be a bit of a girly-girl and love getting ready for a date, so give me that 45 minutes to clean up for ya, but I can be out the door in 15-flat if you need me to.
Physically, it would be great if you were tall, cuz at 5'8", if you add heels hair, I'm at 6 feet! I'm no petite flower, so be big and strong please! A guy with a full head of hair, the kind you can mess up after a hot kiss, is a turn on, and it wouldn't be awful if you were incredibly handsome too! I do have a "type" that usually turns my head, but I have been known to throw all that aside for amazing chemistry, so don't fe

Meet someone special from United States. My friends would describe me as confident, independent, sexy, affectionate, loving, loyal and down to earth. I don't feel or look my age. I value my friends and family. I believe that communication, respect and trust are the key to a successful relationship. Chemistry is very important too! I enjoy dining out and chatting over drinks, going to a movie, beach, dancing or wine tasting.
I hope to meet someone who is ambitious, confident, secure with himself and has a good sense of humor. I'm turned off by arrogance, jealous,flaky and insecure men. Please no drama!
I'm not looking for a texting relationship, so please don't waste my time. No photo, no response!
If your interested in learning more about me...send me an e-mail. :) If not, good luck with your search.
Hope to hear from you!