Date men from United States / California / Mira Mesa, 33 year old

Date a soulmate from Mira Mesa, United States. Hi...
First, I am not looking for my soul-mate, or a long-term relationship. These labels are defined over time through understanding and laughter, and not created by a wink or a few emails. I would like to meet someone who enjoys the same activities, movies, and quiet moments I do, and then build a relationship, or friendship, over time.
Second, I am not into the typical first date. I would rather go indoor rock-climbing, golfing, dancing, or a comedy club than sit across the table from someone and watch them eat salad. Memories are based on interesting experiences, not getting-to-know-you small talk.
Third, I am diverse, open-minded, and very active. Show me something, teach me something, and introduce me to something new. Trust me; I hope I get the chance to do the same for you.
What is any man but the total of what he has seen? The sum of what he has done? The strange foods, the women whose bodies have merged with his, the smells, the tastes, the longings, the dreams, the haunted nights? ~ Louis L'amour