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Date men and women from Alabama, United States. My ideal match will make me me have butter flies in my stomach when I meet her and then make me feel comfortable immediately and we will be able to communicate in a way thats pleasing to each other and each will put the other person before themselves always in a way that brings happiness and joy to each other forever....

Meet single man from Alabama, United States. I consider myself somewhat carefree but not "carefree" about living my life. I truely believe we should enjoy the short time we have on this earth. I love spending time with family, laughing and joking around. I also have a business side that takes care of what needs to be done without questions or excuses.
I'm not a perfect man. I have a lot to learn going forward and I come with flaws. I'm not looking for perfection, but a woman who understands herself well enough to continue to improve upon the areas where work is needed.
I love to travel and do outdoor activities and I'm willing to be spontaneous. I'm open-minded and willing to explore new experiences.
My ideal match is a person who is secure, but not nonchalant about her life, family, or me. I'm interested in a woman that is direct, but not forceful. Also, I'm interested in a woman who is assertive, but not overbearing. I enjoy a fun-lovingm spontaneous, sensual, sexy, and grounded woman.

Date people from Alabama, United States. What I am: Confident, stable, sincere, honest, funny, polite, honest, loyal, dedicated, motivated, driven, persuasive, open-minded, sometimes out-going, sometimes reserved, compassionate, intelligent, sometimes quiet, sometimes I talk too much, a gentleman.
What I'm not: Dishonest, lazy, judgemental, impatient, tall, unsure, rude, disloyal, dramatic, boring, unhappy w/ myself, dependent, wealthy, broke, materialistic, always right, living w/ my mother, wearing a toupee in my pics or posting 10 year old 50 lbs. ago photos.
I've reached a point in my life where I'm sure of what I'm looking for but it's not very complicated. Aside from being attracted to one another; I think similar life situations work best w/ regards to kids, work, interests, etc. Blond or Brunette not so important. We all have our "deal breakers." I guess mine would include not wanting to date a smoker, someone who is seperated but not divorced and someone who can't accept that I have a 14 year old son and 21 year old daughter that I'm going to put first when it's our time together. I'm open to some distance as long as it's not too far away and is workable w/in our schedules.
So, there it is; an honest, better than average, profile...maybe even good. If not, hope to get lucky and meet someone nice anyway. Like I said, sometimes it's better to be lucky than good.

Meet a man from Alabama, United States. I just want to be upfront and honest. I am separated not divorced YET. I had my first court date on 2 July praying that this would be over. Well, since her lawyer could not get his act together, we have to go back on 7 September! I can't believe it.
Anyway, she and I are still in the same house (separate rooms). I am fighting for custody and i was informed that if i left the house, it would be seen as abandonment. I love my kids too much to leave them alone in a hostile environment.
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Ladies, I am a very simply guy. I like the simple things in life. I love being adventurous and playful. I can read a situation and adapt easily. I am a natural leader, and will step up to the plate if needs be. I am not the shy type but would rather accomplish things low key than in the spotlight. I do not need the accolades or attention.
I consider myself a gentleman. I teach my son to be a gentleman. Now I know people believe chivalry is dead. People also believe no one cares. I say different. If you show people you care, they will care as well. I teach my 10 year old son to open doors for women and elders, to put his sister on the inside of traffic when walking in a parking lot, to let her go upstairs before him and after him going downstairs. These are basic things every gentleman should know. I also teach my 8 year old daughter not to take advantage of it. I teach her a lady should never expect it but should always know how to react to it and appreciate it.
I have been on a diet for about two months and have gone from a 242 to a 226 in two months. I want to get down around 200 and see how i look. I hit the gym and have been eating less and healthier. I still love to go out to Connor's and enjoy a steak once in a while. I also love to grill! I make an awesome rib roast or a whole chicken or even turkey. They all grill beautifully.
I love to play sports rather than watch sports. You will not usually find me behind a TV every Saturday or Sunday waiting for the game to come on. I will either be cutting the grass, taking care of my roses or cleaning the car. If I have the kids, we bake cupcakes every Saturday morning. I try and plan taking them somewhere. We have gone to the TN Aquarium, Memphis Zoo and even the Dinosaur show at the VBC a couple of weeks ago. I help with the homework and coach the majority of their teams. I do have to say to all you moms that the best and worst things about coaching are the parents. If you have parents that help out, it is great, if you do not, it makes for a long season.
I am very protective of my children, so please, if we date, do not expect to meet them for a few months. I do this because i do not want to confuse them anymore than they already are.
Since i just mentioned dating, I am not a dateaholic, or i guess the right word is a player. I am not here for hook-ups or one nighters. Those days are way behind me. I just want, wish for, someone i can have an intelligent conversation with. Someone who is their own person and does not feel the need to hide things for the simple fact that she may not think i like it. I want her to say, we are going on a date night tonight, so get ready! lol.
I am upfront and honest. So to test me, you can even wear high heals when we meet!

