Date a soulmate from San Clemente, United States. I live in San Clemente... I am a sinlge father and my son lives with me full time and every other weekend with his mom. I also have twin daughters that are 18 and live in Kansas on their own. I had kids at a young age and was busy with taking care of my family. Now that all my kids are older I have the time to pretty much look out for me!
I have a job that I love.. Just following in my fathers foot steps. I spent 8 years in the Navy before that. I am respectful to those who deserve it. My thought is treat others they way you would want to be treated. So respect, love, honesty and loyalty are big on my list. If you show me love, I will give you my soul.
I have zero drama with my Ex.. We show each other total respect.
I'm just a normal guy... I love to stay active and do outdoors activities, Surf, Snowboard, Camp, Fish, Hike, Jogging, Random trips to nowhere. But I also love to just sit and relax at home. I don't frequent bars or clubs. I don't drink unless its casual... I found that alcohol can and will ruin a relationship... Not on my part!! Don't need to be drunk to have a good time, Just saying!
I play upright bass in a band. I do have tattoos, but don't care if you have them, I do not have a preference. Don't let the tattoos fool you! I can dress up and you would have never known I had them. My work also has policy against visable skin art.. Also don't judge. Tattoos are my form of expression, just like my music.
On a lighter note..... Uhem... I love to sing at the top of my lungs while cooking, driving and cleaning! I have been known to do random dance moves while grocery shopping. On occasion I will give you a kiss on the cheek and run away like a 6 year old..... Been known to be very shy... But will definitely talk your ear off. I know random useless facts, like why tigers have big white spots on the back of their ears... Ask and I'll tell you!
I work in L.A. so I drive a lot... So I don't mind meeting anyone, anywhere, if we decide to meet. Have car will travel....
Now for another serious note:
I've been on this site before. My expectations have changed. If you really want to meet me or even try to go out on a date. Leave me a message, I don't bite... I am truly a nice person and want the same. I'm looking for someone who can just enjoy sitting at the beach with me, watching my kid surf... lol
I believe most of the people on this site are here for the entertainment value... After all this is the Craigslist of dating website..... Right?
I am REALLY looking to date someone... Maybe something serious.... If we both think we're up for it. I'm looking for long term but want to take things slow. If you are willing to get to know me and I you, a couple of drinks on the pier just talking is ideal..
Meet single man from San Clemente, United States. Hi. Thanks for stopping to check out my profile. I'm over the bar scene dating years, and would rather meet people other ways. I'm ready for someone awesome and substantial in my life. I'm an independent person. I like creative people ( as in artistic ) not liars. I paint murals, I work hard, I play several instruments. I surf and I love snowboarding. I am who I am. I like me. You will too. I'm not in jr. High, I'm sure you aren't either. Send me a message if you're interested. Don't WINK, it's really lame.
Date someone special from San Clemente, United States. I enjoy anything, but especially the beach,I like all kinds of music, I tend to fill my relaxing times with my friends and family. I am looking for someone that is wanting to meet new people and create a bigger group of friends, if anything we can get our group of friends together. I am looking for an email, Winks are a sweet thought but I want to talk not look.
Meet a man from San Clemente, United States. i'm just checking out the site and am not really ready to type a detailed "describe yourself". Perhaps later I will be able to create a proper profile and use this site to it's full extent. I still have a few more characters to type
Date a soulmate from United States. Hi I'm quite the busy bee. I spend long days at work and when off am ready to play. Looking for a gal who's ready to hit the sandy beaches or just slip into some jammies and snuggle up to a good movie.
Meet a soulmate from San Clemente, United States. Who am I? I'm a very open, hard working, educated, funny, good listener, loyal, father of two amazing kids. I love to laugh and seeing a smile on someone's face goes a long way. Life happens fast and not always how you expect, but if you can learn to find that silver lining and laugh at yourself and your mistakes things will be just fine.
I don't seem to go to the right places to meet that special someone. I'm not sure where exactly that is either.
Recently, I have taken the time to start enjoying the views and sunsets. It's not a bad way to spend a quiet night, especially when you can hang with a couple buds. Light with lime. Not my first choice, but it's what I have in the fridge at the moment. I am not a big drinker but I enjoy happy hour with a friend. Sundried Tomatoes in San Clemente is a favorite spot of ours.
I grew up in the midwest, Missouri, and have lived out in the OC since 1998. I barely remember life before living in Cali, but it was a good life. Cold and humid, but good! :)
So what do I like to do... Working seem to supersede everything lately. I enjoy playing golf, working out, bike riding, playing with the kids, and hanging with friends chilling or watching a game over a couple brews.
Being a midwesterner by nature I can talk to almost anyone about anything. Communication, humor, honesty, and a willingness to grow as a person are keys to any relationship.
Always continue learning and trying to better myself. I am not perfect by any stretch, but I am not one to pass judgment on others either. I am a christian, but I'm by no means a fanatic and I fall short daily.
Thanks for reading!
Date single man from San Clemente, United States. I'm originally from Pennsylvania, so am a big Steelers fan. Try and get back east a few times a year to visit family and friends.
Here are a few words used to describe me:
Funny
Kind
Generous
Sarcastic
Outgoing
Adventurous
Intelligent
I have a quirky sense of humor, but am very quick, and a bit sarcastic. I read a lot, so I usually have good "current" materials, and also am comfortable in most any crowd. I manage a golf course, and recently started my own management company, so I'm busy at work, but it's a lot of fun.
I adopted a dog last summer (see photos above, haha, he's a "lab mix") and he takes me for a walk every day. We (the dog and I) live near the beach trail in San Clemente, so it's nice, great way to end the day, watching the sunset with my best friend. He's maybe not the brightest dog, (or maybe it's my training?) but he is a great dog, and despite his intimidating look, and ferocious bark, he's more likely to lick you to death.
