Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Honoraville, 45 year old

Date people from Alabama, United States. (Profile Pic: 4OCT11) I am monogamous, devoted, focused, generous, reliable, fair-minded, and honest. . II've been divorced for long time, and had some long term relationships after that. I have anecdotes to thrill. I try to keep things fairly uncomplicated.
Dana Carvey said "Women all want a man with strong shoulders, washboard abs, and the ability to share their feelings, but you can't have that guy, 'cuz he has a boyfriend!" All the same, I have been blessed with good genes and I normally run wide open (i,e, I can be very energetic on my downtime, but I like to cruise and pamper my lady to be able to sneak in even more 'cruise' time)...
I'm drawn to intelligent, kind, honest, strong, engaging, monogamous, beautiful woman that have a spark of life left within, after all the storms. And by beautiful, a good woman will know what I mean. We've all had disappointments in the past, I admire those who haven't remained embittered by theirs. I don't even mind if you have yet to completely resolve past relationship issues (it's called LIFE, you're only done, when you're "done"), as long as you are capable and willing to work things through to some sort of resolution (with or without my help and I'm not a shrink). My ideal match would have the ability to trust me and be willing to disassociate me from the bad guys she may have known before. Most any occupation or even none is fine, ...balance is the key. My ideal match is emotionally unfettered and capable of both feeling and expressing LOVE. I seek a lady that I can openly, yet respectfully, show affection for (yes, even in public) and that will appreciate being cared for by a gentleman. (Yes, we exist, and it's OK to try something different than those Bozos youi're used to.) All it takes is honesty.
I love Orange County, and It's amazing to live where world-travelers crave to spend a vacation...I can think of a thousand things to do here. I love the ocean, and most anything to do with the water. I love boats, prefer sailing, but just being near the water recharges my soul. You are safe around the sea with me, as much as Neptune allows.