Date someone special from Alabama, United States. Hola Bonita Flora! (ok, that's all the spanish I know)
Thank you so much for using your time to read about me. I find direct communication with a Lady to be the best way to give an experience of myself, and for me to gauge her personality. A healthy, happy partner is very important to me. Such is why I work hard to protect, provide, and pamper her. I am a man who believes in the traditional idea of family, and I commit to spending time nurturing my family. My mate, as well as my children, are a significant motivation for me to keep a healthy balance in life. When it comes to family, I focus on the little and big things equally; definitely when it comes to my Lady.
I am a very good listener; my life endeavors require such. My social life is very enriching for me. Straightforward, compassionate, simplistic, intuitive, and honest are the parameters of my communication. I am a dedicated, loving, confident, professional, Christian man with many successses, and who has a multi-faceted calling to serve. I have an array of talents and Spiritual gifts. My morals and ethical standards are above the norm. I govern my habits by these morals and ethics. I build myself up so to give my mate more pleasure. I am conservative and well poised when it comes to my behavior in public, but definitely know how to have a spontaneous good time. I desire the same of my mate.
I am a Jeremiah 17:7 Christian. I don't accept stress into my family life caused by arguments. I believe intellegent people discuss and assess, not argue. Life lessons have been a great teacher for me. There are SO many satisfying and joyful experiences to be had without those that are common with argumentative people; Love deserves better than that. Trust and honesty are two keys to happiness!
I am seeking a lady who is well poised and self-assured. A Lady whose morals and ethics clearly stand above the norm. She must have class, individuality, accountability, self-discipline, self-awareness, passion in her drive, appetite for the best in life, commitment to financial stability, sex appeal, and most importantly, a deep and living Spirituality. I am drawn to a Lady who looks at herself in the mirror with the "eyes of Christ" and governs how she leaves it with a confidence that she is drawing others to Him, not to that which He has blessed her. Are you are highly diverse Lady of integrity who bursts with personality? Are you personable and self-aware; can easily identify with all classes of people? Are you a Lady who doesn't identify her appearance as her greatest asset, but rather your strong faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior of your life? Are you strong when standing alone, yet desirous of a hero? If you possess these Spirit-led attributes and say "YES" to my question, I would love to meet you. It only takes a spark.;-)
I have multiple short-term and long-term goals and am very ambitous and entrepreneurial. One of my mottos is " a life without goals, is a life without purpose. The bible says "God gives us power to get wealth" as well as "he who finds a wife, finds a good thing, and receives favor from God". I left my career efforts to pursue graduate studies. Having finished (summa cum laude, yeah for me) this past March, I am now transitioning into a career phase and have chosen your area, which is why I am reaching out socially in your area. I would prefer not to get into the traditional search arena while beginning a new career in a new city.
If you would like for us to learn more about each other, let's communicate. I value life and time too much to minimize its use. I won't waste your time; Definitely won't bore you! :-) Sooo, let's meet... then allow the chemistry to move by Divine design. :-)

Meet a soulmate from Alabama, United States. Before I get too involved here, let me state that I have been Active Duty Air Force for the last 23 years.(Retiring soon) Thought I would put that out there upfront as the Military is not everyone’s cup of Tea. Alright, about me, I am 45 years old, never married, nor do I have any children. My background is of course Military and Law enforcement. I have spent time in the Middle East, Korea, Europe, Central America and am now currently Stationed in Alabama. So far I love the south, especially the weather. I was born and raised in Iowa and still have those Midwestern Values and Beliefs. Speaking of Values, if you voted for, or are a supporter of the current occupant of the White House, we will likely not get along. I am very easy going and love to kid around and have fun. I am a Huge Elvis Presley Fan and enjoy collecting his memorabilia. I am a meat and potatoes kind of Guy, not a Starbucks kind of Guy. I like to play Golf and spend time Boating and Water Skiing. I am a sports Fan, but Not a Fanatic. I cheer for the Steelers in the fall and The Yankees in the spring. I also love college Football and Cheer for the Iowa Hawkeyes...Sorry Bamma Fans. Physical attraction is important to me, as it is to most men (Honest ones anyway). I am attracted to what I see. I like a woman that is in shape, looks great in jeans and enjoys pleasing her man. Continuing on, I like conservative woman with traditional values and beliefs. Did I mention she must look great in Jeans? (Not those baggy hip hop jeans the kids wear)! Wink! I am not a man that is in touch with his feminine side, thats your job. I am in touch with my Masculine side, ( the only side i have). You see, thats the way this Boy / Girl thing works in case you had forgotten. I wish all of you the best and if you would like to chat, please send me an email. Winks will be ignored.
To those woman who's Headline reads "Are there any good men left",or that sentence reads somewhere in your profile. The Following is my response to those women. You will catch more bees with Honey than you will Vinegar!
Below are a few "OBSERVATIONS" of my experience thus far on Match.
1. Way too many mirror pics.
2. Currently Separated= Still Married
3. 2/3 of all the profiles on Match contain at least one pic that’s looking right down the front of a woman’s shirt. lol (Not Complaining)
4. No Pic, No Response.
5. Why post pictures of scenery or places you have traveled to if you’re not in the picture?
6. I don't quite understand all the pics of your cars and your pets either.
7. Lighten Up! Flirting used to be Fun and harmless. (still is to some people)
8. I'm most likely not going to follow clues and attempt to decifer codes hidden in someone's profile in order to contact them via another email or website. Just sayin... I'm payin.. I expect the same of you.
9. Beware of those that say they are "athletic and toned" but only post pics of their face. lol
10. Bikini pics are welcomed, encouraged and highly scrutinized. lol
11. Peolpe lose interest real quick on match. After one or two emails they just stop all contact with no explanation. Likely because they can hide behind their computer and dont have to provide one. (Actions speak louder than words)
12. Match needs to do a much better job at weeding out the fake profiles.....after all, i am paying for this!
13. I get more female interest walking to my mail box than having a profile on Match! lol
14.C Cups or better will move you directly to the front of the line! lol
15. Match does not allow you to turn off the auto renewel option. You have to call them to get off this site!
16. Too many profiles read like a freakin tampon commercial! C'mon ladies, be realistic. If you stop searching for Fabio you just might discover a Great guy.
17.Lastley...pics with your "X" cropped out. lol

