Date men from United States / California / Union City, 33 year old

Date someone special from Union City, United States. In a nutshell. I'm simple complex at the same time. I'm pretty easy going. I'm into interesting conversations but I'm not so great at small talk. I'm very nice. Yada yada....
Question for you.....what does it take to be a "match" and to develop a long lasting relationship, rather it be romantic or friendship?
I've been in the Bay Area a whole year now....wow...time flies.
Trying to meet new people. It'd be great to really meet someone on this site and have a long lasting relationship but I'm here for friends as well.
I don't really have a "type" that I'm looking for, I'm a huge fan of diversity.
Personality wise, I'm an Aquarius if that helps any. =P So basically I'm idealistic, I like to make long lasting friendships.
I have a dry sense of humor I guess. But the more I get to know you the funnier I get I guess, I'm honestly pretty quiet in the beginning though. I can be serious or silly, depending on the situation.
I don't curse. lol, so I use substitute words like friggin.
Also my Meyers-Briggs personality type is INTP (introversion, intuition, thinking, perceiving)
So in closing, meh....just come say hi. Meet someone new who's also looking to meet someone new.