Date people from Long Beach, United States. How difficult it is to describe myself and suggest what I'm looking for. I am definitely looking for a guy who makes me think and laugh. A man who is curious, sensuous, tactile, and wanting to share ideas and experiences sounds good. A Fella who is introspective and sensitive, but not a doormat, adventurous, but not reckless, strong, but not unfair and likes to share, but is not smothering, would be super. If you have a passport, that's icing on the cake. You are now thinking "what a fantasy", right? Well . . . Of course. But, SOME of those attributes would be very welcome.
I am long divorced, newly retired, and recently relocated to Long Beach from Northern Ca. My childhood was spent in rural Colorado, my teens in the San Gabriel Valley, my 19th year in Germany and most of my adult years in Sonoma Co. I'm not sure where I belong but find I am liking LB just fine.
I love to travel, both out of country and in, but find local drives and just walking around in LB fun also. I've a bit of a fireman personality and like equal amounts of excitement and downtime. I'm crazy about live theater and all the arts, though not well schooled. I probably read equal amounts of non fiction and fiction (mostly mysteries). I find a swap meet or county fair just as entertaining as the theater. I like cooking, gardening, most music, movies ( old and new), good conversation, and love my family. I'm a proud mother of three and have seven grandchildren. Five live in Northern Ca. and two live in Thailand, but I can claim a close relationship with all.
My career years as a psychotherapist were mostly spent as a sedentary workaholic. I began a lifestyle change a couple years ago that sees me eating more healthily, though I'm not such a fanatic that I ever pass up chocolate ice cream or a nice glass of wine. I usually walk, hike, or swim 4 or 5 times a week and look forward to new activities. I've still a few pounds to shed but they will disappear like the others - slowly and without a crazy rigid diet. My photos are current.
I'm well educated which means I'm aware of how much I don't know! I'm also a critical thinker and definitely opinionated, but willing and able to change my mind and compromise when faced with evidence contrary to my belief. I have about zero tolerance for bickering and drama, preferring to talk things out or at least agree to disagree. Most things aren't worth arguing over.
I was raised Catholic but the last twenty five years resulted in a slow evolution to a position of a non believer. I am, however fascinated by religion and how it defines culture and politics. It can't be surprising that I'm also fairly liberal. I consider travel outside the US to be the most important aspect of my education although I have an advanced degree. Friends consider me to be painfully honest, but kind, even tempered, though passionate, emotionally strong, optimistic, loyal, tenacious, creative, and funny. I see some contradiction there but thats what they say! My children often suggest I'm a bit off my rocker but the grandchildren think I'm second only to Santa. My favorite time of day is morning, but I can stay up late also. I have never smoked and have a low physical tolerance for alcohol so am a complete failure at the bar scene. Two drinks and I'm silly, three drinks and I'm sleeping. I'm also a lousy dancer but am willing to try.
I believe all relationships are based on mutual respect and trust. Humor, good communication, some common interests, some interesting differences and surprise, make relationships rich. But, attraction and sensuality make them MAGIC. Why shouldn't we have it all after the years of working and child raising?
Meet a soulmate from Long Beach, United States. I am a happy person with a fun sense of humor. I am passionate about interpersonal relationships. The love of mankind is what makes this crazy planet worth living on. I am interested in a fun gentleman with a kind heart. If I was physically attracted to him, that would be great!
I have had a successful career as an educator. I have taught elementary school and been an administrator. I love children. I am currently working part time for an instructional research company and considering working on a phd --but then again, maybe not.
I play golf but only three par, I love the movies, and the beach. I can sail a small boat and did some racing in the past.
this talking about myself is not that comfortable to me.
I am totally self sufficient except for the romantic part of life. My husband died in 2011 and I am not quite sure how to go about dating so here I am.
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Date a woman from Long Beach, United States. You will never find me turning down going to any sports events. I raised three boys and have led a very active life. I have traveled to many places since early retirement 3 years ago as a banking executive. Places like Scotland, Italy, twice to Switzerland,and Paris internationally. In the US, I took an Alaskan cruise and a three week motor home trip from the mid-west to all the New England states and through New York, Washington DC and even down into West Virginia which is where I was born and lived for first 12 years. Moved from there to California and to date So. California is my home.(currently Long Beach). Also have a home in Wichita, Kansas where my three brothers and sister and their families live.Currently have it listed to sell. As well I have just bought a condo in Palm Desert on a golf course. Planning on spending time there as a second home. I am very close to my three sons and all my siblings. Family and friends are very important to me. I have been divorced for last twelve years. Have done some dating but until now I have been healing from my divorce but think I am ready to pursue a relationship. I am looking for someone who is family oriented, loyal and honest. Hopefully you will like sports and my very favorite is baseball. I love baseball.Go Angels....I can go from a night at home to anything outside the home such as a movie, dinner,play, concert etc. I enjoy all types of music. You can't really stump me on music or food. Like all types of food. I will try any type of food for the experience. Love to BBQ and cook at home also. I am comfortable being alone to being in a large group. Little bit quieter in groups where I don't know anyone but work through it pretty quickly. Enjoy reading and gardening. My home is very important to me. Guess I'm a nester. I am looking for someone who likes the things I like but am open to doing new things. Looking for companionship/friendship far more than marriage but if it ends that way, wonderful. Looking for emotional support not financial support. I have had to be independent for a lot of years but would love to have someone in my life to share things with and know they will have my back and vice-versa. If you feel a connection after reading my profile, I would love to hear from you. If not, I wish you all the best in finding what you are looking for.