Date men and women from United States. Im outgoing fun and looking for the same. Someone that is an independent thinker that is fast on her feet. Someone that hustles and is a go getter and a task master. Someone that loves fitness and exercise and someone that loves sports. A person with some integrity and character and wakes up everyday motivated to do what she does for a living. A person with a good sense of humor and well rounded and likes to have fun. I'm looking for someone who is kind spirited and loves people and can be in a relationship and can be honest. I would like to think that those people still exist, and that I can try to be everything she wants me to be for her and her do the same for me in return.

Meet single man from United States. I am not a subscriber any more. I still view the site and discover some very interesting people.
I would consider renewing to meet the right person.
I have just moved here and have met no one putside of work. By that, you can correctly assume that I spend too much time there. I am outgoing but can also let others lead the conversation.
I am just as happy spending time around the house as going out and also enjoy just sitting on a deck and curled up with someone special with a glass of wine.
I view life most often witjh humor and have occasionally been referred to as a smart ... aleck.

Date people from United States. im six ft tall love to fish and spend times out doors love to take long nature walks my favorite tv shows csi miami i have three kids two are married the other one is nine i adore all three of them im looking for some one with a great smile and personility ive heard this is a great place to find your match ive never tried a site like this before i know there is someone out there for me im dont judge on looks or how smart they are i sure hope there is someone for me i would love to find someone with the same interests as me like watching college football and nascar ive lived in alabama all my life i love my job i love hanging out with triends could this be you

Meet a man from United States. Ladies, if you like bad boys, I have bad news for you...I am a nice guy! To the point of being geeky sometimes. I was raised to be a gentleman, and that's the way I want to keep it. I'm also a grown adult and have no desire to revert back to my high school days like some women I've been with. I WANT A RELATIONSHIP! I'm laid back and prefer as little drama as possible. That's an ironic statement coming from someone who's a part-time actor, but I leave my drama on the stage or in front of the camera.
On the subject of children: I always thought it would be nice to have kids of my own, whether biological or adopted. But I have to be realistic. So I would consider a woman who has kids and doesn't want any more. I personally think I would make a great step-father. I have a lot of love and caring to share.
As far as physical activity, I do weights, walking, jogging and swimming...but only to stay in shape. I don't spend all my hours doing physical activity. I prefer a woman who likes to go to movies, theatre, museums and coffee/book shops. A nice restaurant here and there, and I like a good hole-in-the-wall place from time to time(especially BBQ joints).
I love comedy. Because of my part-time gig at the Comedy Club, I can get free tix at certain times; or at the very least, BOGO. So if you want to see a comedian, let me know.
I drink socially, but I'm really not a bar kind of person. I prefer a small gathering around people I love.
I'm grateful for my birth mother that I met about 10 years ago. My adoptive parents have been dead for years and my biological mom has been a godsend in my life.
I owned a business years ago that failed, but I have learned from my mistakes and would like to make another go of it sometime.
I want to be a writer. I've been working on my memoirs for a few years now and want to publish them someday.
I love acting. If I could do that full-time I would, but that's impossible in Birmingham. I am a full-time salesperson.
I'm not necessarily looking for someone who is just like me, but someone who can accept my quirks. Someone who loves me for me. And I want to do the same for that woman.
I could go on longer, but I'm tired of writing. If you have any questions, I'll answer them.

Date someone special from United States. someone how can make me laugh and believe in some of the somethings and see we're. life can go.Iam out go and in to sport going for walks and more who know what she like .someone who look hear or see that .

Meet a soulmate from United States. I'm 6ft tall abot 190 pounds very athelet love to ride my harley and horses.like to go out dancing or just hanging out and go to movies it dont have to be anything bit it can just walking in the park and camping.