Date women from United States / California / Redding, 55 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. my friends are dear to me. I am caring and love to cook for them. I love to dance not weekly but to the radio. I am so grateful to be single and send my kids threw college and there doing great and live on there own. I am looking for a person who has a great sense of humor. No NO mean persons of hot headed. I am happy staying at home but do like walking. I am looking for a good person. I am passionate about gardening and cooking.

Meet a woman from California, United States. enjoy laughing, no drama, country living, fall and the spring are my favorite seasons, enjoy canning in the summer and cooking on the barbie, cudding in front of a fire place and watching a good movie

Date someone special from California, United States. Ok so lets start over from the get go. I had a lot of stuff about me here and decided to take it all out and redo my "about me" info.
Shooting from the hip, I think I'm a little tired of all the men here that are 50-60 and saying they're looking for a woman "their age".
Yeah you might want her YOUR AGE, but you want her to have the body of a 22 year old. Ok well if you've got lots of money, Viagra no doze, GO FOR IT....But within 6mths to a year you're gonna be so worn out you're not gonna know what hit you. If you're really looking for a lady to share your dreams, views and aspirations with, then guys get real. Gravity is no longer our friend, you're not as good looking as you think you are...NONE of us are any more, some where along the road we got a little worn around the edges and life kicked us in the butt. Realize that and you'll have a much better chance of finding that special "someone" not just MS GOOD TIME. She's on ever street corner in L.A. but you wouldn't really want to take her home to momma now would you? I'm sorry if I sound cynical, but after being here for 4 months and being ignored for the most part, I have just got to let every one of you know I'm not here to satisfy YOUR needs, I'm here to satisfy MINE. And so far, every one of you have let me down. I send a wink, an e-mail, and 99.9% of the time, I don't even get the common courtesy of being told...sorry, nope I don't think we'd be a match. Makes you feel like you should have been thrown out with the bad fish from last week. So come one guys, if you don't like some one, at least be honest with them and let them know.
I may not be a goddess in YOUR eyes, but I am in mine, and that's good enough for me. Maybe this will get through to some of you lunk heads out there that the women on here are people too and we have feelings that even thru the flat screen you guys still have a bad habit of stepping on those feelings. Wake up, smell the coffee, you're getting older too, do you honestly think that a sweet young thing is interested in ANYTHING from you other than your ability to pay for any thing and everything she wants? And you still might be left standing out in the cold after you've had your wallet ripped off your fanny.
I'm real and 100% female, you scratch my back I'll scratch yours, but I will not put up with BS from men that think they are gods gift to woman kind when they are headed real close to 60 and NOT RICHIE RICH!! Having good self esteem is great, but be REAL ok. All MY pictures are recent, with in the last 6 months, can you say the same? I don't want to know what you looked like 10-15 years ago ,I want to know what you look like when you get out of bed in the morning. Did you casually scratch yourself as you walked to the bathroom, comfortable in the fact that no one could see you? Let out a big burp on the way? These are the type of things that are HONEST DAILY LIFE. Not....oh I was the captain of the football team in high school...so what, how many years ago was that?
Would your high school chums recognize you today, walking down the street? Would you recognize them? Give life and some of us women that have had great relationships a chance to have other great relationships. I was with the same man for 26 years before he passed away. I wouldn't have been around that long if we didn't love each other. I think I've still got that much love (if not more) available for someone special in my life. Remember too that Plain Jane's are quicker to get ready to go some where and we're NOT high maintenance. Not afraid to get our hands dirty or worry about chipping a nail. So look around, see what the real deal and what your fantasy is and make some compromises, life is all about compromise...not settling, but compromise, you'll find love and happiness knocking on your door before you know it. Don't judge a book by it's cover, we've all got a unique story to tell of how we got from there to here.

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Things I find attractive in my man are also attributes that describe myself...
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