I have a big family, and am very close to all of them. One of my nephews got me to play hockey with him in a league, (I played when I was in college) and we have a great time doing that. We also are working on restoring a 1969 Chevelle together.
I enjoy most outdoor activities, volleyball, golf, tennis, inline hockey, riding my bike, kayaking, and my motorcycle...
I'm a good cook, but usually stick to doing BBQ meals, it's less work and cleanup.
Anything else, you'll have to ask, I have a wide variety of interests.
Good luck in your respective searches!
Meet someone special from San Clemente, United States. I am about fun dates and laughs, and meeting new people through this site.
I am a Socal transplant from New York (my second go round) and am new to South OC. I rather get out and do things, instead of bar hopping- so checking out match.com to broaden my horizons. I travel in Socal during the week and enjoy a challenging and rewarding career that has given me a chance to put my roots down for good in CA! As a transplant, that is important, knowing hat my career will keep me here or Hawaii in the future. I live @ the beach in San Clemente, and could not live in a more desirable location. I love it, footsteps to the beach, the ONLY way to live! I have lived in LA (I loveee LA!) and San Diego,and enjoy traveling to those places for concerts and seeing good friends I have made along the way.I travel often, and look forward to travelling to Europe, its long overdue!
My friends would describe me as REAL, funny (sometimes hysterical) and dependable. If you are a friend of mine- I look out for you, its the New York way ;-)
I guess in general, I am looking for someone who enjoys California's beautiful days, as well as fun nights! I have lived in a few different states, and California has them ALL beat!
I love sports, play in two softball leagues, took up Yoga last year, and enjoy the surf most of all! Additionally, I am a big fan of hiking and have found lots of trails that are beautiful and provide a great workout. Looking forward to a great summer, and sharing the good times Socal life provides!
By the way, Music can highlight anything and everything, I love the outdoor venues, especially concerts at the Hollywood Bowl!
Date a man from United States. I'm honest to a fault. I love my two kids more than I ever thought possible...but I don't expect anyone else to as much as I do. It would be a big plus, though. I love laughing, but not as much as making others laugh - I can be a complete goofball or witty and sarcastic, depending on the day. I enjoy tinkering with things. I think material belongings are temporary ways to fill voids in our lives. As such, I'm not wealthy in a financial sense, nor do I ever wish to be. If you're looking for someone to shower you with extravagance, I'm not your guy. If you want to laugh every day and feel loved, however, then I just might be. I just read "The Purpose Driven Life" and found a good portion of it very worthwhile. I've always tried to give back to the community, and think more people should. I constantly question why I was born where I was - and not somewhere else. Especially after watching the news sometimes. I'm terrified of rollercoasters. I'm very affectionate (not a Mr. Grabby-pants, but I do like holding hands, hugs, deep & meaningful kisses, and generally acting much younger than I am...at least with that special someone). I don't text too much, but love technology otherwise. I can wire a new ceiling fan, upgrade your computer's memory, or change your car's brakes. Sexy, huh? Yeah, not so much. But handy! I love movies with a twist...like Memento or Shawshank Redemption. Will Ferrell and Tina Fey are hilarious. I'm not so much into watching sports, but relationships are about compromises, aren't they? : ). Life is good...I just want to share it with someone special. Grow old together. Princess Bride-stuff...happily ever after, maybe a bit cheesy, but true.
Update1: regarding the separation - it's been over two years, paperwork is filed. Just waiting for a job w/ benefits to come through for my ex before making it final. I won't leave her without medical insurance - not after the sacrifices (her career) she made for me during marriage. It is a very amicable situation, we've chosen to behave like adults because our two kids deserve that.
Update2: DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND READ, "THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES" BY GARY CHAPMAN. IT'S A PHENOMENAL BOOK!!!!!
Update 3: I completely understand not wanting to date someone who is separated. That said, please read my profile to understand WHY. Also, I would hope my honesty and full disclosure would count for something...not every guy is as truthful. Bonus points for the honest guy? : )
Meet single man from San Clemente, United States. Hello Match.com,
I am here to find my special someone. A woman who is kind, loyal, happy, and fun.
Someone who believes in old fashion honesty, kindness, and sincerity.
A woman I can admire for her brains, looks, and personality.
I am an honest, loyal, and generous man; who is also intelligent, creative, and curious. (I simply love to learn new things)
I believe in being healthy and taking care of those around me as well as being good to the environment.
My friends joke that I am an "Over-Grown Boy Scout", so no Bad Boy here.
As for the rest, I hope you get to know me to find out.
Date a man from San Clemente, United States. For sale: one adventurous, intelligent, caring, honest and spontaneous guy. Loves his kids, his dogs, his guitars, his job and the great outdoors. Equally at home at dive and wine bars...completely house broken.
Simply put: I'm a good guy who loves to have fun, laugh and has both a sharp wit and sense of humor...oh, and I have a Jeep and play guitar!
Meet a soulmate from San Clemente, United States. Me: casual, warm, honest, athletic... I've been told I'm charming (you can be the judge :). Surfing is my passion. My family is incredibly important to me. I'm assertive and ambitious, yet can be super laid back. I am humble, with a sarcastic, fun-loving spirit. I am loyal. There is no question I'll make you laugh! Sarcasm is a form of banter, so please don't take yourself too seriously... I've lived abroad in Spain and Costa Rica and consider myself well-travelled.
You: intelligent, positive, engaging, affectionate and warm... Good family values a must... a good communicator...loyalty is a non negotiable. Uhhh, hopefully you dig the beach , are super playful and fun, enjoy simple nights at home, have a solid group of friends, love your family, dig music, enjoy talking, and are beautiful inside and out!