Meet men and women from Long Beach, United States. I am an energetic woman who loves her family, friends and life style. I enjoy the arts, mostly an off broadway kind of a gal, and belong to a number of art museums. I love cooking and fabulous restaurants but prefer small ethnic to overpriced overrated. That being said I still morn the closing of El Buli. I travel frequently to europe, worked in Japan and Hiked in Bhutan. I read the New York times do the crosswords, well monday and tuesday and struggle and cheat my way through the rest of the week. Currently hooked on I Tunes U where I am watching Michael Sandel's lecture series on Justice. But mostly I am a big flirt with a big smile, very spontaneous and I love to hold hands.
Date someone special from Long Beach, United States. I'm A very strong independent woman. I'm outgoing, caring, and brutally honest. What you see is what you get ;) I'm looking for friendship with sincere like minded people. I'm a proud retired mother and grandmother. I'm ready to relax and enjoy my life stress and drama free.
Meet people from California, United States. I love intelliegent men who are not afraid to show their compassionate side. I love adventure and new things. I like to work out but I also know the importance of taking time to empty myself out in order to fill myself up again. Relationships are hard but are well worth the effort. My friends would say that I am passionate, caring and fun to be with. I am not afraid to speak my mind but also respect the thoughts of others. What about you? Family is important to me and I would hope you feel the same way and that you treasure your children, as I treasure my own. Spirituality is an aspect of life that is critical to my own life and that of a future special someone in my life. Together with a deep sense of spirituality would be the ability to share and demonstrate emotional support for each other. The foundation of a long and lasting relationship is the ability to share intimate thoughts and feelings. My perfect match should demonstrate respect for himself by taking good care of both his spiritual self and physical self. Physical activity is a way of life for me. Do you take good care of yourself and incorporate physical activity in your weekly activities? Life is short and I do not want to have any regrets about my life. How about you? Do you live out your potential and continue to grow and learn? Are you a life-long learner? (I am proud to say I finished my master's degree in 2005; one month before my son graduated from Cal Poly Pomona). If so, you may be that special person that I need to meet and get to know over iced coffee, that could possibly lead to dinner if we make a connection?
Date a soulmate from California, United States. Right now I feel very cautious about sharing my personal information with strangers.
After my husband died I became very withdrawn, finding it very hard letting go of my grief.
Now I feel skeptical about the possibilities of meeting someone I can enjoy being with and who will feel the same way about me...we shall see.
To Be Continued...
Meet a woman from California, United States. I'm looking in a relatioship, be faitfull, conservative, good manners, neat, passionate, has place to live, be good USA.,citizen, etc. I'm able to give that and much more. I;ve 1 canary, 4 cockatails, 4 love birds and 1 yellow head, those and 1 chihuahua dog, also 1 desert turtle, and 4 betas fish, I love animals, and I hope my friend too. I like to cook sometimes for to please and someone, I'm really good cooking. I'm ordinary person with strong personality even than I very shy, I enjoy dress casual, like good perfumes,
Date men and women from California, United States. I am a 61 year old woman who really doesn't feel her age. I've been independent most of my life and enjoy hanging out with friends and family. I would love to meet someone who is into traveling, dining or just relaxing in the yard with a good book and a glass of wine. If you don't take life too seriously and want to get the most out of it while you can, that would be perfect. Know that I like to have my own space and hope you feel the same way. I If you think we might click, please contact me and we'll meet for coffee.
Meet someone special from California, United States. It is no small task to describe yourself for this profile: how much is too much and how much is not enough. I will start by saying that I look like my picture. Since it is a head shot I will say that I am of average build, 5'8" and I am told I dress well.
I love to laugh.
Family and long term friends have blessed my life and kept me smiling.
Entertaining,cooking,sharing good wine or a killer martini are all on my "to do" list. It can be a romantic dinner for two or a feast with as many as you can get at the table. I enjoy them both.
I have always loved travel and been able to do quite a bit but I find I am not comfortable going without a companion.
Reading is my passion, history particularly but I indulge in the historical novel and love the popular crime novels too.In a pinch I will read an instruction booklet
I do not have my nose stuck in a book all the time nor am I a couch potato.
I walk and do Pilates regularly to try and stay fit...along with the regular regimen of food denial we all suffer thru! But I am not manic about it.
When it comes to religion, I believe in family values and that pretty well describes my political position too. I am not strident but I often find myself watching Fox News and feeling at home.
Which brings me to what I look for in a man:
family values
I believe character matters
I want a leader not a follower
successful,
confidant but not conceited
a gentleman of experience who has managed to retain his sense of honor...and a sense of romance.
Date people from United States. Life is good. I'm a happy optimistic person who wakes up each day with a positive attitude and enthusiasm for whatever comes.
I am monumentally grateful for friends who I hold close to my heart, a loving family and a beautiful home. It is important to me to be fit and I work at it nearly every day with a healthful diet and exercise. Cooking and entertaining at home are one of my favorite ways to spend an evening, though don't get me wrong, I'm a wine me and dine me girl as well.
It seems that all that's missing is that certain someone to share the ride; a playmate, a confidant, that person who is my matched opposite. He excels where I do not and I excel in areas where he does not. We are better together than either of us is separately. We expect and bring out the best in eachother.
I would love to meet someone with emotional intellect who loves to laugh, is kind and smart. He is assertive and yet an excellent listener. He's interested in sharing fine things and simple things. When it comes to travel, his bags are packed. HE PLAYS GOLF but doesn't have to be a low handicapper, just enjoys the game and his partner. I'll share his interests with him, if he'll indulge mine in music, theatre. ballet. Wouldn't it be wonderful to discover some new interest together?
Meet a soulmate from United States. Looking for someone down to earth who is happy being himself and is passionate about life and helping others. The someone must be honest, sweet, and financially stable. Non-smoker.
Grateful to be alive and have a nice supportive family and friends.