Date women from United States / California / Corona, 68 year old

Date someone special from Corona, United States. ......You'll always get what you've always gotten! So says a little plaque that has sat on my desk for many, many years. Sooooo.....since I haven't gotten what I want and don't plan to spend years here (as many of you claim to have done) and having learned a bit more about what I am searching for, I am rewriting my profile. Well, here goes......
The stated age range is flexible by only a couple of years, and then only if you write me one h..ll of an email. Looking for a monogamous long-term relationship. One that will include shared families and friends. While hand holding and cuddling by the fire are wonderfully nice, an intimate relationship that is both deeper and more exciting helps build a connection that withstands the challenges of time. Guy pals are fun and travel companions nice to have, but I am looking for a bit of added spice in the relationship.
The stuff about interests is very flexible for me as long as it isn't one dimensional. In my past lives I owned and rode horses, had dogs, cats, birds and lizards, harvested and canned food, caught, skinned and cleaned fish, hiked and tent camped, bicycled across Nebraska, white water rafted the Ocoee, cross country skied, sailed inland lakes, and went to Road America races. Even though a lot of it was out of my comfort level and I ended up in the hospital twice, I enjoyed those experiences and would be happy to do scaled down age appropriate version.. My exposure to theater, opera, concerts, museums and other cultural events is minimal and I would love to do more of those types of activities. I took 10 years of piano but haven't played for 30 years, can't carry a tune, but I got rhythm and would love to dance.
My personality is a mix of ENTJ and INTP. You can google those although just NT will give you a strong sense of how I think and act. While a bit unconventional in my beliefs and attitudes, behavior-wise still small-town midwest Protestant girl -- at least in public and most of the time! I am attracted to those with equally strong personalities (but not necessarily the same type) with an edgy type of humor. Looking for someone who is also well grounded and stable but at the right place and time can let loose and be a little crazy or at least has a bit of adventure left in their soul. Perpetually curious I seek same. Neat...but not too neat. Clean...but not too clean. Romantic...but not too romantic. Nice looking...but not too nice looking. Successful...but not too.......oh, just not tooooo anything, please! (Well...maybe I can think of a couple of things I'd like toooo much of but you won't find that out on line).
I'll reply to any winks and emails that have profiles that remotely seem to meet my above criteria. Distance can pose a problem, but if you want to traverse however far, that's up to you....just know I'm not looking for a penpal. After 3-4 emails and perhaps a phone call or two, I expect to meet you whatever the distance. And please feel free to ask me early on about any show stoppers or deal breakers you might have regarding me. I will be honest and am not easily embarrassed or offended.
If you managed to get this far....I wish you your m.c desire (as long as it's legal - lol)